Pls, i need your help. My girlfriend just informed me that she is pregnant for me and i'm not yet ready for family life. I don't know what to do?

Hey dopehead, were we there when you were doing the "panashuku"?Abi you no know say if you feed chicken well well, e go lay eggs?

honestly speaking, you are a lucky man. You mean your girlfriend is pregnant? Wow - this is what some families had been praying to God for, and they have waited years for an answer, and this is what you just got without blinking an eyelid? Look, you need to do a big big big celebration, you need to bless the name of almighty God, that is what you should be thinking of doing.

Look, there is no two way about it, you are already a father, even if you pray from now till tomorrow for a mis carriage, you are making a mistake, even if you like pray hard for the girl to say you are not the father, you are already making a mistake, and if you try abortion, it is you who will die in the process, not her or the baby, it is your intestines they will remove and put on the show when she goes for abortion, look, i congratulate you for your effort in impregnating your girlfriend, it is not an easy thing.

Do you need party shoes for the naming ceremoney, or traditional aso oke, dont worry, I am ready to supply you for free, dont worry, are you thinking how you will foot the bill of the party? Come to me, call 08076789876, ask for Tombs, Tombs, Tombs - you have nothing to worry about.

Just pray that the pregnancy is four, three, or even two boys, for this, you will be happy forever - well, dont let me spoil your mood by too much writting, but know that you are a lucky man, keep up the good work as i see that in two months time, five more of your girlfriend will be pregnant the same way.

Amen.

What happened to your condoms?

Wo ore wa, eran to o danikan pa, iwo nikan lo maa da jee.Alakori Okunrin!

Sky-walker:

What happened to your condoms?

it must have broke or sometin

@ poster

U and ur girl are careless.

IT CALLS FOR BIG CELEBRATION
CONGRATULATION ONCE AGAIN

You didn't ask us to help you to impregnate her, did you? Now carry the cross
If you don't want to take responsibility for your own action then go jump over the cliff & she'll leave you alone.
_{Dive safely!!!}

billyfranc:

Pls, i need your help. My girlfriend just informed me that she is pregnant for me and i'm not yet ready for family life. I don't know what to do?

Calm down and don't do anything silly.
The milk is spilled already,so no need to cry over where was or what happened to condoms or why you had to be in the kitchen if you couldn't stnad the heat,no blames here.Stuff like this happen every minute
This your girlfriend,you wont mind having her as a wife, no?how old are you guys?are you working already?how old is the pregnancy?
I am not going to recommend anything here sorry,but just calm down,IT HAS HAPPENED,IT HAS HAPPENED so how best should you manage the situation.You really need to calm down,look around you for one or two older/more mature people you trust and  feel can advice you then confide in them and hear what they'll have to say
Just bear in mind that whatever you decide to do must be done with a calm head

@sky-walker and lady bam. I don't know how it happened. I can remember wearing my condom. The sex was so sweet that i may not even know whether the condom broke or something else. Or maybe the girl wants to test me or that she wants to implicate me. I told her to go for test but she refused. I'm suspecting that she may be hiding something from me!

@House:
This could happen to anybody (condoms breaking) or smthin. what he needs is a solution & not castigation from the "holy art thou". i believe he must have learnt his lessons so come up with a solution/Advice or keep your mouth shut. Atleast he is better than some who knows the address of abortion clinics better than they know those of schools.
@poster:
i think u need to be sure your girl is pregnant before any step is taken. Something fishy is going on since she is refusing to go for a test. it might be a test to know if you love her for real (have had similar experience which turned out to be a lie but the two weeks was hell for me!!! ) or she might be pregnant for real & wanst you to marry her . either way tread carefully

What should you do? Now reverse. . .to when you were about to have s*x with her. . .then pause for a minute and think. . .what would i do if my gf became pregnant now as a result of what am about to do? Oshi!!!!!

Thonia haba take am easy, people make mistakes, not everyone makes the right choices and decisions, nevertheless its still good to help them out with advise,

Moreover sef, you sef Thonia i don't think you want to claim to be vigin mary,

Its a thread. . .you give your suggestion or you pass!

ThoniaSlim:

Its a thread. . .you give your suggestion or you pass!

My comment was meant as a rhetorical question, No need to have an hostile stance, (you never know, might actually be unknowingly hostile to someone close to you, , but using a pseudonym on NL),

Duh. . . Whatever!

I wonder why some posters on this thread ain't thinking straight.Who's being hypocritical here but the bloke who's not ready to bear the consequence of his action?If you think you're old enough to have sex with your girlfriend, then you should be as well old enough to father the baby she's carrying for you.What the heck happened to logic?I guess some of the posters would abandon their girlfriends if the same happens to them.How can you have sex with someone you don't truly love and how can you say you truly love them, when you refuse to take responsibility for what you've done to them?Afterall, it wasn't an immaculate conception.@Billyfranc, be frank with yourself and braze up for the realities of fatherhood, okay?

ThoniaSlim:

Duh. . . Whatever!

okay ,  u win.


@poster

i hope and pray [/b]u find a good solution to the dilemna cus [b]sincerely, i have no idea what the right next step is supposed to be.

Nevertheless please note that:

1. Abortion is wrong and unbiblical, hence please i beg you not to even consider it as an option under any circumstance.
2. Abortion is not the solution.
3. Abortion would only make things worse mentally, medically, spiritually and psychologically for the two of you.

@ poster,unwanted pregnancy wouldnt be such a big issue if u didnt make d stupid decision of bleeping without thinking ahead about the consequences.To me abortion is not d best option,gd luck

@poster

is your name by any chance tuface idibia

guy wettin happen why you Bleep up well there are so many choice


First: is that you should denied that you did not know the girl guy make you disguise
second: is that you and the girl should elope out to another area or state there are films like that they are met for each other and that is how they are work on there path
third: well is a big congratulation to both of you having children in this live cos now there so manym parent that they are looking for one just 1 but God give you the opportunity to have one you should be thankfull and praise the lord
fourth: you first of all stop your education then start the engagement and the wedding ceremony then you wedd then you will begin to face the reality of life and you will no that is not easy to be a parent

blacksta:

@poster

is your name by any chance tuface idibia

Tehehehehehehe. . .

@poster

Always think about the consequences.

First tell me your age and what you do for a leaving before i talk

OP, tell her your dont believe her until she shows you the test. If it's true, bear your cross. condoms arent expensive in Naija or maybe you used plastic bag sef.

No2Atheism:

Thonia haba take am easy, people make mistakes, not everyone makes the right choices and decisions, nevertheless its still good to help them out with advise,

Moreover sef, you sef Thonia i don't think you want to claim to be vigin mary,

what is your business with the chic? Is she the only one who replied? You last sentence is out of line.

Wonder if this thread was by a female you'd say "blah blah people make mistakes". Frauds, the lot of you.

@Maray
unwanted pregnancy wouldnt be such a big issue if u didnt make d stupid decision of bleeping without thinking ahead about the consequences.To me abortion is not d best option,gd luck


I totally agree. Its all about taking a second to consider consequences.

Now is when you become a man and take care, physically and financially, of your girlfriend and your unborn child. You were man enough to have unprotected sex with her and so, you should be man enough to take responsibility for the consequences.


Happy Fatherhood!

SoAmazing!:

Wo ore wa, eran to o danikan pa, iwo nikan lo maa da jee.Alakori Okunrin!