solomon:

@ queenzy
what if you are the person at fort and he slap u we you still go 4 night swear.

Even if i was at fault,that does not mean he should raise his hand and slap me.

Well.....

I've been opportuned to know two lovers who always fight.
in fact, the guy beats and hits the girl with whatever he can lay his hands on, but at the end of each fight, they will be all over each other. I tell you, when real love is there, you will know the meaning of "love is blind".

see that one is just another form of slavery.Abeg what do u mean by real love? so he beats her and at the end the girl is ok wiv it. then the boy shd thank his God that he has that type of mumu has a chic. i can bet u the chic has a compex..or else what would she be doing with a slave master in this modern age and time

i agree with you preetyH, love is blind? yeah right! will the girl still agree that love is blind if she actually does gets blind due to her boyfriedn's beatings?

i would rather not have a lover before marriage but if it was my fiance or boyfriend that did such,i would end the relationship even if he apologises with lots of presents and kisses because he has just giving me a glimpse of how marriage with him would be.

My girl-friend is a very quiet girl. Any day she slaps me during argument, I won't need anybody to tell me that I'm wrong.

So if she eventually does, I will make love to her till mother's call.

I do not think that she'll be in the mood for that after you've done something that's bad enough to cause her to slap you!

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quiet girls rule

@ seun, i'll have to agree with you on that one

@ocho-as if you are a quiet girl

@ my evil twinny, infact, i am such an angel, you have no idea!

*coughs*

u will soon cough out ur lungs

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adeoba:

My girl does it regularly, even when we are not arguing - there's nothing to it

Is this a joke or what?

adeoba:

My girl does it regularly, even when we are not arguing - there's nothing to it

Yeah right..and u r happy saying it. Then she doesn't slap u enough

mamba:

Is this a joke or what?

It has to be a joke jo.

adeoba:

My girl does it regularly, even when we are not arguing - there's nothing to it

y am i worried abt this respnse?

Is this part of love adeoba or what?

adeoba:

My girl does it regularly, even when we are not arguing - there's nothing to it

ok adeoba, are u joking or once again, just being calm? if u're just a calm person then i for no mind ur type oo

I'd rather be myself in good time than when it's too late

THATS the end of the relationship! i CANNOT be with a man  who would dare to stuck me or raise his hands above my head. This is because today is slap,  2morrow  hit,  then his gradually moving to killing one day.

enchantra:

THATS the end of the relationship! i CANNOT be with a man  who would dare to stuck me or raise his hands above my head. This is because today is slap,  2morrow  hit,  then his gradually moving to killing one day.

I agree my dear, it starts with "raising his hand"  the next thing u know, the guy "shoves a knife in your face" when he is angered! Abeg oo! my life is dearer to me than any LOVER with an uncontrollabe temper!

adeoba:

I'd rather be myself in good time than when it's too late

would u honestly consider your girl slapping u over a mere argument as A GOOD TIME? don't u find that the least insultive?

Maturity counts ere, What else can a man do but walk away, if u hit her back she might just drop n that would be a hell of a discussion,So walk away n think...just think if she'll make a good wife then proceed to take the next action which would be left to you...............

Greatpeter,
See, Ppl. might handle this issue in a diferent manner but its a Normal thing for One to slap or Hit His/her Lover during an argument cos. One might be Out of control in such manner.It could happen at anytime to anybody. forget who U are. Its anger and It could easily come during an argument most times when argument is Unnecessary.
I don't think It could lead to disapointment or take a relationship to an end.
To me I go just look and laugh at it....

as jerry springer said when a guy hits u once he is going to hit u again even if it is not intentionally
any girl that it happens to should leave the relationship immediately cos it becomes more rougher soon the guy would be outta control

Well, me being a lover and not a fighter,,if that ever happens to me,,,,,the lawd knows I'ld B*TCH slap that M**********R

hehehehe...... i am a guy of my own i take care of myself,
my girlfriend won't see the next hour if she tries that on me. DAMN!!
thats disrespect and humiliation
an insult to my personality.

cos even been a guy i never dreamed of slaping a girl not to talk of my girlfriend.

Its an insult iupon injury,the day my guy try that one,heh this whole world no go contain me and him

lekan2311:

Greatpeter,
See, Ppl. might handle this issue in a diferent manner but its a Normal thing for One to slap or Hit His/her Lover during an argument because. One might be Out of control in such manner.It could happen at anytime to anybody. forget who U are. Its anger and It could easily come during an argument most times when argument is Unnecessary.
I don't think It could lead to disapointment or take a relationship to an end.
To me I go just look and laugh at it....

normal? not in my dictionary. d guy wanna lose his hands d day he tries dat like there is no excuse for him losing his anger and reacting in a physical way dats not acceptable. and d relationship is definately over. wats to say he's not gon lose his temper and kick me nxt time?