You are looking at your new environment or lucky children that had university education. Look again. What is the percentage of children with university education?

Most people thank God for graduating from high school unless your dad was really rich. He may have even congratulated himself for seeing and sponsoring that far.

Look around and thank God.

I do not like him swearing at you though. Some parents do it out of anger thinking the child is ungrateful.

Considered yourself lucky. Some kids just want someone to call dad.

dare2differ:
Tell stories of it to who

How do you people come up with things like this?


The reason why you are alive is to go back to and end up in hell/paradise.
You can't miss what you don't have.
There is nothing special about living.

incoming generation on how to go with things so that everything will be in order. For example hammering the kingdom of God is important for the coming generation.

makasimatics:
I am Chukwuma Edozie,from Ogbunike, In Oyi Local government Area,Anambra State.
since I was born, I have never experienced any positive behavior from my father.
He has proved to be a difficult person.
in fact! to the best of my knowledge, he is a very cuny,greedy,and selfish human being.

He would make money but would rather invest it on harlots instead of we the children who are interested in education. In fact, one of his stupid friend had advised him one certain time to not waste his money in the name of training us in the university. " secondary school level is enough for us ", the man said. I don't know if that was what contributed in making my father to neglect me when I was in the university reading mathematics.
Even,amid my days in the versity, I used to take some bags of rice and tin of life vegetable oil to our house without receiving any ' thanks ' from any body though, my mum would sometimes appreciate. I did all those because of the money I generated in my class as a course rep.

Now I have graduated and gone for service in peace after training my self in the university.

With these experiences, I want to know if somebody would blame me if I fail to appreciate him as my father in case I get a work in the future.
Now he tries to come close to me because, he believes that I have conquered

After abandoning me in the campus to die, he still wants to reap the benefits of what he never merited.

well, I think I know what is is my mind.

at list he dint kill you wen u are small.you either a small boy or a fool to still be angry with your dad.

habsydiamond:
incoming generation on how to go with things so that everything will be in order. For example hammering the kingdom of God is important for the coming generation.

Why should someone who isn't alive be concerned about it?

You can never have a second biological father. He still deserves all the love from you. Read through people's life encounter and see that yours is a minor case.

makasimatics:



well written. I love that. but could u believe that this man in question, sometimes when we both quarrel, would go to his shrine and say some negative things against me so that his so-called god (aro bi nagu) would attack my future.

But I believe in the main God and for this reason,he is harmless.

how do u know that he went to shrine and reported u?

Princeprinz will love your mum

Mickey2015:
You can never have a second biological father. He still deserves all the love from you. Read through people's life encounter and see that yours is a minor case.

What is so special about biological when biological has failed to make itself special

Uchan4u:
You can never have another father, forget that he didn't sponsor you through the university. Thank God that you have conquered, because it is not by your might. forgive your dad and move on with your life. Remember that you have benefited and will still benefit from your father, if you doubt ask orphans what they are passing through

. This is the answer to your Questions bro, He's your Dad and he will always be...My Dad was ready to train me But where is Now? I lost him at the age of 13..so forgive your dad and you will see open doors

dare2differ:
Why should someone who isn't alive be concerned about it?

Dead people don't have any concern on anything. once someone is dead, he move to the next phase and leave the living to continue with the struggles.

Forgive your father. Go to him and seek his blessings. Forgiveness has a dual healing power,you and him will be refreshed afterwards. Look on the bright side. Your father abandoning you has made you a stronger man,a survivor. I believe you will not abandon your own son. Stronger man, be a better man,forgive.

OP, pretend you have forgiven him then welcome him back into your life and house so you can deal with him properly.

Dealing with him is easier when he is close to you so try and do that. Then start plotting ways to get revenge on a daily basis till you cover all the years of neglect you suffered. Make sure you are subtle about it.

You haven't got work yet and you are deciding whether you'd appreciate him or not. You are only letting pain eat you up from the inside. You put yourself through school, you survived, you graduated and have served. Get a job and show him how to be a better man. Take care of him that's the best revenge... oh...and make sure you don't do the same to your kids.

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I like people who can think beyond the surface!
Respects Man.




Lastpage!

Good morning Sir. and thanks !

makasimatics:
I am Chukwuma Edozie,from Ogbunike, In Oyi Local government Area,Anambra State.
since I was born, I have never experienced any positive behavior from my father.
He has proved to be a difficult person.
in fact! to the best of my knowledge, he is a very cuny,greedy,and selfish human being.

He would make money but would rather invest it on harlots instead of we the children who are interested in education. In fact, one of his stupid friend had advised him one certain time to not waste his money in the name of training us in the university. " secondary school level is enough for us ", the man said. I don't know if that was what contributed in making my father to neglect me when I was in the university reading mathematics.
Even,amid my days in the versity, I used to take some bags of rice and tin of life vegetable oil to our house without receiving any ' thanks ' from any body though, my mum would sometimes appreciate. I did all those because of the money I generated in my class as a course rep.

Now I have graduated and gone for service in peace after training my self in the university.

With these experiences, I want to know if somebody would blame me if I fail to appreciate him as my father in case I get a work in the future.
Now he tries to come close to me because, he believes that I have conquered

After abandoning me in the campus to die, he still wants to reap the benefits of what he never merited.

well, I think I know what is is my mind.

You made money from your classmates as a course rep. So tell me what the difference between you and your father is now.

makasimatics:
I am Chukwuma Edozie,from Ogbunike, In Oyi Local government Area,Anambra State.
since I was born, I have never experienced any positive behavior from my father.
He has proved to be a difficult person.
in fact! to the best of my knowledge, he is a very cuny,greedy,and selfish human being.

He would make money but would rather invest it on harlots instead of we the children who are interested in education. In fact, one of his stupid friend had advised him one certain time to not waste his money in the name of training us in the university. " secondary school level is enough for us ", the man said. I don't know if that was what contributed in making my father to neglect me when I was in the university reading mathematics.
Even,amid my days in the versity, I used to take some bags of rice and tin of life vegetable oil to our house without receiving any ' thanks ' from any body though, my mum would sometimes appreciate. I did all those because of the money I generated in my class as a course rep.

Now I have graduated and gone for service in peace after training my self in the university.

With these experiences, I want to know if somebody would blame me if I fail to appreciate him as my father in case I get a work in the future.
Now he tries to come close to me because, he believes that I have conquered

After abandoning me in the campus to die, he still wants to reap the benefits of what he never merited.

well, I think I know what is is my mind.

You made money from your classmates as a course rep. So tell me what the difference between you and your father is now. What if your ex class mates decide to keep grudges against you?

do people make money from being class reps...i smell fraud lols.anyways u do not owe your parents jack but still you are required to play your role as a child to your parents buh always be quick to remind them when they start feeling entitled that they didn't contribute nada to your education.that being said, what's there to feel bitter about again?God has already vindicated u so forgive and forget.i hope you get a good job soon..peace

If he had not given birth to you , would you have gone to the so called university so people should advice you whether to forgive your dad or not, even if he didnt train you .something is wrong somewhere, so if people advice you not to forgive him you would take it and work on that , common you are a man with good cognition put those rubishh incitive emotional perceptions and move on with your life and let me tell you you should have used a pseudo-nomenclatural identity instead of your eunomenclature , so go and edit that stuff before it goes viral, are you the only person that was not trained by his dad ? my dad didnt even know how much my school fees was until I culminated my studies .

young man, you have no alternatives but to forgive your father: there is no straight thinking human that will prefer to abandon his or her responsibilities for harlots. It most have been some issues beyond your comprehension, ( spiritual) pray for him to delivered from drinking alcohol and patronizing harlots.
And you also have to pray against the spirit of un forgiveness

Young03:
if i tell u not to forgive him...u will say am wicked


if i tell u to forgive him...u will say o dont know wat u passed tru



guy if u like forgive..if u like dont


cos it wont stop.fuel scarcity

guy u mad ooo.....wat a point.

Pls do 4give ur father. just look at the fact that he brot u 2 dis world. though its rilly painful seeing ones father running frm his responsibility. may God help u in ur future endevors. cheers!

Young03:
if i tell u not to forgive him...u will say am wicked


if i tell u to forgive him...u will say o dont know wat u passed tru



guy if u like forgive..if u like dont


cos it wont stop.fuel scarcity

Eeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

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Hello,

I must say there are some very very stupid people in this world.

There are some people, who have not even experienced a quarter of what you went through, but they are quick to condemn you and your decisions.

How many of you has a father that took no care of you?

What gave you the right to judge the morality and decision of someone completely abandoned by his father?

Do you have any idea what he went through?

Can you emphatize with the psychological torture of your father having money, refusing to invest in you, and spending such wealth on harlots?

Do you even understand what it means to feel abandoned?

Kind sirs, if you have not gone through the experience, stop preaching about biblical goodness of not retaliating, even a man and his wife were struck dead for not fully submitting their offering money....that happened in the new testament.

The best thing you could probably tell the guy in question is to try to forgive.

I will tell him that the best revenge is to succeed, and forgive him.

Take care of him, but never get close to him, or look to him for advice or counsel, people never change.

The reason why you should care for him is just about branding, not because its morally right.

It will not be proper for your public image if you are living well and your father is suffering, therefore for that reason, make sure he is living very well.

You can choose to forgive or not to forgive..Nobody can judge you, it won't stop your blessings.

But for Branding reasons, make sure he is living very fine.

End.

SUPOL:
Get d work ist.


N y did u mention ur real name here?

As in enh! A whole graduate should know better

MzPecs:

Yes oh! Even me as well

tht's sad but you were able to pull through right?

schumastic:


tht's sad but you were able to pull through right?

Sure

Hehe, father this father that, it don't make a man, I'm the first generation of my kind, so fucck it.

SUPOL:
Get d work ist.



N y did u mention ur real name here?

He is not from Ogbunike but he grew up in Ogbunike

Fanirandele:
This is why such men keep abandoning there responsibilities towards their children since they know how sentimental Africans are

Forgive him sure but if you ever give him all the same things you give a real parent who took care of their children all through then what has he learnt?

All I'm learning from this thread is fathers feel free to abandon your kids. You will still reap at the end abi

This is why men will keep abandoning their kids

I had to quote this for emphasis.

All the people saying forgive him are the type of people that support irresponsible behaviour in fathers like Op's dad.

Don't forgive him. Plot your revenge because the man cannot reap where he didn't sow.

you think tz ur victory??






#na Godwin

you think tz ur victory??






#na Godwin

See how to forgive him but be very careful. In my own case my father used all my properties i bought through him to dubiously borrow bank loan he couldn't pay back.