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She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:29am On Dec 28, 2015 |
I noticed this girl in church on Christmas day service. She happens to be an usher in the church. The girl charmed me immediately I set my eyes on her, such that I couldn't take my mind off her again. Frankly, I haven't been anything close to a womaniser all my life, and I can't remember if I've ever met a girl for the first time and asked for her number, but for this girl, it was different. I was passionate to get close to her and be her friend. In fact, I was hoping for an opportunity to have a future with her. I was able to get her phone number that day, and finally started communicating with her. This girl is so lovely, attractive (not like she's d most attractive girl I've ever seen), intelligent, warm etc. As I started interacting with her, I discovered to my utter dismay that she's just 17 years old, while I'm almost 30 years. I have a plan of getting married in 3 years time, and frankly, I was looking at a possibility of getting married to her, if all things fit in. Also, I'm a professional while my new friend is just about to get into the university. I am a very responsible young man. By God's grace, I've been able to keep my body, and still wish to continue so till I get married. I look quite young facially, and I'm smallish (just a meagre 5' 7" in height). She on the other hand looks a little bit mature (looks 23 or thereabout) and she's about 5' 6", so she doesn't look much younger than me. I admire this girl a whole lot and I'm almost in love with her already, but I feel crushed when I consider her age. Even in that 3 yrs time, she'll just be 20, while I'll be approaching 33. Please house, I need counsel. Do I stand a chance with her in any way? Does it even seem right for me to attempt initiating a relationship with her? Will an average family (especially well-to-do ones) accept such for their daughter in this day and age? How do I approach this situation, as my heart can't just let her go? Please no insults, okay. I'm only seeking for advice. Thanks in anticipation of your wonderful support and encouragements. NB: Lalasticlala, I beg you, don't move this to the front page, no matter what. Thanks. |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Dongreat(m): 12:30am On Dec 28, 2015 |
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Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:31am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Age is nothing but numbers. She is 17 ![]() Just make sure you are compatible in other ways. 1 Like |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Cutehector(m): 12:31am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Op you are d reason why most women r cryin to God for husbands.... 10 Likes |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Unionised(m): 12:33am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Move on... Many fishes in the ocean. Leave children alone. 3 Likes |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:34am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Haa |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:35am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Srzli op, if she was ur daughter what would u think and do? 2 Likes |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:36am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Cutehector: Why? Cos I don't want to marry those who are ripe for marriage? |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Emac34: 12:37am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Leave dey gal to study Go out dea nd get ursef a mature lady 3 Likes |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:38am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Suigeneris93: Yeah, I've thought about that and that's part of the reasons why i'm worried. If I were to move on with her, I wouldn't consider approaching her parents now. But I'm wondering if they can even accept me when their daughter is 20. |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by falconey(m): 12:38am On Dec 28, 2015 |
OP should be arrested. 4 Likes |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Cutehector(m): 12:39am On Dec 28, 2015 |
ILIDEFI:you are thirty for christ sake.. She is just 17... If u becom a father, will u see that ur daughter marries an old man? |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Emac34: 12:40am On Dec 28, 2015 |
falconey:Has it even gone to that ![]() |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:42am On Dec 28, 2015 |
falconey: Lol. I'm not a paedophile o. As a matter of fact, I'm still a V, so it's not really about sëx. It's just about an unusual attraction I haven't felt before. |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Emac34: 12:42am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Cutehector:Allow the dude ur(our)advice to him is just useless cos his mind has already been made |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by iphanyiuma(m): 12:43am On Dec 28, 2015 |
17 and 30 ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Emac34: 12:44am On Dec 28, 2015 |
ILIDEFI:yua still a v ![]() |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Cutehector(m): 12:45am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Emac34:oboy leave me alone na, wtf is ur problem |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:46am On Dec 28, 2015 |
ILIDEFI: That quote, 'strike the iron while its hot' isn't always true. If I can remember, u just met her on xmas day, two to three days ago. I feel its too early to want to rush along things with her...take time to know her and you're a medical doctor, do you know her genotype and if its compatible with yours? there are a lot of issues to talk about bfr u can talk abt even dating her exclusively and longterm. Just don't be in a hurry to make a decision My two cents 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by gamaliel121(m): 12:47am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Look for an older girl...or wait till she's 20 atleast.... |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Emac34: 12:49am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Cutehector:Sorry guy met no offences |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by jamex93(m): 12:51am On Dec 28, 2015 |
she go dey call u baba b DAT but age no mata sha 1 Like |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:52am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Suigeneris93: I'm actually trying to give myself reasons not to get emotionally attached to her. Of course I haven't tried to find out if we're fully compatible, medically, socially and spiritually. If I start checking out those things and I discover we're compatible in many things, it will be more difficult to back out then. I'm actually looking at a possibility of backing out now, before I completely lose emotional control. |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:54am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Emac34: It's a choice bro, and I'm proud about it. I'm doing it to the glory of God, and I'm not ashamed of myself. 1 Like |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:56am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Cutehector: I quite understand your point. I've considered it also. It's just that I don't even look more than 5 years older than her, if we stand side by side. |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Emac34: 12:57am On Dec 28, 2015 |
ILIDEFI:Ur choice ur life Bt yua still older than her so just let her be |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by wunmi590(m): 12:59am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Op really need some rest, I swear ![]() |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by kizolo(m): 12:59am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Well, I think there's hope if your intentions are truly genuine. But you gotta wait till she's 18 or there about. 3 Likes |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 12:59am On Dec 28, 2015 |
ILIDEFI: Hmmmn...so what will happen if she's ur soulmate and u passed her up for being too young only to end up with a much older knife for a wife |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 1:04am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Suigeneris93: That's my worry. I dated an older girl for 3½ years before we fell apart. She was a very great, godly, beautiful, intelligent, virtuous girl and so on. We fell apart cos I wasn't ready for marriage when we initially agreed. Beside that, I wasn't so physically attracted to her, mainly cos of her height. I've been with numerous girls before. I have quite a lot of them at work, yet I haven't been attracted to any. This girl charmed me the very first time I saw her, and she nice. This is why I'm worried. 1 Like |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Cholls(m): 1:05am On Dec 28, 2015 |
My brothers and sisters why do you want to break this brother's heart before she does na. And op watin be "this girl charm me"? Cuz when i hear this words i just know a brother is in LUST ISLAND and what he really means deep down is to fvck that k!tty. |
Re: She's 17 And I'm 30; Do I Stand A Chance With Her? by Nobody: 1:09am On Dec 28, 2015 |
kizolo:Seriously, my intentions are very genuine, but don't see my family and friends approving of it, not to even talk of her own family. It's getting me bothered cos for the first time in my life, I felt an irresistible yearning and attraction for a girl beyond my control. |
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