favoured234:
OP contentious is not an everyday word
How will someone know what contentious is or what it means
I m not a writer but in my years of reading, most times writers define what they going to discuss about in the first paragraph so we don't lose interest in the write-up while we are looking for dictionary meaning

Tallesty1:
At least twice? I disagree.
A perfect gentleman is the one who knows when not to be gentle.
Hit me once and I will reset your head.

daretodiffer:


#Can'thelpbutshakemyhead

I could find you a list of psychiatrist in Ngeria

Bibors:
y

You are right bro but u just have to do all that yo can do to stand before you are labeled a woman beater. These chicks watch romance movies and try to recreate it without localizing it.

daretodiffer:


vislabraye

When I a call som emen stupid, they think I am being troublkesome

How these two things supposed to lead when they have refused to observe and understand their environment


Here is what going happen, another woman would be beating because an idi.iot believed that it is only way to gain control. Your daughter would undergo process, she might also get off from being pummelled like a none..ntity.

And the cycle will keep going on and on because some foo..ls have decided not to understand their environment

Bibors:


No need to comment further. Accept my sympathy

akankemi1:
very useless thread. wonder y it made FP. magosh...get married first

lozanni:


You sure you are not a 'crank' like the Op was describing?

ezelos:
. Why poke ur nose on wats not ur biz!

akinszz:
The day a woman raises her hand to hit first will be the day[b] she will regret been alive[/b]. a man mustn't be weak. Guy, na fire for fire.

tron23:
I personally don't like commenting on certain issues. But o well here we go.

The book of proverbs says that it's better to live in the roof Top than to live with a contentious woman.
Believe me, atleast seperate, live in different houses. Because no matter what you do, that contentious woman will never change her ways and in the process cause you pain, poverty and misery.

You can never amount to anything in life if you as a man remain in such a marriage.
As a man you need peace in your home inorder to be productive at work.
Live is too short to spend with Wicked people.
Safe.

mamajaz:
When we take the pain to watch over your welfare, you call it contention.
When we correct you in love with much emphasis, you call it witch-hunting.
When we look away from your untoward attitude to members of the family, you call us carefree.
When we speak up a bit, you call us nags.
It is so painful there more boys than men heading families .
Such that, many women have to start training them while we still service them at night, take care of the seed of their so called love plays and nurture their children.
Small boys forming mature men since Adam's days, SMH sadly.
Quote me without sense and thunder that will fire you will finish it's press up and release itself on you.

Bibors:


Brother pls Dont act too fast. Oyibo movies have scenes where they guy grabs the chick during the first beating and kiss her. It may work.

DeeTus:
OP, this is the kind of woman I want for marriage, not someone who will not try to know where I am and what I am doing.

vislabraye:


Well, I hope you are not referring to me as such men. Stop being a contentious man. As you read from my post, I was only speaking based on what I've heard and experienced. I'm not saying it's right but that is what I heard.
I have heard ladies that admit to admire a man that beats them. For instance, my pastor was telling us his experience when he wanted to get married. The lady he was courting then was very cantankerous and it was upsetting him. A pastor's wife now called him apart and told him, "the way you are handling this woman with soft hands, she will not respect you oh. You need to beat her sometimes. We ladies need to be beaten at times."
May be you need to do a research yourself.

mamajaz:
When we take the pain to watch over your welfare, you call it contention.
When we correct you in love with much emphasis, you call it witch-hunting.
When we look away from your untoward attitude to members of the family, you call us carefree.
When we speak up a bit, you call us nags.
It is so painful there more boys than men heading families .
Such that, many women have to start training them while we still service them at night, take care of the seed of their so called love plays and nurture their children.
Small boys forming mature men since Adam's days, SMH sadly.
Quote me without sense and thunder that will fire you will finish it's press up and release itself on you.

OlowoB:


Your other feminists don't even have it this bad jumping on all threads with bitterness.

You need help urgently. Cock sucker

By the way, you haven't said ODE today. Hope you are alright mate?

daretodiffer:


Learn to distinguish ladies that love to be beaten from the ones that don't. There is no excuse for violence or abuse. Some women like to be beaten, but don't ever lump us together. An unruly woman is an unruly woman. Claiming that all women especially the unruly ones wants to be flogged is madness. Would you offer the same solution in dealing with unruly men?



Some women that act like that so that they could be beaten is highly likely due to the fact that they have come to associate power and control with violence thanks to their stvpid parents and stvpid siblings. They find it difficult to communicate and they tend to be into traditional power and domination stuffs. They are damaged. For some, it could be due to the fact that their fathers used to be beat their mothers, they have come to rationalise violence has a means to an end. Women like that end up either as a victim or as a perpetrator.


FYI, women like that would continue the abuse with their kids. That means your kids will grow up to be either a perpetrator or a victim and the cycle goes on and on and on and on! You will end up damaging yourself and your kids because you want to teach an unruly woman a lesson.

However if she is doing it because it turns her on, it is best you ask her and keep it within the confines of your bedroom



*** By violence, I also mean non-physical forms of domestic abuse too.

That woman deserves to be beaten like a goat. If your pastor listened to her, he must be a very bad leader.
Ermmm...how would you identify an unruly woman who likes to be assaulted?

icedbeatz:
spot on bro, who wants a damaged goods? I pray lord give me a woman that is mine, very compactible with me so that we can beat romeo and juliet's love bro, i so despise trouble and unnecessary rants. So far most nl girls tend to showcase their insecurities and lack of knowledge when the comment you just wonder if brain damage is a mere medical condition in most nl/Nigerian girls.

daretodiffer:


Learn to distinguish ladies that love to be beaten from the ones that don't. There is no excuse for violence or abuse. Some women like to be beaten, but don't ever lump us together. An unruly woman is an unruly woman. Claiming that all women especially the unruly ones wants to be flogged is madness. Would you offer the same solution in dealing with unruly men?



Some women that act like that so that they could be beaten is highly likely due to the fact that they have come to associate power and control with violence thanks to their stvpid parents and stvpid siblings. They find it difficult to communicate and they tend to be into traditional power and domination stuffs. They are damaged. For some, it could be due to the fact that their fathers used to be beat their mothers, they have come to rationalise violence has a means to an end. Women like that end up either as a victim or as a perpetrator.


FYI, women like that would continue the abuse with their kids. That means your kids will grow up to be either a perpetrator or a victim and the cycle goes on and on and on and on! You will end up damaging yourself and your kids because you want to teach an unruly woman a lesson.

However if she is doing it because it turns her on, it is best you ask her and keep it within the confines of your bedroom



*** By violence, I also mean non-physical forms of domestic abuse too.

That woman deserves to be beaten like a goat. If your pastor listened to her, he must be a very bad leader.
Ermmm...how would you identify an unruly woman who likes to be assaulted?

curiositymaster:


OlowoB, I have a feeling this lady will drive the sword throw herself in the end. Watch this space

OlowoB:


That one you had to quote ..... Virtuos woman? I laugh in Swahili.

Bro nice points by the way.

Happy Easter

vislabraye:


I'm not supporting it, anyway. At least my pastor doesn't support it.

ourchoice:
Same to you my brother, she can be a different person from her comments on nairalander, you never can tell. Have a blissful night rest

icedbeatz:
all depends on how you go about it bc even mad people think they are sane. Just want to spend few seconds on your comment, speaking up a bit is d/f from nagging, service them? Are you not enjoying the sex too? Take care of their children? So they're not your children? In all a virtuous woman knows why, when and most importantly how to discuss and make her husband see reasons with her if there is one which is a skill most ladies lack and don't want to learn, don't try to be a man's mom he already has/had one you will only irritate him. Work on your attitude.

Bibors:


Why? Please Educate me.