My friend's brother is crushing on me,and due to the fact she is a very good friend of mine i dnt want anything to come in between us.


The brother already has girfriend he has been dating for years,according to him he doesnt want to marry her cos she just finished school and he doesnt think he can wait,i told him to have patience and that me i dnt even have a job to start with.I wudn't want to date anyguy and start looking at his pocket for money.

To cut the gist short,i always make sure when he calls his sister can be able to hear our conversation as want to be open with the whole relationship thing.Just to let her know am mutual about it.Not knowing she asked the brother what was between us and he said nothing,and my friend hasn't ask me ,so i acted mature and didnt tell her anything and still kept every thing on mutual basis.

Now since he knew i didnt tell his sister anything ,he is now inviting me to their family house to see him.Apart from that, He still has his relationship with his gurl intact.
I just want to confirm my instincts if it mite be sort of set up.(I am lovining friend to the family,every member loves me).

this story get too much k-leg..

summary pls.

Just be careful...

you know "chop n clean mouth"? if u do, u gat to stay away from em. Simple.

Can't even draw sense from ur write-uP

Like i said to cut it short.He already has a gurl he has been dating for years.But we all grew up together as kids so am a friend to the family.Everything started when we all saw ourselves again.But when we were kids i only talked to the sister which is my friend.

Thanks i will be careful.

I don't mean 2 insult u but based on a research, I'd say u re just a pretender!! Already exonerated urself 4rm prospective defaults....only fake pple do dat. I'll advice u just do what u want cos no advice frm dis forum can change ur made-up mind.Thanks

IMO22:
I don't mean 2 insult u but based on a research, I'd say u re just a pretender!! Already exonerated urself 4rm prospective defaults....only fake pple do dat. I'll advice u just do what u want cos no advice frm dis forum can change ur made-up mind.Thanks

thats hash she's gonna take to my advise

IMO22:
I don't mean 2 insult u but based on a research, I'd say u re just a pretender!! Already exonerated urself 4rm prospective defaults....only fake pple do dat. I'll advice u just do what u want cos no advice frm dis forum can change ur made-up mind.Thanks

Well thanks for ur candid advice.since she is my friend and a good sister to me,i wudnt want to thread it for anything.But am not a pretender.

uchetom:



Well thanks for ur candid advice.since she is my friend and a good sister to me,i wudnt want to thread it for anything.But am not a pretender.

I'm sorry 4 my choice of words...just couldn't find somtin mild 2 xpress mysef.See Buddy, u painted a picture of a saint already(not so cool) Mayb u shld talk 2 ur frmd cos rationally, she'll b grudging Nd pretending 2 b fine.I AM SORRY ONCE AGAIN 4 the oversight

IMO22:
I'm sorry 4 my choice of words...just couldn't find somtin mild 2 xpress mysef.See Buddy, u painted a picture of a saint already(not so cool) Mayb u shld talk 2 ur frmd cos rationally, she'll b grudging Nd pretending 2 b fine.I AM SORRY ONCE AGAIN 4 the oversight

Thanks i appreciate.The main issue is that i have a child and my friend knows evry detail of what am going tru.So i wudnt even know whatf they must have discussed behind me.Because as a friend i expect her to ask despite all,and for the fact he is inviting me to their family house.cos he doesnt have a place of his own yet.So am just playing neutral,watching considering the fact i dnt ave a job and have this huge responsibility too.I need a mature and serious advice. On this one.

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uchetom:


Thanks i appreciate.The main issue is that i have a child and my friend knows evry detail of what am going tru.So i wudnt even know whatf they must have discussed behind me.Because as a friend i expect her to ask despite all,and for the fact he is inviting me to their family house.cos he doesnt have a place of his own yet.So am just playing neutral,watching considering the fact i dnt ave a job and have this huge responsibility too.I need a mature and serious advice. On this one.

If u think u remotely like dis guy it's best u step up ur game like every normal girl(ur child Nd financial status should not b a handicap at all)This guy makes advances @ u ryt? Isn't it time u hv a mature discussion wit him, u talk tins thru Nd if he can't handle it, he chickens out;which is better Dan leaving u emotionally hibernated. Finally u must talk 2 ur frnd afterwards(she deserves d respect) U shldnt even hv waited 4 dem 2 bring d game 2 u. Nw they'hv prepared a meal 4 u already wen it shld hv been mutual work. But it's ok Buddy.Just don't allow a situation whr u'd hv 2 b invited over by both of them(it's best u talk 2 dem individually) If ur girl frnd cum ur sister has been a good frnd, pls Mek sure dat d relationship isn't ruined cos of dis....GOODLUCK

uchetom:
Like i said to cut it short.He already has a gurl he has been dating for years.But we all grew up together as kids so am a friend to the family.Everything started when we all saw ourselves again.But when we were kids i only talked to the sister which is my friend.

frm d way ur sounding, i percieve ur nursing sm feelings for him, true or false

Jesus is d answer

IMO22:
If u think u remotely like dis guy it's best u step up ur game like every normal girl(ur child Nd financial status should not b a handicap at all)This guy makes advances @ u ryt? Isn't it time u hv a mature discussion wit him, u talk tins thru Nd if he can't handle it, he chickens out;which is better Dan leaving u emotionally hibernated. Finally u must talk 2 ur frnd afterwards(she deserves d respect) U shldnt even hv waited 4 dem 2 bring d game 2 u. Nw they'hv prepared a meal 4 u already wen it shld hv been mutual work. But it's ok Buddy.Just don't allow a situation whr u'd hv 2 b invited over by both of them(it's best u talk 2 dem individually) If ur girl frnd cum ur sister has been a good frnd, pls Mek sure dat d relationship isn't ruined cos of dis....GOODLUCK

Thank you for that,i was holdn on for him to at least speak up for himslf u know.Before i decide to let my friend into the matter.He is a man after all.