tosyne2much:
Cos I don't want us to derail this thread

Okay.

tommychow:
When I say someone is "broke" I mean the person doesn't HAVE MONEY at that point in time (fyi, money differs from assets). A man with a big house and cars can be broke. A businessman with no house or cars squatting with his friend, dressing like village headmaster can have a million in his account.

I think you're talking about poor guys with poor background who grew up in poor neighborhoods with a generally bitter mentality of wealthy people (not women alone).

And please, rich babes DON'T DO poor guys. You're watching too much Nollywood, bro.

Hmmmmmm !!

tosyne2much:
It won't make sense to pour my anger on a lady I'm crushing on

hehe... crushing?

how u nau?

And I'm currently working on a construction site in Parkview, Ikoyi. I'll be seeing babes in their mid-twenties cruising the latest Range Rovers, BMWs, Mercedes Jeeps etc. And I'm pretty sure you know the value of houses in Parkview. You now want to tell me she "hustled" for it...GUY, DON'T VEX ME O!

adeh39:
Mmmmn

Kini nau

tommychow:
And I'm currently working on a construction site in Parkview, Ikoyi. I'll be seeing babes in their mid-twenties cruising the latest Range Rovers, BMWs, Mercedes Jeeps etc. And I'm pretty sure you know the value of houses in Parkview. You now want to tell me she "hustled" for it...GUY, DON'T VEX ME O!

I know that area well. It's along Gerald road. After that round about that connects ikoyi to Lekki pennisula.

Bros, wetin those small pikin dey ride fit damage person esteem.

misspicy2:

lol

are you a broke guy?

Misspicy, take ya time oo . U know I am not joor.

But do you know rich guys can go broke atimes.

wristbangle:


I know that area well. It's along Gerald road. After that round about that connects ikoyi to Lekki pennisula.

Bros, wetin those small pikin dey ride fit damage person esteem.

hahahaha.. bro, no be lie

wristbangle:


I know that area well. It's along Gerald road. After that round about that connects ikoyi to Lekki pennisula.

Bros, wetin those small pikin dey ride fit damage person esteem.

Lmao. I can't imagine how lonely they'll be when they intimidate 99% of naij guys. Dey go dey vex do d chyking sef.

tommychow:


Lmao. I can't imagine how lonely they'll be when they intimidate 99% of naij guys. Dey go dey vex do d chyking sef.

hahaha


Bros, you just dey make me laf

Twaci:
Dating a broke guy is not a problem because i am not in the relationship to be a liability but to build himself and i towards the betterment of our future.

What i look out for rather is how matured he is and what positive impacts he can make in my life

Na so una dey talk for nairaland but reverse is the case offline. Twaci, God is watching u ooooo

tommychow:


Lmao. I can't imagine how lonely they'll be when they intimidate 99% of naij guys. Dey go dey vex do d chyking sef.

Make dem don chyke me. Make I maga dem wella

Monalisa185:


Lol, warrapened?

What if I say I was indirectly referring to you?

Thesonofmark ur verdict on this topic

If we work problem lol
But i dont get how one thinks shes a gold digger if shes loaded .. Y not damn shes got a good job or shes intelligent etc

bqlekan:
hahahaha.. bro, no be lie

Honestly bro. They can frustrate person eh! God dey

tosyne2much:


9. She's not good in bed

I don't know why many broke guys tag rich ladies as novice in bed. When they are being spotted, they quickly conclude that she will be very lazy in bed and won't be able to reciprocate to modern intimate styles


10. She won't reply my PMs

Many male nairalanders have lost their future wives for the fear of being bashed. The very first time I wanted to PM _________ (I won't mention her name ). I was very scared at first for the fear of being bashed, but I took that courage and alas, she replied me, we exchanged numbers and the rest is history (don't quote me to ask what happened )


*Quote me and I will show you why lions are wild animals*

wristbangle:


Make dem don chyke me. Make I maga dem wella

Loool. Take it to God in prayer. Say "FATHEEER!!!"

tosyne2much:
hahaha


Bros, you just dey make me laf

Lol. Naija life is funny joke.

tommychow:


Loool. Take it to God in prayer. Say "FATHEEER!!!"

FATHER OOO!

wristbangle:


Honestly bro. They can frustrate person eh! God dey

sometimes when I see these things, I just look at myself like
'Hey dude, are you really working?'

then I later realized that God's time is the best

wristbangle:


FATHER OOO!

Lol, see your mouth.

This is powerful....

tosyne2much:
What if I say I was indirectly referring to you?

Lol, I don't like indirect referrals... do it directly

eaglejay13:
4 and 7 have been proven to be true over time, even here on NL.

how do u spot rich ladies on NL?

Specialbaby:
And why will a broke guy want to date a lady with class?

What prevented him from making money?fact is,even if he managed to summon courage and talk to her,the lady will only use him as a pawn except he is really endowed in some other areas.

Let the deaf walk with the deaf.

having money or being well of does not guaraanty class. they are two different things. a poor person can be classy and a rich person canbe trashy and classles. money doesnt equal class. get your mind right!

from your thought process, people like you usually end up being miserable because nothing ever fits into your self induced false fantasy... well...

Twaci:
Dating a broke guy is not a problem because i am not in the relationship to be a liability but to build himself and i towards the betterment of our future.

What i look out for rather is how matured he is and what positive impacts he can make in my life

now thats the voice of an intelligent and self-assured babe. please be mine forever...

ipledge10:
how do u spot rich ladies on NL?

Not really that, but most times you see ladies here right things like, "if I'm rich or from a rich family, there's a standard I'm already used to, so I can't go below that standard".

Specialbaby:
And why will a broke guy want to date a lady with class?

What prevented him from making money?fact is,even if he managed to summon courage and talk to her,the lady will only use him as a pawn except he is really endowed in some other areas.

Let the deaf walk with the deaf.

So you really think class is all about how rich you are, there are so many rich ladies and rich men out there without class. Grow up.

What i do na?

tosyne2much:
Na so una dey talk for nairaland but reverse is the case offline. Twaci, God is watching u ooooo

Monalisa185:


Lol, I don't like indirect referrals... do it directly

Cute dp . Now I see why -------------

Caringguy:
i don quote you., do your worst..
Na that pretty bae called Oliviaarims naim dey that gap..

*dust my shoes and ran outta thread*

Lol... What an assumption!

wristbangle:
The societal views about the life of a lady focuses on her appearance, attitude, mode of dressing, marital and financial status.

Guys often believe that ladies with good financial stability who ride exotic cars, wear expensive clothes and live in comfortable houses find the ways to the top through prostitution and gold digging without considering the fact that some of these ladies work diligently and tiredlessly to find their way to the top

When broke guys spot a rich young lady, a lot of negative things come to their mind which are mentioned and further buttressed.

1. She's a gold digger

I have often heard guys calling ladies using exotic cars all sort of names such as prostitutes, LovePeddler, etc. There is nothing you can say to convince these broke dudes that her source of income is legitimate meanwhile when a lady asks for any financial help from them, they will condemn her to be a gold digger and also spread the false news of how she gets her money.

2. Her father is a scammer or politician

Broke guys believe that the reason behind the financial prowess of a rich young lady is because her father has scammed so many people. By the time they spot such ladies, several thoughts and assessment of how her dad political party shared the looted Dasuki $2.1 billion to her will their discussion of the day.

3. She won't make a good wife

I don't know why some guys quickly jump into conclusion without knowing the inward beauty of a lady. If a broke dude dare attempt to woo her, his friends will make jest of him saying that the lady in question will not subject herself to his authority.

4. She can't marry or date a broke guy

The esteem of some broke guys is so low that once they spot a rich young lady, they will think she can never date let alone marry them. This notion is very wrong because I have seen cases where some rich ladies marry a broke guy and they are doing fantastic well in marriage. I know some guys will say it can't happen in Nigeria, but it does.Tosyne2much is not so rich yet Oliviaarims likes him

5. She's a promiscuous lady

A rich young lady especially if she is very pretty is believed to be promiscuous because a lot of suitors are attracted to her, hence, using that opportunity to get money from them. Not all beautiful and rich ladies are like that. I can bet my life on some of our beautiful nairaland babes are chaste ladies.

6. She can't be a good cook

I shake my head when guys ridicule rich young ladies that they cannot prepare common eba let alone soup. Often times they say their parents employ cooks or chefs to do the cooking which automatically see them as a bad Cook. Lalasticlala, ronald4lif and naijaboiy can bear me witness that the day Kachisbarbie prepared a mesmerising meal for us when we visited her, that was the day we realised that two kings can actually rule in a palace.

7. She will be an Arrogant lady

There is nothing a rich young lady can do to please some broke guys. This is because most rich ladies are stereotyped "arrogant" and "rude".

8. She will be in control of my life

Not all rich ladies who are richer than their spouses control their lives. Regardless of the good financial stability of some ladies, they still subject themselves to the control of their boyfriends.

Wristbangle.... So, u're inferring that Tosyne2much is broke? Hahahaha..

And whoever said I'm rich