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| Pls Help, I by AquilaJoy(f): 11:32am On Jul 02, 2009 |
Pls help me out, i fell in love with my boss. We screwed each other for a while and i am begining to feel the shame as a married woman. I have told him that we got to stop but he wont even let me be. During my birthday he bought me a brand new jeep. I gave it to my husband as a symbol of my love for him. Now my bus bleeps me everyday in his guest house. I am his PA so nobody knows this. I love my husband. What do i do? |
| Re: Pls Help, I by izeek(m): 11:42am On Jul 02, 2009 |
funny how u think no 1 knows about it. even in ur office u think they dont know? and ur hubby, what excuse did u give him that bought the jeep? look just resign from that organisation simple. and u bera open up and tell ur huby. |
| Re: Pls Help, I by IFELEKE(m): 11:51am On Jul 02, 2009 |
Aquila Joy:Congratulations, You've just being promoted to the position of a Private LovePeddler.  Quit the Job and seek employment somewhere else. |
| Re: Pls Help, I by blissieng(f): 11:58am On Jul 02, 2009 |
 You still dey ask? First of all, What a stupid, idiotic thing to do! How can you love someone and cause them so much grief? If the thing hungry you like that, you should have left ur office and run with the speed of lightening, find ur husband and do IT with him like ur life depended on it! Instead of doing something you CHOOSE to do and then start feeling sorry for yaself! I suggest you resign from the job, sit ur husband down and tell him, appologize. 'Cos woe betide you if the so called boss decides he might actually like talking to ur husband afterall. |
| Re: Pls Help, I by biola44: 1:39pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
izeek: i agree cos if she doesnt open 2 r hubby d show must continue till he unfortunately finds out |
| Re: Pls Help, I by sistawoman: 1:45pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
This is the second time in a couple of years that you have cheated on your husband. did he find out about you sleeping with his brother while he went to church? I guess your just a LovePeddler. Accept your postion in life and play your role. |
| Re: Pls Help, I by biola44: 1:49pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
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| Re: Pls Help, I by blissieng(f): 3:12pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
Sista Woman. . . How you take know? I'd really hate to have wasted my energy on a KID in every sense of the word!!! |
| Re: Pls Help, I by omega25red(m): 3:21pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
your job title is personal assistant/ahshewo You accepted a jeep? dont you know you just sold your marriage? This guy would always treathen you with that even if you quit. Your life is F*cked |
| Re: Pls Help, I by queenTG(f): 3:31pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
na money d hungry u how can u married person do that if u really love ur husband u should have let him know about the problem in the beginning then he will let u know what to do. may be himself know money the d hungry even him if not how can he take the geep without question that means that he is sending u to do that. where did u get money for the geep is the question he suppose to ask first of all. no matter if it is money is ur husband life. is how i think take it easy |
| Re: Pls Help, I by whitelexi(m): 3:48pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
Wonderful! Shakes head Wonderful!!! |
| Re: Pls Help, I by blissieng(f): 4:25pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
Is it just me? I honestly couldnt make undestand what QUeenTG is tryna say. As for this topic, it's pretty straight forward what should be done 1) Ask God for forgiveness, what you have done is adultery! plain n simple 2) TELL YA HUSBAND, the truth, nothing but the truth and ALL the truth! 3) Quit that JOB! |
| Re: Pls Help, I by sistawoman: 4:26pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
blissieng: Look at her previous posts. In 2007 she posted about sleeping with her brother in law while the family was at church and she was home sick. she is just a LovePeddler. Now that we have identified it as such she needs to learn to play her role. |
| Re: Pls Help, I by JJYOU: 4:43pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
sistawoman:you have joined the FBI sect on NL. it is so unbelievable people like this can come here talk about " whhat do i do? Aquila Joy:well continue you may just get what you deserve from his wife plus you have sons and daughters who will be cheated cos life has a way of blessing people like you. you are a disgrace to responsible women. because of grossly irresponsible people like you nigerian men dont know how to leave married women alone becos some of you must wear clothes and use cars you cant afford. is the car really worth it? shame on you. there are some men on NL who wont mind sleeping with you if you dont mind. they can pay in foreing currency too if that is all you are after. i just checked your last post and what someone Lauradee01 said about you. how spot on her prophesy on you was. you know how to talk christianeese without seeing the bible say they that nameth the name of the Lord should depart from iniquity. studity is you. i bet you deceived your people by testifying and that your husband too!! he took a vehicle he knew was above your income God help both of you. if you are like this in your 20's i wonder what you will do in your 40's if you live that long. there is AIDS in town. yeye fowl. you make my belly turn. LAGOS, NIGERIAhttps://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=96069.msg1750341#msg1750341 |
| Re: Pls Help, I by touchmeder: 6:08pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
Splendid  |
| Re: Pls Help, I by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jul 02, 2009 |
some women have fire in their pants and if the husband is not putting enough water on that fire, then someone else has to. this women is just confused and an easy lay. lets not blame her for that. at least she got a jeep for her trouble and the husband is driving it. ask yourself this question. which HUSBAND, who knows exactly his wife's salary and finances, would take a jeep from her without asking where the vehicle came from? maybe a husband who knows whats going on but cant let go of "riding in his new jeep" the two fit perfectly together! |
| Re: Pls Help, I by TheSeeker(m): 2:48am On Jul 03, 2009 |
What do I start to do to you? Insult? Praise? Advise? What  I don't know! But I gotta start from somewhere somehow.Rating you a classless LovePeddler is an understatement, but I will describe you as a b***tch who doesn't deserve to breathe the same air other good women breathe. For you to have had guts to come on here and expose your foolery shows how shameless and indifferent you are to your complete decadence of social norms and respect for matrimony. You got a jeep from a man that's screwing your-already-worthless "pot of worms". You are nothing but a cesspool, a total crackdown disgrace to respectable womanhood, a wolf among sheep, a lousy LovePeddler and a low-lifer. Last year if was your brother-in-law, now it's your boss, who else knows who's turn it will be tomorrow? Your cousin? Yes, I believe a woman like you can rape her virgin cousin and still feel she is within moral rights. To cap it all, your husband is just an opportunist, otherwise, how can he explain that he t'took a jeep from you as a birthday gift when obviously he knew you may not basically be able to afford it on your salary, even your tips as being an official LovePeddler wouldn't be enough to buy you a jeep? He didn't take the proper time to check in for details, he's so engulfed with the frenzy of riding a new jeep to his workplace. Well, you know what I think? If you leave that workplace, it will be a looming calamity on your woeful head, your official customer will have been told you gave the car to your husband and trust me, if I am in his shoes, I will have some urchins corner him one day and beat him black and blue and take the Jeep from him --- I believe he'd do that if he knows. Keep enjoying the fun while it lasts and unveils. Have you seen the movie "UNFAITHFUL"? Go and see that movie. I watched it twice and I so hated women, took me a long while for me to come to terms that it was just a movie, but then, this is one of such cases. If you tell your husband, like everyone else has advised, it doesn't matter your marriage will still come to an abrupt and messy end, if you don't, the fate is still the same-- so what do you care? You have been stripped off of dignity. Shameless pig! |
| Re: Pls Help, I by amebono11: 2:54am On Jul 03, 2009 |
attention seeker |
| Re: Pls Help, I by TheSeeker(m): 3:11am On Jul 03, 2009 |
,amebo no1:Yes? |
| Re: Pls Help, I by amebono11: 3:21am On Jul 03, 2009 |
TheSeeker: and what has my post go to do with you, is your id attention seeker or the seeker? |
| Re: Pls Help, I by topup: 3:27am On Jul 03, 2009 |
Aquila Joy: Are you trying to convince me that you're an opinionless woman. If you don't want to do these things, why are you? Yes, there is pressure, you could lose your job, lose the jeep *pfft, your boss could make working for him very difficult. But in all honesty, are you willing to lose your husband because of these things?? I think it's important to remember that rarely are these men genuine, and even if he genuinely did love you, that wouldn't change a thing! But I think that your 'position' as his sex buddy could easily be filled up. Imagine if from the very onset you said "No." he may have fired you, but ultimately if he feels to cheat he would probably ask the next PA to do the same. You only have one life to live, and ideally one husband to cherish - is it so much to ask that you consider how the other half would feel every once in a while. For me the guilt could kill me, I couldn't take it if my husband cheated on me - well maybe it's because I would sincerely love that man! It's not as complicated as you've presented it, you should stop sleeping with your boss, if he decides that he's had enough, that's even more reason to fire you and hire a 'fresh face'. Please, you've been warned, ask for forgiveness - that always helps if it's a fresh start you need. |
| Re: Pls Help, I by TheSeeker(m): 3:52am On Jul 03, 2009 |
,amebo no1: Sorry I thought you were calling my attention -- like ATTN: SEEKER! Even if I had noticed you meant "attention seeker" I still would have responded to you that this woman had a thread almost like this one in 2007, so she's no attention seeker. Capiche? |
| Re: Pls Help, I by Nobody: 3:54am On Jul 03, 2009 |
Where do these kinda people come from. I dey fear for married life o. cheii. No respect for marriage anymore |
| Re: Pls Help, I by TheSeeker(m): 3:57am On Jul 03, 2009 |
FL Gators: I don't know what these women want to make out of this world. |
| Re: Pls Help, I by Nobody: 7:27am On Jul 03, 2009 |
At times,all this kinda jist makes me get tired of women and scared of marriage.Thats y at times i prefer the word like to love,cos if u like someone,u wont want to see him cry,but if u love someone, u wouldn't want to do without him,but you do shit at his/her back and feels your love would cover it all.@poster,this ur case is not the only one i've heard,many women indulge in this kinda extra-marital affair that i almost concluded that i'd rather remain d father to my children than to be a husband to any women. Sperm receptors like u get up in d morning all dressed up,tell ur husband 'love u honey' before leaving d house,gets to the office mess another man's dic k for like 2rounds,gets back to d house n say's 'honey i missed u' kai,shame on ur entire family for u're cursed |
| Re: Pls Help, I by C2H5OH(f): 7:30am On Jul 03, 2009 |
Ho alert |
| Re: Pls Help, I by C2H5OH(f): 7:32am On Jul 03, 2009 |
tiniyata:Lol funny m8 . Why do you think we have documented cases of husbands putting one in between the eyes of their "beloved" wives ? Love with your head m8, love with your head. |
| Re: Pls Help, I by iice(f): 7:39am On Jul 03, 2009 |
The person is just seeking attention. Just go through her posts. Na so boredom dey kill people.  |
| Re: Pls Help, I by Nobody: 8:03am On Jul 03, 2009 |
tiniyata: tired of women?! you cannot generalize because of a few bad eggs in society. yes there are hoes out there and yes some are ruthless but the majority of women wouldnt have the guts to do what the poster has done/is doing. yes society is bleeped up but there are women who still wouldnt mess a man, no matter how much he parade in front of her eyes. these women are harder to find (especially in 9ja) but they are out there and if you stay positive and thread carefully you can find them gems. and lets not forget that the man shagging and buying her a jeep is probably married too. who is really to be blamed?! |
| Re: Pls Help, I by bighead1(m): 8:22am On Jul 03, 2009 |
It may turn our that most people know about it but if u tell ur hubby his heart will be badly broken if iwere u i will just quit the job and beg for GOD's forgiveness |
| Re: Pls Help, I by JJYOU: 9:38am On Jul 03, 2009 |
MRbrownJAY:mmmmmmmmm o disagree. they are too many you wish they were few. |
| Re: Pls Help, I by whitelexi(m): 10:12am On Jul 03, 2009 |
Snaps fingers frantically and continuously shakes head Umunwayi sef! Kai Tufiakwa!!! |
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