fayose4real:
i knw what i see in her that made me invest dat much in her, nt dat i dont knw what am doing, she is grade A wife material and she is very committed to the relationship, & very, very, & very decent a girl

Originalsly:
As I see it.... the girl been waiting for yearsss for you to discuss marriage. It seems like that is not in your plans period.... you starting business for her... putting her thru programmes... trying to improve your qualifications...everything else....but no attention to marriage. I think you have a loyal lady.... but should you not take care of business now... you would lose her. You are already living like husband and wife...make it official.

RexTramadol1:
Yeah, I hate ladies.....but on this one
Gay Alert








The girl isn't totally wrong! Age isn't on her side oh....







Marry her and go back to school!

Love Machine:
I can and will never spend on a girlfriend's education.My love for her no reach that level.

misspicy:
OP dump that lady now before its too late....since her life dream is to be married and you are not ready to marry yet,your visions are different so let her go asap

my opinion


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sonofananimal:
Bros! Welcome to the Ode club, we once pass through this Ode level.

But you know say you self no try! Why you go dey spend money like father Christmas and you dey vex because she no give you sex ABI?

Shall! By now you go start to dey use your sense now.

fayose4real:
i made mention of it in d write up that i got employed to Nigeria Immigration and during that peroid i made it knwn to her then that we would be getting married as soon as posible since av gotten a good & reliable job to cater for my family, but story changed when we were dispersed after 3 months of training, & after 3 months in which we were dispersed making 6 months altogether, i think is better i try to figure out what next to do

IamLEGEND1:

shey una dey see wetin Edo girls fit do with guys brain abi.
ur picture don tey for inside one baba calabash!

fayose4real:
pls dont call her names, she is not a *bítch*

meemeetruth:
ladies dis is wot we get wen we rely totally on a man,a man turn ode because him spend for him babe dude swear say u no dey happy if ur sis bf dey take care of her (thou u c it as spendin moni lyk santa)

fayose4real:
pls dont call her names, she is not a *bítch*

Welcomme:
Why are u confusing urself? U can at d same time will never....which one u dey?

ENDTIMEgist:


ENDTIME lie who told you she is Edo? Arrange b4 I send ur name to DEATH my brother

roymary:



What makes her an ingrate How old all of una be sef?

fayose4real:
Morning guys, there is this lady we have being dating over 4 yrs now, she is ok by me as we match each other perfectly, our relationship has being wonerfull, we live together through out our school days & even up till now, so i am the one providing food & taking care of her and truly i wasn't complaining as i do it with lot of joy because her mother died when she was ten years of age & her father is not financially buoyant, so because of the love i have for her i willingly and happily took up her responsibilities, due to the fact that i have my personal business which is bringing me money when i was in school, though she was the one paying her school fees her self then because she is not a lazy type that depends wholly on another.

her father could send some & she would add the rest from the petty she use to save. We both finished our ND programme in 2013 with upper credit in SLT, so we decided to cross to university through D.E, but unfortunately we were not offered admission to university, so i quickly returned to road construction as i am an excavator operator before gaining admission to ND. That was the 1st time we were separated by work since we started our relationship, my working place then was far so i used to send her money for her feeding every month. I knew for sure construction work is not reliable, & she will be starting her HND early 2015 so i decided to set up a viewing center business for her to be able to take care of her self and her HND school fees so that if the worst happened in my working place we will still be on a safer side & be secured.

I spent all my savings on setting up the business (over 270k) but couldn't complete it so i had to borrow (100k) from her to complete it. The reason for choosing that kind of business was to give her enough time to study as well as maintain the business at the same time, as matches are being played on weekends & any match that falls on midweek will be 7.45pm or 8.45pm, so i know it wont affect her studies. But unfortunately the business didn't excel due to the area, & fortunately for me again i got employed to the Nigeria Immigration then so i had to leave the construction work, & due to this fact we decided she try another DE because she loves medical line (nursing), & since i thought i was an immigration officer by then i agreed to sponsor her through it, 3 months of training no salary & i had spent all i had on that business which is not moving a bit, by that time i dont have anything like money again, to add more to my trouble we were suspended after 3 months of training till further directive, & dont forget that she is still on her HND, so i sold the viewing center at the rate of 150k & returned the 100k i borrowed from her 4 the business.

Fastforward to why am writting this epistle, when there is no sign from immigration that they will call us back, i decided to have a plan B if eventually they refuse to, so i told her that i will have to return to school for my BSc, hearing this from me this lady was so furious, she was so annoyed, she started saying all sort of things that she is 26 yrs of age now that how can i expect her to wait for another 4yrs before getting married, that God forbid bad thing in her life, that she can never wait that long for any man. I was so confused that i didnt even know what to say, i was now thinking that is this how life is, is this girl using me for her benefit or what, the same girl that wanted to abandon HND for 5 yrs nursing programme at university when i got employed, same girl is now claiming she cant wait for me if eventually i go back to school.

The 2nd day i got a call from the previous construction company that i should resume immediately so i rushed there to resume since i dont have any source of income at the moment. We later discussed the issue & she apologized for saying harsh things, & she is acting normal from the day of our discussion, but to my greatest surprise when i returned home on month ending break, this girl is now refusing my sexual advances towards her. Pls i need ur advice, what is happening to me?. Pls don't mind my grammatical error & my lengthy write up.

Ladybluecash:
guys lik you are rare dear boy,,,, if u love her i bliv u can talk her into ds,,, ur future matters alot too dear boy

fayose4real:
i knw what i see in her that made me invest dat much in her, nt dat i dont knw what am doing, she is grade A wife material and she is very committed to the relationship, & very, very, & very decent a girl

swaggprofessor:
Y u no go praise am wey na e type una dey press button untop e head....