petkruz:


I didn't leave him because he was broke. I wanted to be free, he caged me, no friends, no hanging out, he was strict! As a crazy gal I couldn't stand all that hence I left but he thought I left cos he didn't have a job then.

evolg:
First issue: He bought a car without ur knowledge, it must have skipped his mind. Sorry!
Second issue: U dint get a new year msg frm him, probably network issues.
Moral of story: Ur nt jst dt important like you think.

falconey:




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petkruz:


Is this the best you can offer?

petkruz:


I love him alot

MeloGist:
I cant really comprehend what you wrote above.... let my oga's at the top come *out*

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

chiefokonkwo:


Gold digging bittch. Law of karma has caught up with you. Am a close relative to your boyfriend, and he confided to me how you dumped him when he was broke, and now, you want to reap where you didn't sow.

This is just the beginning, that marriage you were dreaming of this year is just a dream in your big head. My nephew will never marry an Edo girl like you, worst of all a gold digging bitcth like you. Or you think we don't know how you were cheating on him when you guys first courted?

Am watching you closely. Anuofia

petkruz:


Then he should leave me alone. Why did he come back for a better relationship if he was still pained?

evolg:
First issue: He bought a car without ur knowledge, it must have skipped his mind. Sorry!
Second issue: U dint get a new year msg frm him, probably network issues.
Moral of story: Ur nt jst dt important like you think.

RexKex:
OP, No disrespect BUT it is Girls like You that Will "Unintentionally" Lead a man into "Cheating".


"The era of men being non-chalant is Over". Yea, But the era of women acting all silly, Nagging over Menial Issues & Expecting men to "Easily" Forgive & Forget Some certain "Sins" is Over too! Women are emotional beings, So are some Men!


So you expecting that somehow His heart is made of steel and He won't feel hurt by something you claim you did "Four Years" ago is outrageous! Did you ask yourself how grave your "sin" Was? How It might have affected him?


Honestly! Girls like you need to calm the f**k down, Telemundo OR whatever shiit you watch is Entirely different from Reality!


You're angry with him For not telling you He was saving to Buy a Car? Common Girl, Don't be Silly!

pcguru1:


lol I highly doubt that after all OP is boxed according to her post. but coming to think about it, Can a guy break up with a girl based on the fact that she doesn't spend on him, because it seems relationships in Nigeria is mostly about the guy spending, kinda one sided.

Peace out #thistime4real

gottliebglobal:

Ouch, that was harsh.

The tin use style vex me ni egbon

ilawanson44:


Please dump him fast!

So he can find a more better and mature woman to marry rather than wasting his time with a small insecure whining girl like you!

Estharfabian:
He's just your boyfriend for crying out Loud!

If he can't deal with "Forgiveness"...? dump his Ass!

Besides, You guys should do a little "Communication"...It works wonders.

petkruz:


Is this the best you can offer?

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

Creamish:
Are u guys married?

D'u have a joint account?

If "NO"..then I see no reason why u should be pissed that he Dint tell u about his savings...esp since u once broke up wit him due to his financial status (or at least datz what he believes).

Secondly, he Dint call u on New year's day...did u call him? No. Wat if he had some issues? Ur being selfish IMO...

Nwayz... U need to calm d Fk down and think things thru only when calm. If u have nagging doubts, then address it with him. Communication is key in every relationship. Assumptions are relationship killers.

spanishkid:
The guy on his own has low self esteem. I don't see why I'll still go back to a girl that left me cos I wasn't having a job or didn't have money. You're here talking about forgiveness. Didn't think of that before you left him initially? Look you can't eat your cake and have it. That's the problem with you girls today.

Left to me if I was that guy I'll only use you as a sex object and after that dumb you like garbage. Why should he tell you that he bought a car? Are you his mother, father, siblings or relative? You're complaining he didn't wish you happy new year. You noticed he didn't why didn't you wish him new year instead? Let me guess you're waiting for him to do everything for you.

petkruz:


No no no. He bought that car not to surprise but spite me! Why would he have to go all length to prove a point? Meaning he still harbours the pain of the past.