Seun:

All the boys I know are out for sex and they will do whatever it takes to get sex including pretending to be nice by accepting everything you say.

Haahaha, that includes YOU! Abi you are not a boy? It's good you are confessing small-small sha.
Well, not all the boys I know are out for sex...and they are the good boys.

ohoooo seun has finally shown his real identity: he is the same as the multitude of guys out there desperately seeking for a sexual approach with the gentle gender

IAH:

Well, not all the boys I know are out for sex...and they are the good boys.

Like me

michelin89:

is fanatic of the bible (this is the worst) and it's always trying to transform you in a decent girl like him! and adjective for this type of guy: Ugh!

So what type of guy do u prefer?? The one that will transform you to a badder gurl or the one that condemns the Bible everytime??

michelin89: ... always trying to transform you in a decent girl like him

You have exposed yourself! The reason you do not like good (or 'decent') boys is that you are not a good (or 'decent') girl. That is all. Read what you wrote again and you'll see that I am right!

Seun y r u sweatin" over this topic? r u a gud boy or a bad boy?

i used the word FANATIC which means his is absolutley esagerating. though i'm atheist i don't condemn the Bible. i respect it in respect of the people who believe in it. but what i'm saying is that someguys are really terrifying.
example.

****dring dring*************

G: hello?!
M: honey shall we go out tomorrow evening? i'd like to go the disco.
G: Nooo! my parents don't want me to go to discos because it is not decent. anyway i can't come for another reason. i am to attend the saturday night prayers in the church. And Mavis, when have you started going to discos? don't you know it's a sin before God? you should behave in a more decent way...my parents won't like to hear i have a girlfriend as you.hey are you listening to me...

***tututututututu***

Rihanna, I think he answered that already. Just scroll up.

Seun:

You have exposed yourself! The reason you do not like good (or 'decent') boys is that you are not a good (or 'decent') girl. That is all. Read what you wrote again and you'll see that I am right!

i'm not a saint for sure but i'm not evil. i just want to live my life without regrets cause tomorrow might be too late. i sometimes break the rules but i don't smoke, drink or dates guys like i'm possessed. i think i'm just a normal gal.

I am a good boy <snip>

michelin89:

i don't smoke, drink or dates guys like i'm possessed. i think i'm just a normal girl.

Good for you.

michelin89 was ur definition of a good girl

does because u dont smoke dont make u a good girl

Birds of like feathers flock together. A girl that is consistently attracted to "bad" boys is a bad girl

not really

not only i don't smoke i don't mess around. i have made the rules to live a very satisfying life without creating a bad reputation foe meself.

i get ur point there

but people think is the things they do that makes them a bad girl/boy

but thats not always the case

michelin89: If you say you are a good boy, then maybe it's wrong to refer to the boys you are attracted to as "bad". Do they smoke weed? Do they mess around? Are you messing around with them?

i think you rihanna and african's definition for a good guy is a "dumb, geeky, immature and the list goes on" type of guy.

you (rihanna and african) are kind of saying:
someone who's dumb, geeky, immature, dependent  are  "good guys"  and
the caring, strong, independent, nice type of guy is the "bad guy"



"good" should mean : what you think is good for you. 

i know you're trying to be nice by calling the ideal kind of guy "bad" and calling the unideal kind of guy "good" but you're confusing some people (like me) on here don't you think?

WesleyanA: Your last statement doesn't make sense. Why should you call someone who is caring a bad guy?

i was half way when i posted that. you can reread now and see if it now makes sense.

Not really ... I'm confused. This is what happens whenever a man actually tries to understand girls. We get confused. I think it's deliberate and I refuse to be confused!

gosh

speak for your self girl I don't go for bad boys, I go for nice guys

< one for me, and the other one for icingbaby

thanks for the cool,

I think it is about time the 'Player' steps in.I want to say that a bad boy doesnt necessary have to smoke weed,be a trouble rouser or the likes.From what I can infer from the topic,a 'bad boy' in most girls perspective is a guy that can be termed a hard man,a guy who treats a girl good but at the same time set limits,makes the rules and be in control of a relationship.He says it in no uncertain terms that he is in charge of the relationship,though not necessary a bully but a little bullying every now and then to set things right.
The truth is girls loves guys who takes control of a relationship,who is in charge,who says something and they listen(not commandeering anyway),a guy that will sometimes disagree with their opinion on certain issues and give sound reasons(sometimes unreasonablere) for disagreeing,a guy that can stand up for them,a guy that is dependable in all situations,a guy they believe can get another girl with the click of a finger,a guy they believe is two timing or even 'three timing' but never get caught(a smart guy).Most girls loves guys that drinks alcohol(not a drunkard though) and not some perenial coke drinking or icecream licking lad.
The last but not the least,if the guy is good looking with some cash to throw around,the circle is complete.This and many other attributes are what girls thinks makes up a bad guy.

So all u girls out there,if u are looking for a bad Nigger,I m at ur service.

playboy,you have said it all

Playboy, thanks so much, I am very sure u are the only person that have given the full definition for a "bad boy"

Meanwhile, a guy that is always abiding by the rules the girl gives and do exactly what a girl asks him to do at any point in time, is called a MUMU. He will never argue with his girl friend and if she gets angry, you will see him on his kneels begging for forgiveness. Any man with these qualities is a MUMU and not a good guy.

@tamia.HOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLA!!!! I feel you gal!

Why do you have to lump all the good qualities in a man together with bad qualities in a man and call it "bad boy". What if I am wicked smart but not a player? What if I'm caring but not a cassanova? What if I'm rich but not a show-off? What if I'm strong enough to be a social icon but not inclined to push my girl around for the sake of showing how strong I am?

Must we all turn bad in order to compensate for your desire to suffer in the name of love?

@seun thank I feel you.
@playboy delete that shit that you just wrote, because you are not making any sense

When it comes to romance, there is nothing like a bad guy or good guy. What we have is either a player or a non-player. Bad and good are opinionated. Girls often prefer the players (whom people tend to call bad guys) not because they are known to be players but because they know what girls want and how to provide these wants (usually for a short period in time).