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Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by oshaosha2014(m): 9:04am On Mar 27, 2016
Op, if I have a son that is going thru what you are going thru in the hands of a woman, I will disown him. I am not here to brag, but I can tell I don't waste my energy chasing a woman for one month. within weeks, if you are not forthcoming, na to waka. One year! man you watch too much telemundo.

Pls, do the needful, like you have been adviced, forget about this gal and chase another, and don't spend one year this around. You should know a gal that is worth the time when chasing.

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Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by lereinter(m): 9:08am On Mar 27, 2016
Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs

I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......


Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).

Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.

After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......

She's just been fruustrating my life.

One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.

Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.

Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".

I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...


I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........


Pls advise me.

Some men are not worth to be called a Man but a chicken. The girl ve not even charm you and still you find it difficult to use your brain.
Am crying for you
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by lereinter(m): 9:11am On Mar 27, 2016
Bluezy13:
She is done with the relationship and seeking greener pastures elsewhere.








Hope you bleep her though
Cos that's the only thing that will console you


A cold Heineken for you..
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by blackarmy15: 9:16am On Mar 27, 2016
She is a runs girl you can't marry her. She is in another man's house wearing his cap.
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by agarawu23(m): 9:21am On Mar 27, 2016
sunnyeinstein:


Agarawu d church accountant! You don fvck all of dem finish or dem don porche u frm d church cheesy cheesy
oga no put me for trouble o grin

Wetin u dey talk
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by agarawu23(m): 9:22am On Mar 27, 2016
Ecoterrorist:
lolz hahahahaha i miss you on politics section
as na don use una 'hate' pursue us nko? angry
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by bebu: 9:23am On Mar 27, 2016
Guy Officially breakup wit her b4 u will kill ur self by ur self
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by humanshado: 9:26am On Mar 27, 2016
My brother run for your life before it is too late. That girl has been using you as an emotional cushion nothing more nothing less. Most likely you came in when she had a quarrel with her white guy. Now they are back together so your time has expired.

Insist at your own peril and that of your unborn children. Bros fine girls plenty everywhere!
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Heineken(m): 9:28am On Mar 27, 2016
CaroLyner:
no need to ask her. dump her ass asap.
correct talk Caro

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Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Heineken(m): 9:30am On Mar 27, 2016
DeadWrong:
Damn! I hate to read stories about weaklings. It freaks me out!
Op has very deep inferiority complex. Why would sane guy chase after a lady for a year in the first place? The same time and energy that could have been invested into something productive.
Jeez...Why do we have sissies in this world?
I don't ask her a lady out twice talk more of chasing after her like she's some achievements. Mtxheew.
Op, slap yourself and wake up from ur foolishness
wow.. May God bless you man. Imagine chasing a girl for a year? That's damn crazy. One week sef I can't.

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Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Heineken(m): 9:35am On Mar 27, 2016
Op you seriously need to wake up. You're dulling big time. Why love stupidly? How old are you? Please let her be.. If guys fit be like me ehn, girl show you say she no believe you and you dey die for her.. You no try guy.. Snapping those pics and using them for you to see sef na sign na... Girl wey love you won't at all and even If she won't upload the pic.. Wake up my man
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by kowema(f): 9:36am On Mar 27, 2016
Davland:


Dis coming frm a lady
I gat to make use of dis too
Lolzzzz.. Are u in d Op's Shoes too?

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Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by seangy4konji: 9:36am On Mar 27, 2016
I don't know what to say.
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by hola106(m): 9:37am On Mar 27, 2016
Guy dat s ladies for u u don't hv to take dem too serious shld be in case dis type of tin happen so dat u can easily move on but all still d same bro I wish u find a beta girl dan her dat will even had to ur life move on nd take heart I knw hw s it tanks
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by torqque7(m): 9:48am On Mar 27, 2016
Vikings007:
fact
Baba na so na..no time o,I no just get some guys sha letting women play with them, omoh she do anyhow she see any how shikena..

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Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Heineken(m): 9:51am On Mar 27, 2016
oshaosha2014:
Op, if I have a son that is going thru what you are going thru in the hands of a woman, I will disown him. I am not here to brag, but I can tell I don't waste my energy chasing a woman for one month. within weeks, if you are not forthcoming, na to waka. One year! man you watch too much telemundo.

Pls, do the needful, like you have been adviced, forget about this gal and chase another, and don't spend one year this around. You should know a gal that is worth the time when chasing.
Nice talk man. Which kind mumu love be that.
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Heineken(m): 9:51am On Mar 27, 2016
lereinter:


A cold Heineken for you..
lol
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Heineken(m): 9:52am On Mar 27, 2016
blackarmy15:
She is a runs girl you can't marry her. She is in another man's house wearing his cap.
Hahaha.. The op is funny Sha. I can't love like that. It's even bad for him
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Davland(m): 9:57am On Mar 27, 2016
kowema:

Lolzzzz.. Are u in d Op's Shoes too?

Ehmehm

A friend as most Op's do say grin

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Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by freecocoa(f): 10:15am On Mar 27, 2016
This OP gotta be trolling, otherwise, brain transplant is needed urgently.
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by ucjesuso: 10:28am On Mar 27, 2016
guy leave that lady alone and look for your wife
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by fejikudz(m): 10:31am On Mar 27, 2016
Vig86:
OP and Nairalanders, I want to make something clear to you, especially the young boys and ready-to-marry guys.


Any lady that takes you up to 2 months and above with intense 'chyking' to land is not your wife and can't be. It is just nature.
Many married men can't even explain how they met their wives. They would tell you that it just happened. That is nature. At first, you may be thinking that the lady is cheap but wait for some weeks...the love will start growing to the extent that you can use her phone for weeks without her coming back for it or otherwise.
Op, I will not tell you whether she is your wife or not. It is up to God, and then, to you to decide. She may love you but she is not ready for that commitment now. It is better for a girl to disturb about marriage, but not man.
I could remember when I told my girl that I would like to settle in lagos and unconsciously, she said, ''Noooo, I don't like that place...even to go for school runs will be war'' before she realised herself and remembered that I never even proposed. Those are the signs of people that love you(may be at the moment) but it matters.
Best advice

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Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by AuthegaPRIMUS(m): 10:52am On Mar 27, 2016
Let her go. Its gonna b hard. Buh for the love of God. Let her go. I am a living testimony. Let her go.
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Apina(m): 11:03am On Mar 27, 2016
falconey:
grin

Do you need sledgehammer to break up with her?
Lol....... The guy is waiting for triple H to lend him his own after summer slam.


she is preying on you man.
I couldn't stop laughing my fvcking ass out. The guy is waiting for Triple H's sledge hammer for the break up ceremony

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Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by stubbornman(m): 11:30am On Mar 27, 2016
Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs

I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......


Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).

Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.

After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......

She's just been fruustrating my life.

One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.

Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.

Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".

I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...


I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........


Pls advise me.
you people will create a very annoying thread and still say no insults ......that girl must have cook ewedu soup for you with the water from her pant dripping on it.....my man breakup and go for deliverance... Common sense man
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by BornnAgainChild(f): 11:30am On Mar 27, 2016
Varagous:
she neither respect your nor your feelings... talk to her.. ask her if she still wants you and do the needful.

No need for that joor,.he should just take a quiet walk away....
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by tobsidan1: 11:39am On Mar 27, 2016
My friend ...this lady has no future with u...its better u put your self together and move on...if not she will continue to toy with your emotions for her...God will give u your own wife. smileyMy friend ...this lady has no future with u...its better u put your self together and move on...if not she will continue to toy with your emotions for her...God will give u your own wife.
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by stubbornman(m): 11:40am On Mar 27, 2016
kowema:
Hmmmmmm....That girl is greedy and mean!!.

OP, it's cus u are giving her attention. Ignore her completely for One month and watch her emaciate.
that girl already has her compass she no go send am
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by bigcil2(m): 11:44am On Mar 27, 2016
Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs

I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......


Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).

Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.

After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......

She's just been fruustrating my life.

One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.

Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.

Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".

I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...


I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........


Pls advise me.

You know what to do... I have experienced such and this is a pointer that she doesn't have interest in you and wants to frustrate you out of it cos she doesn't have the guts to tell you. She is a two faced person. My advice either of two will happen
1. Happily ever after which happens in 1 put of 1000 situations

2. She breaks your heart and leaves it shattered , the. run off with the white dude. 99% possibility.

This is just a joke but serious maybe you're thinking she is testing you and you feel she will call you one day and tell you the gimmicks behind her attitude. Lol good dream
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Lotechi(m): 12:08pm On Mar 27, 2016
bro you already knw the answer to ur question!!! Stop acting like the lucky one!!!
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Lotechi(m): 12:14pm On Mar 27, 2016
bro u already knw the answer to ur question!!!! stop acting like the lucky one......the battle of the sexes have been fought and guess wat?? we won so man up
Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 27, 2016
read btw the lines op, the girl no dey feel u..
Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs

I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......


Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).

Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.

After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......

She's just been fruustrating my life.

One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.

Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.

Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".

I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...


I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........


Pls advise me.

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