A relationship with a minimum of 10 years difference in age is a NO-NO for me.

M40:

How can you call me a wicked man
I was helping her as a friend, when we felt like we are in love,
She dont want to end our relationship, rather she wants to grow with this relationship only,

She knew that i m married since begenning of our relationship, and i never cheated her in any
respect,  its the attraction which developed between us,  it can happen any where,  it happens
actually,  

Its not like you just stick to one relationship and do not make new friends ??

Now we both are in love and at the same time dont want to disturb each other's family,

What is the harm if it goes like it is going rite now, ??

If you are looking for somebody to share in your oncoming misery by endorsing your adulterous acts, you 're in the wrong place, For the fact you cheat on your wife is enough to term you wicked man not to mention making out with another man's wife.
Whatever the case may be ,leave the poor woman alone, if she keeps coming say NO, or else evil that men do leaves with /after them.  
Rubbish

eina:

theres definitely nothing wrong with a relationship of 10 years age gap. thats simply your own thought.

*Hauwa*:

M40,

@ your last post! she needs help? ha, na manliness and puzzy help you dey give eh? you must be so Hot during the counseling meetings. make your madam catch you, na fire for ya head. abeg pack ya 3rd legs and run with it dangling in front of you. run 4 40 biko

M40:

I never intended to go with her lifelong of for that matter pretty long,
I just want to see herself settled in her life, than i would walk away &
she would also like to have a distance,

But at the moment she is not in a possition to distant me, she just cannot
do that, she is weak,help, look if i m not there, some other
man would be there, its the human she needs nature, I knew that since very begning

Look when a woman wants a Man in her life she gets one, if its not me, its
some other, so if I m not there, may be the other one take undue advantage of
her, "which I never took, nor i Intend to take", I never indulge into any physical relationship with her, and never intend to have the
same,

At the same time i want to take full care of her,, i want to know what is happening in
her life and want to give solutions to problems she is facing,
If i walk away she would be all alone, ??

Wat to do

M40:

Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy should i leave her immediately, although the relationship is intimate, but its
not physical, ok,
noooooooooooo i wont leave her instantly, neither she wud allow me to leave,
its our bond, we are bind with the bond,
It cannot be dont instantly, rahter can be done gradually,

So now i have decided to slow down, and slowly go out of her life in a month or two,

Pataki:

What the bloody hell?

I hate this 'modify button'! It should be removed please!

*Hauwa*:

agaba, biko focus on the thread and not my post . get in with the person who is doing something bad and don't quote me. whatever is in my head is none of your business/shouldn't be your business pls. mind ya business, focus on post and not me!
biko leave me out of your post today ok. Na Chineke m i use beg you.