Was the sex "more" than what was typical with your spouse?

It seems imagination can be the most vicious when the betrayed spouse is left to deal with their demons. Since men typically cheat for the physical attribute, I could see them doing more wild stuff with the affair. Women typically cheat for emotional connection but since the decision was made to cross the line, I could see the "in for a penny, in for a pound" (no pun intended) take over and inhibitions be damned.
I don't ask this to be some sort of kinky reading- Gawd knows there is enough of that. even when u re given everything by your spouse u still cheat

I just think the unknowns of the encounter are what haunt people. It's natural. Hearing, in general terms (i.e."yeah, we did more stuff" or "No, it was pretty ho-hum" could provide valuable insight for their decision-making process post-affair.

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I've never cheated. Heck! I don't even have a spouse.
Let the experienced cheats speak.

if u ask dem,na who dem go aaaassssslkkk

betsy96:

Was the sex "more" than what was typical with your spouse?

It seems imagination can be the most vicious when the betrayed spouse is left to deal with their demons. Since men typically cheat for the physical attribute, I could see them doing more wild stuff with the affair. Women typically cheat for emotional connection but since the decision was made to cross the line, I could see the "in for a penny, in for a pound" (no pun intended) take over and inhibitions be damned.
I don't ask this to be some sort of kinky reading- Gawd knows there is enough of that. even when u re given everything by your spouse u still cheat

I just think the unknowns of the encounter are what haunt people. It's natural. Hearing, in general terms (i.e."yeah, we did more stuff" or "No, it was pretty ho-hum" could provide valuable insight for their decision-making process post-affair.

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ehm no lie i think it was sweeter when having sex wit some1 i am not with...cos i know its a one time thing..or maybe the fun of cheating and not being caught

it tastes better

betsy96:

Was the sex "more" than what was typical with your spouse?

the important word in your question is exactly the reason why so many decide to cheat.... TYPICAL (aka a routine or what is expected)

people who have been together for a while tend to get into a sexual routine with less excitement as they advance in life. you get less aroused/reaction from something that you 1st did on impulse and who brought great satisfaction, but now turned into some kind of choreography where you know exactly what your partner's gonna do before they do them. yeah the sex is good but not as rewarding/satisfying as these 1st few months when you were discovering that person for the 1st time. even if that person is the best you ever dream of, you are bound to get used to whatever you guys do, unless you spice your bedroom activities as you get along.

so many cheaters primarily seek for that excitement/adventure, and that lost feeling or arousal, that they will generally get from any new lover, simply because they are NEW and not necessarily because they are better (although it may feel that way).

Nice one!!!

Well, I swear, till date I haven't been more satisfied and fulfilled with any other girl apart from the girl I'm currently dating. She knows me intoto. I'm very weird sexually as I have some very strange fetishes and she understands all!

So there's no point cheating as I know I can get that satisfaction nowhere... Guess wah? She's a Nairalander (doesn't know my moniker though)

The emotional distaste cheating leaves far outweighs its "advantages". You really don't want to be there. Trust me.