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My mum’s affairs embarrass me

December 16, 2015 at 5:27 am in Relationships











I am in my thirties, married with two adorable children. I come from what you will term a ‘silver spoon’ family and have parents who were, and still are generous to their children.

The problem is our mother. We’ve associated her with a string of boy-friends over the years; the fact that she is now a grandmother hasn’t cramped her style at all.

She has recently been associated with my husband’s uncle and this is causing friction between me and my husband.

His uncle’s wife is spoiling for a showdown and is trying to tar me with the same brush as my mother’s. When I eventually tackled mum about this latest affair of hers, she told me it was none of my business what she did and that I should concentrate more on my marriage.

There is no point involving dad as he’s just recovered from a mild stroke. What is more he’s always turned a blind eye to mum’s philandering. How do I get her  off my husband’s uncle?

Jane http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/12/my-mums-affairs-embarrass-me/

Arrange for thugs to mend her up... she will pipe down

[Arrange for thugs to mend her up... she will pipe down : That will be cruel to one`s mother

There is nothing you can do about it, your mum is a grown woman. But you could apologise to your uncle's wife, and assure her that you are not like your mum and you do not support her lifestyle. Also tell her the efforts you have made and back off. You marriage is the priority here