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Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by C2H5OH(f): 1:01am On Aug 01, 2009 |
skfa1:Lol abi now It's like obtaining a license to have a lifetime policeman stalking your ass 24/7/365 |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Busybody2(f): 1:04am On Aug 01, 2009 |
chiogo: Very nice reply ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() C2H5OH: Sharrap dia, you that from your posts when it comes to issue of the heart, anyone can tell you are gonna be a soppy husband ![]() ![]() You would make a good psychologist ![]() |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by C2H5OH(f): 1:09am On Aug 01, 2009 |
joh gbenu soun jare. i'm definitely not a harsh lover; far from it. i haven't had to deal with a woman policing my ass. if she did she wouldn't get very far with it, simple as that. what are you gonna do about it? whine, nag, bitch, pine, sulk, brood, leave? maybe i should write another open letter about the most recent idiot that i dated. it's even worse. i know what advise to give, even though i don't always apply them when it comes to me. |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Nobody: 1:15am On Aug 01, 2009 |
Not necessarily policing, just a concerned spouse asking why you were late and where you went, but then again it also depends on the way she asked, if asked normally, I see absolutely nothing wrong with it ![]() |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by C2H5OH(f): 1:18am On Aug 01, 2009 |
^then again that was the lone time I ever allowed myself to have somewhat feelings for someone ibkaye:ibukun love, nothing's wrong with that |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Busybody2(f): 1:22am On Aug 01, 2009 |
C2H5OH: Maria lo bi Jesu, itan, despite the fact that you are always spoiling for a fight with women, you are soft in the head for want of a better word and have a soft spot for them jare ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Methinks you should open the thread about the idiot, pretty please, though on second thoughts such headlines is more suited to someone like Adam B ![]() |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by skfa1: 1:24am On Aug 01, 2009 |
ibkaye: I feel ya, but guess what some gurls could be sooooo confrontational. I dont like that tho. |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by oyinda3(f): 1:24am On Aug 01, 2009 |
funny topic. why beating though ![]() anyways, if it's unusual of him, i will ask out of concern. because i know it can be scary if ur loved one or family is out n u don't know his/her whereabouts ![]() as long as u kno the pattern of their traveling. i.e some ppl spend longer time out than others. if i had a friend who rarely goes out but one day she decides spent all day out, i will ask her what's up with dat out of curiosity lol. but if it's someone i kno who's always out, i won't bother. ibkaye: ha i feel u. i like being independent as well n not having ppl trying to find out where i am every second. but if the question is asked out of concern rather than in an interrogative way then it's ok. it's all out of love |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Nobody: 1:28am On Aug 01, 2009 |
skfa1:Same with some guys, I'm sure some people here would also dislike it if their spouses NEVER asked them where they went and why they were late, how sad it is to know that your girl/guy does not care about you enough to even bother to ask of you, then again, everything in moderation oyinda.:exactly |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by C2H5OH(f): 1:31am On Aug 01, 2009 |
Busy_body: i will spoil you with more of this itan. *soft in the head ^ ha ha ha ^ akoshibero you really know when to wish for the impossible don't you. i am too gentlemanly to spoil for a fight with anyone. i am an easygoing funloving romantic sexual hardworking driven human being. on the contrary, i think i'm too much of an asshole. you would only know that if you tried to find out. if i keep going this way i might end up becoming hard hearted. it's a huge possibility, though still a long mile away. it would be an interesting, soppy, annoying, stupid, infuriating, disgusting, hurtful, surprising, very revealing, detailed, long, foolish, shocking write-up and i refuse to waste my energy on it, especially since i don't give a Bleep what you think |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by oyinda3(f): 1:31am On Aug 01, 2009 |
ibkaye: i totally agree with u there too. i know i would dislike it if nobody cared to know where i was. haha don't mind them they're just forming |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Nobody: 11:46am On Aug 01, 2009 |
I expect it's the right thing to do, but beating your wife if she does so is extreme. |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by slimfine(f): 6:20pm On Aug 01, 2009 |
In a normal relationship asking where he was is not SUPPOSE to be a problem. So I will ask and expect an answer. |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by oyinda3(f): 7:33pm On Aug 01, 2009 |
C2H5OH: lol u want to tell us why u're always advertising these ur qualities? |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by skfa1: 10:55pm On Aug 01, 2009 |
ibkaye: Yes in moderation pls. |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Busybody2(f): 6:44am On Aug 02, 2009 |
C2H5OH: I can see from your "ORO GUTTER TO DOTI" that u don't give two bleeps indeed, shior *rolling eyes* ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by C2H5OH(f): 7:38am On Aug 02, 2009 |
oyinda.:that's me isn't it? |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Baxilexi(m): 1:11pm On Aug 02, 2009 |
i dont see how coming home late has anything to do with infidelity, i believe gone are the days men kept late nights because of their mistress. we've simply improvised ![]() ![]() @topic - sure u should ask, but not that night at least, perhaps in the morning. for all you know you might need that good night rest for the answer he is about to give . . .lol |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Sissy3(f): 3:34am On Aug 03, 2009 |
you should ask him when he comes late. something bad or good might have happened and as your spouse i believe it's something you should know. and in some cases it's good you ask so that you might see/hear the kind of dirty lies he will vomit ![]() ![]() |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by oneluvb55(f): 5:43pm On Aug 03, 2009 |
you should ask him when he comes late. something bad or good might have happened and as your spouse i believe it's something you should know. and in some cases it's good you ask so that you might see/hear the kind of dirty lies he will vomit Embarrassed Embarrassed YES OH, DATS DE RIGHT TIN, BUT NOT ALL WILL UNDERSTAND COS I'VE WITNESSED MANY NEIGHBOURS BEATING UP THEIR WIFES COS OF THIS QUESTION. I WONT TOLERATE DAT OH. I MUST ASK HIM AND HE MUST TELL ME WAT KEPT HIM LATE. |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Nobody: 2:50am On Aug 04, 2009 |
If there is love btwn the love birds, then there shouldnt be any cause for infidelity. . . . |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by captured(f): 3:49am On Aug 04, 2009 |
as terrible as my husband is at calling during the day, he calls when he is running late. and when he doesn't, he comes home looking so tired, i would have to be thoughtless to start querying. but the next morning is when i play offended till he explains his waka. after all you can never be too careful. 90% of the time, he was pissed off over other matters and did not want me to take it personally if he sounded off on the phone |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Pwaves(f): 5:17am On Aug 04, 2009 |
he will have to call to say he will be home late, if he doesnt then i will have to ask. keeping quiet can simply mean "i dont care what you do or what happens to you." |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Fhemmmy: 5:15pm On Aug 04, 2009 |
Pwaves: very true and best way to approach it. But i will expect the man to even tell the woman str8 up how come he is late without being asked |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by oyinda3(f): 5:17pm On Aug 04, 2009 |
C2H5OH: lol of course. |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by plappville(f): 7:46pm On Aug 04, 2009 |
there is no beating case here, i don't think any man would just hit his wife simply becos she cares to know what kept him late, for me i always get informed if he will be late, i hate to the habite of letting ur man know u are monitoring him, i work too, and when i am late it's thesame thing, no sort of question and all that, confident and trust matters alot. |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Fhemmmy: 7:47pm On Aug 04, 2009 |
plappville: true dat. |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by agathamari(f): 6:37pm On Aug 06, 2009 |
we have a standing agreement in our house. when either of us go out we tell the other where we are going. if either of us is going to be back after 11 we have to call home. if one says were doing something that should take say 2 hours and it takes 4, no problem to ask what happend. why on earth would a man beat his wife for asking where he was. if he is that ashamed of what he did then maybe he shouldnt have done it in the first place. |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Fhemmmy: 7:07pm On Aug 06, 2009 |
agathamari: so if your man break that rule, will u give him an attitude? or talk to him nicely? |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Ben13: 7:13pm On Aug 06, 2009 |
@topic It's not advisable |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Fhemmmy: 7:14pm On Aug 06, 2009 |
Ben20001: And why is that? |
Re: Will U Ask Ur Husband Where He Went, If He Came Late? by Leilah(f): 9:35pm On Aug 06, 2009 |
there is one lady I know (naija) her husband stays out til 5am. She just doesnt bother herself. I saw him cheat on her! When she is heavily pregnant he is often out all night and goes on 'vacation' to Spain and Italy for two to three weeks. She never says a things. Mind you, this lady dresses like a complete trollop perhaps to try and satisfy him I dont know. Me, I would always be curious of where my man is ( protect your marriage without naggin by asking). |
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