I fell in love with a lady pretty & lovable though she is from another tribe I hardly see her face around because we live some distance apart. My dad is against it & my mum partially. I try to go out on a date she doesn't honour most of it, she will either allege she is not having time or she is busy. This had caused some quarrels and we would later reunite. This past few months we had a disagreement which made her to ignore me for some weeks, I tried reuniting again buh she proved adamant. I decided to let her be, 2months onwards I didn't contact her, she neva did too. Recently she called me, alleged again buh to cut d long story short I forgave her but all this while she was proving so adamant, I came across a lady I was amazed at her she had all d qualities I wanted in a lady. I became so much in love wit her now she had already given me a reply ds last few days. This is d challenge I av, I do not know wat to tell d former y I moved on wen she had already gotten her senses but of course it was too late & I nid to begin wit the latter in order to avoid problems. I only nid advise on how to present my case without any emotional trauma

Hmm..
Maybe you should Stall the first one, then elongate your time with the second. Pick quarrel with her and then see if she will show her true color too like the other one.

My brother based on your thread topic, the word "PICK" is what I don't understand, are women now flowers or apples that you pick them?

You should follow your heart finally because you don't expect people here to start judging the character of your two female counterparts with loads of sentiments when they don't even know them.
This thread is closed.

Bro you've answered yourself the Question. You've moved on and you don't owe the other chick any damn explanation!

Just a few questions

Why didn't you end it properly with the former? Why didn't you tell her you already moved on when she came back?
From your write up, its clear you prefer this new chic... so why are you still holding on the former?

layla129:
Just a few questions

Why didn't you end it properly with the former? Why didn't you tell her you already moved on when she came back?
From your write up, its clear you prefer this new chic... so why are you still holding on the former?

ur dp make sense... I swear

funnynation:

ur dp make sense... I swear

Thank you

Op, u dnt have to pick any one, instead what u shoud do is to pick your common sense, I think it fell on d floor.


Only den will u be able to reason clearly

I know where this is heading ...wait an see,..very soon we will be hearing girlfreind drama

Some circumstances turns someone to a player, this case is one. Here is what you'll do, keep them both cos you never can tell who is real. Make the new bae the main chick while the old bae becomes the side chick.

Is not possible to love two people equally, choose the one u love most

Hustle,be financially flamboyant, and u wldnt have to worry abt stuff lyk this..


Just date one,its nt u want courtship or a committed relationship.

Hustle,be financially flamboyant, and u wldnt have to worry abt stuff lyk this..


Just date one,its nt lyk u want courtship or a committed relationship.

I couldn't read your trash but I suggest you keep both of them..just incase

You cant be in love with two women dude.

layla129:
Thank you

can we chat?

Sorry to say but you're a bit confused..
A lot of people think they could act without the help of the Holy spirit, we need Him daily for directions and guidance.. If only your intentions are pure, if only, then you wouldn't be this confused

pick d one wt d biggest behind