| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Nobody: 6:31am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Jadeite:
Oh Lord! Please, I have said it before...Not all Nigerian girls are after a man's money, some hustle harder( decently), than may wish to believe..
So sir please, say something else... sory to offend u wit d harsh words! Yea, I knw there r those ladies dat struggle to earn a living in a decent manner. Bad ones dat can die because of money seem to ve overshadowed the decent ones. Mayb u r nt among the gluttons! 1 Like |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by aigbokiejohnson(m): 6:37am On Mar 27, 2016 |
You need move on brother. The lady has since moved on. She was only trying to result to yoy as an option. Last resort if the seemingly available failed. Drop the apparent infatuation and wait for yours. GOD bless |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by fboycaestro12(m): 6:37am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Op for your own good. Just move on asap. If not you might end up being on the side for a very long time. The only thing the girl will do is tell the white guy you're some random guy wanting her and from then on she will even pick your call in front of the white guy like nothing is happening meanwhile you have been zoned. Zoning you gives her the priv to ask you anything which you will never turn down because of the so called love you have for her. That will be very harmful to you because she's gonna take you on a very long ride. This happened to me before and this is what you should do. Delete her from your BBM, Facebook or any social media so that u don't get to see her post or Dp as the case maybe. It doesn't seem easy but you have to discipline yourself at this stage. Stop calling, texting and if she does don't reply. If she notices you're not forthcoming again she will be forced to adjust or do some drastic. But in all bro, it will be so good to find another lady. Make yourself happy, find a new hobby, go see movies, go drink with friends and party like nothing happened. Life is too short to dwell on a chick who doesn't love u. Shalom 2 Likes |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Nobody: 6:44am On Mar 27, 2016 |
When you pray, "and protect me from danger". This is God answering you 1 Like |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by fboycaestro12(m): 6:47am On Mar 27, 2016 |
scotz101:
I Want to ask tho, for ladies its called 'moving on', but for guys its called 'cheating' ?? Gender inequality there bro |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Davidolives(m): 6:48am On Mar 27, 2016 |
DeadWrong:
Damn! I hate to read stories about weaklings. It freaks me out!
Op has very deep inferiority complex. Why would sane guy chase after a lady for a year in the first place? The same energy that could have been invested into something productive.
Jeez...Why do we have sissies in this world?
I don't ask her a lady out twice talk more of chasing after her like she's some achievements. Mtxheew.
Op, slap yourself and wake up from ur foolishness I was telling someone I can ask a lady out for more than 2 weeks.it doesn't take a long time to take a flower and smell it |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by poseidon12: 6:52am On Mar 27, 2016 |
I don't think she loves you. Love should be a two-way thing. Just move on. Don't allow her to keep messing with your emotions. |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Nobody: 6:53am On Mar 27, 2016 |
torqque7:
U are wayyy too late..u should have dumped her sorry ass when she had the guts to tell u she flushed ur ring down the toilet.. Bro that's the height of disrespect, shez now wearing the pants in ur relationship..don't give her the courtesy of letting her know its over self just move on and meet other women ASAP,the best way to get over somebody is to get under another person  thank me latter.. fact 
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| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by PhilipRex(m): 6:57am On Mar 27, 2016 |
The truth of d matter you love her bt she has reconcile with the white guy and she can't tell you to your face. She find comfort with d white guy. If you love her meet her up $ reason with her y u want her. |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Nobody: 6:59am On Mar 27, 2016 |
blezzymoore:
Don't say that,
U never see who u love oh. ive seen her, and im about to ask her out. . And from the look of things, its gonna be a yes cos smart girls know intelligent husband material. |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by rosieluv(f): 7:00am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Pheals:
[b][/b]
chai d gal lyk white boi pass OP. OP she dznt luv u abeg,i bliv she is seein dah er ex bf. No tink too much,jxt do d ryt thing |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Nobody: 7:03am On Mar 27, 2016 |
How can you break up with a lady that has broken up with you? Just don't make her your Plan A. Restructure your plan on her. All the best. |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Haryohdeji(m): 7:03am On Mar 27, 2016 |
longest dance ever in the world |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by ezelos(m): 7:04am On Mar 27, 2016 |
DeadWrong:
Damn! I hate to read stories about weaklings. It freaks me out!
Op has very deep inferiority complex. Why would sane guy chase after a lady for a year in the first place? The same energy that could have been invested into something productive.
Jeez...Why do we have sissies in this world?
I don't ask her a lady out twice talk more of chasing after her like she's some achievements. Mtxheew.
Op, slap yourself and wake up from ur foolishness The best response so far! 1 Like |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by mykel25(m): 7:07am On Mar 27, 2016 |
You guys have said it all! Do you need a prophet to tell you she doesn't want u again ni.....so as to move on quickly get a sidechick to divert your emotion on |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by okrote4real: 7:11am On Mar 27, 2016 |
You are the one Frustrating your Life, Just After you Officially Proposed To Her  Kai you nor be man  you be mango. But sha If nah correct guy you be , nah she for write this story.  1 Like |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by MrNiceGuy5: 7:11am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs
I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......
Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).
Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.
After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......
She's just been fruustrating my life.
One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.
Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.
Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".
I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...
I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........
Pls advise me.
Ignore her totally. When she buzz you, answer her but if she doesn't then pretend she is not existing in your life anymore. Bro move on jare. There are pretty and responsible ladies out there. Life is too beautiful for you to be passing through this nonsense. All the best bro |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by gezzyvinci(m): 7:13am On Mar 27, 2016 |
falconey:
Do you need sledgehammer to break up with her?
she is preying on you man. u made my day 1 Like |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by 2ts: 7:16am On Mar 27, 2016 |
I warn u o!!! Leave this gal. She is food for the gods. Oyinbo lives in a nice house and the babe is probably on pay as you go in dollars. Sorry boss, you got to run. Dont wait till we start advising you to do DNA test to know if the child is yours.
Make up ur mind and move on. |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by 2tek: 7:16am On Mar 27, 2016 |
3 or more things are involved.
1) you don't have enough money to meet her needs, give her fun nd comfort. So, go nd double ur hussle.
2) you were probably doing 'no romance' before marriage with her while she warms d white guy's bed.
3) you probably gave too much ATTENTION, which show desparation nd u were not in charge.
DUMP HER immediately. Ladies prefer free spirit guys(guy men). |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Eliwyse(m): 7:18am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs
I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......
Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).
Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.
After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......
She's just been fruustrating my life.
One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.
Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.
Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".
I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...
I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........
Pls advise me.
[center][/center] she flushd ur ring!!! Mehn, leave dat girl already. I knw hw hard it is though, considerin ur state of LOVE |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Haryohdeji(m): 7:18am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs
I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......
Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).
Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.
After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......
She's just been fruustrating my life.
One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.
Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.
Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".
I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...
I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........
Pls advise me.
bro you bleeped up, cox I can see you forced her to love you...just delete her contact from ur fone,whatsapp,face and on any of ur social media. Go out there and take some bottle of heneiken or origin. There are many girls out there... Its only a COWARD that is weighed down by girl @ dis our era. |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by san316(m): 7:19am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Sorry OP. I know you are hurt, but just give her a break. Don't call, don't text, find someone else and be friends. Also post images that will suggest to her that you are also moving on.
She will message you and you will have the opportunity to tell her how you feel. |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by 2sexynet: 7:20am On Mar 27, 2016 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:
Thays why I dont advocat for disturbing a girl if she says no.
A girl who likes you will at least try tobe friends... get to know you 1st.
no time for long tory so true. Learned one hard lesson from this. |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by greatbrian(m): 7:21am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Love is essential in relationship but that love might not pull U through some tough situations.............. my advise marriage z not to be patched dating might be so move on bro. A thousand better ladies are dia waiting for just a Hi from U move on man |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by yoged(m): 7:23am On Mar 27, 2016 |
How old are you ? why is it always hard for people to think . Stop been a woman wrapper . She ain't for you . If she is giving you headache right now when you guys haven't married yet . You will regret it for the rest of your life when you get married . Forget about her and find someone else . Start using another babe for your dp, believe me she will give her brain sense . Stop allowing a female to control your life . HALF WORDS IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE . |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Michellla(f): 7:28am On Mar 27, 2016 |
lomprico:
You should start your own program of "girl code"
Mehn! dats how my now ex was giving me signs but I was too blinded by love to notice until she dropped d nuclear bomb! I nearly daa! ouchh...  sorry about that.sure you're quite okay now. 1 Like |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by cbngov25: 7:28am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs
I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......
Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).
Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.
After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......
She's just been fruustrating my life.
One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.
Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.
Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".
I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...
I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........
Pls advise me.
Oga receive sense and bounce!... Before u die of heart attack |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Michellla(f): 7:28am On Mar 27, 2016 |
scotz101:
I Want to ask tho, for ladies its called 'moving on', but for guys its called 'cheating'?? you totally misunderstood 1 Like |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by missjahiniekpe(f): 7:30am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Once a lady says no to you, please let her be. Don't try to force yourself on her or choose yourself for her. She knows what she wants and doesn't need you to make that decision for her... I weep at most of the comments have seen here, calling the lady involved all sorts of name without blaming the guy. She said no, the least you could have done would have been to respect her decision, she dated you out of pity and because you pushed too hard. Reality is, she doesn't want a relationship with you, there are other girls that will appreciate your friendship, look their side and stop making it look like she is too bad. No wonder you guys opposed the equality bill so much, so you will keep forcing yourselves on ladies that doesn't desire you, meanwhile there are others that will die to be with you. Please leave her alone. |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by ioi74(m): 7:34am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs
I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......
Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).
Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.
After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......
She's just been fruustrating my life.
One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.
Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.
Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".
I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...
I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........
Pls advise me.
oga,move on |
| Re: She Is Frustrating My Life, Just After I Officially Proposed To Her by Nobody: 7:35am On Mar 27, 2016 |
This is why you shouldn't date any girl that plays hard yo get initially. |
