Leilah:

there is one lady I know (naija) her husband stays out til 5am. She just doesnt bother herself. I saw him cheat on her!

When she is heavily pregnant he is often out all night and goes on 'vacation' to Spain and Italy for two to three weeks. She never says a things. Mind you, this lady dresses like a complete trollop perhaps to try and satisfy him I dont know.

Me, I would always be curious of where my man is ( protect your marriage without naggin by asking).

lol there was a topic about some naija wives putting condoms in their husband's traveling case.

Fhemmmy:

so if your man break that rule, will u give him an attitude? or talk to him nicely?

hunny im Irish there is no such thing as little attitude.

agathamari:

hunny im Irish there is no such thing as little attitude.

so irish dont give attitude, or na big one dem dey give?

I'm Irish yes, if my husband came home late (very late) I'm not going to tell you what I'll do (knee cap him) as we say in ireland. 

Common sense tells women these things but some ignore the signs of a cheating husband.

Why do some ladies just sit there and say nothing?

Divorce = Death sentence (Ireland in the 1950's)

Leilah:

I'm Irish yes, if my husband came home late (very late) I'm not going to tell you what I'll do (knee cap him) as we say in ireland.

Common sense tells women these things but some ignore the signs of a cheating husband.

Why do some ladies just sit there and say nothing?

Divorce = Death sentence (Ireland in the 1950's)

Amen! irish women are nothing to mess with. as any guy in the UK who has ated one. they will kick your arse and think nothing of it before sicking thier family on you. alot like cuban women too

na so oh

@topi
If he came late and didn't say where he'd been, you would ask him, wouldn't you?
Would he keep quiet if you came home late?
This is not too complicated.

Ben20001:

@topic

It's not advisable

Fhemmmy:

And why is that?

we don't know the nature of the man. the rest of the night might be full of tears. prevention is berra.

Ben20001:

we don't know the nature of the man. the rest of the night might be full of tears. prevention is berra.

ummmmmmmmm

lol

i will have to ask he why he came back late becos he has not be doing it.

nyimar:

i will have to ask he why he came back late becos he has not be doing it.

So if he has been doing it, you wont ask, cos he might probably beat you up?

mohawkchic:

~Quite sad & a Shame if One cannot expect a spouse to tell you where he's going,why he's late or whatever the case may be. . . .


~My Hubby will always call me to let me know why he's running late. .if he's stuck in traffic. . . i wudnt have to ask!


[i][b]~Communication is key![/b][/i]

Till the door changed

mohawkchic:

~ Well now. . . thats a whole different story! There's a lock smith for even the most complex door/s. . .

Lol

Yes. It's a matter of common courtesy. If two people share a home and life, it's common courtesy to let the other person know of your coming and goings. Not because one is insecure/nosey, it's just the polite thing to do. If I am stuck in traffic on my way home, I'll let my husband know so that he doesn't worry. If my husband is coming home late, he will let me know so I can adjust dinner time or even just have peace of mind.