daretodiffer:


I will have to do you first

postmann:
A contentious woman is a sand in the mill.
She lacks grace and style
A pack of grudge and unresolved bitterness plague her
Her home is a heap of mess
Her husband prefers the cold hands of a stranger to hers

She's incorrigible; until she takes her husband down, her soul knows no let up
Never be jealous of her if she's outwardly beautiful
She's only a painted mud house
Her foundation is shallow
Watch her wrinkle away in anger
As she perishes under the weight of her own misery

Bibors:
I have read many threads and comments here about avoiding errors in making choices of your spouce hence this my first thread on how those who now live with a contentious and nagging wife can survive.

Once the knot is tied and the butterflies fly away and reality sets in , its now time to take the bull by he horn and survive or DIE.
Note- these women have good intentions for being contentious women. They are protecting their man. Wants him to come back home straight from the office, to always look away when he sees a beautiful woman, calls and calls to know where you are and still calls even after a million explanations until you can't take the call again, try to stop you from hanging out with friends over a bottle of beer, try to correct everything they perceive as an error you made, goes the extreme with you as in- why call consistently when i have told you what's up, then you hear OK I will NEVER call again. Ahhh the list is endless.

The typical Naija man is a hardworking hustler who doesn't want to be slowed down with the rules to make a woman happy while he withdraws into a shell.

1. Never keep pleasing her to displease yourselves- if you keep playing by her rules she will still complain.
2. Never neglect your network of friends especially guys you discuss business with just because she doesn't like them.
3. Never raise your hands on her except she has beaten you atleast twice- ie. Her first beating could be a mistake, second beating, she has anger issues, if she tries to repeat it, Brother deliver her but carefully so you Dont give marks or injury for she still remains your wife.
4. Provide all you can but never get into debt to please her.
5. You can never talk sense into a contentious woman if you try you hurt both yourselves more so resort to short syllabus words- Love you, thank you, excuse me, fine, etc.
She will never stop checking your phone and will still fine faults even when there is nothing there so always lock yours and never look at hers.
6. She will manipulate to into jealousy- Never give into any kind of manipulation no matter how it hurts.
7. Ignore her rantings and concentrate on raising your kids.

8. Live with your problems, get used to it, and you will walk through victorious where others have failed.
9. Always remember that the man who contends with more problems/ issues and challenges is always a better man.

Name callers are welcome- constructive critisiam is well come above all matured experienced contributions very welcomed. Good read, but how do you deal with these other issues : like denying you love and sex, stopping you from loving or bringing the kids up, insulting your parents right in your presence, refusing to make food for for the house, refusing to discuss any family issues with you, and most especially things must only be done her ways, if you don't do things her ways, then you are on your own...etc

lolaed:


At least credit the author

Dyt:


You men like mumu submissions
Hianus

9jatatafo:
OP there is no perfect marriage

GodnGold:
Who told you this?

ezelos:
. Why poke ur nose on wats not ur biz!

prophetfire:
woman,take it easy.its a discussion forum,not a fight.the insults are extreme.

torqque7:

Smh lol..women ehnn,u must vex o,oya take cake chopcalm down biko

gamaliel121:


you expected insults buh he 'shunned' u and it vexed u....hahahahahah...kpele

Bamsupremacy:
You need a psychiatrist cos you have serious attitudinal issues. Seek help asap

mrwonlasewonie:
ode! The last time I checked which your gumshion failed to tell you,NAIRALAND IS A PUBLIC FORUM .therefore if he didn't want me to poke my nose in his buisness he should have put this post in his house.


Another jerk on the loose

ezelos:
. On the loose to tame your excesses.

Dyt:
And how does she live with his problems?

emusmith:


Hey! Look up your dictionary and quit beating around the bush already

Fit2Rule:

WAEC still has one free registration left after they gave one to Mrs. Kemi Adeosun to rewrite mathematics. I'll pay an expert to prepare you adequately so that you may pass the English language this time around.

Bibors:
I have read many threads and comments here about avoiding errors in making choices of your spouce hence this my first thread on how those who now live with a contentious and nagging wife can survive.

Once the knot is tied and the butterflies fly away and reality sets in , its now time to take the bull by he horn and survive or DIE.
Note- these women have good intentions for being contentious women. They are protecting their man. Wants him to come back home straight from the office, to always look away when he sees a beautiful woman, calls and calls to know where you are and still calls even after a million explanations until you can't take the call again, try to stop you from hanging out with friends over a bottle of beer, try to correct everything they perceive as an error you made, goes the extreme with you as in- why call consistently when i have told you what's up, then you hear OK I will NEVER call again. Ahhh the list is endless.

The typical Naija man is a hardworking hustler who doesn't want to be slowed down with the rules to make a woman happy while he withdraws into a shell.

1. Never keep pleasing her to displease yourselves- if you keep playing by her rules she will still complain.
2. Never neglect your network of friends especially guys you discuss business with just because she doesn't like them.
3. Never raise your hands on her except she has beaten you atleast twice- ie. Her first beating could be a mistake, second beating, she has anger issues, if she tries to repeat it, Brother deliver her but carefully so you Dont give marks or injury for she still remains your wife.
4. Provide all you can but never get into debt to please her.
5. You can never talk sense into a contentious woman if you try you hurt both yourselves more so resort to short syllabus words- Love you, thank you, excuse me, fine, etc.
She will never stop checking your phone and will still fine faults even when there is nothing there so always lock yours and never look at hers.
6. She will manipulate to into jealousy- Never give into any kind of manipulation no matter how it hurts.
7. Ignore her rantings and concentrate on raising your kids.

8. Live with your problems, get used to it, and you will walk through victorious where others have failed.
9. Always remember that the man who contends with more problems/ issues and challenges is always a better man.

Name callers are welcome- constructive critisiam is well come above all matured experienced contributions very welcomed.

mrwonlasewonie:
prophet doom who dey follow this one fight.why body dey pepper you?


Abi fight dey hungry you? You go dress go front

Tallesty1:
At least twice? I disagree.
A perfect gentleman is the one who knows when not to be gentle.
Hit me once and I will reset your head.

Dyt:
And how does she live with his problems?

Funkychic:


Hmmmmm.....Resetter!

mrwonlasewonie:
go and tame your phenese first

Oponu