martineverest:
Pure lies...i know the woman very well.

From his behavior whenever they came to church, he never sat with his wife nor carry his children... He never smile in church; always frowning... There was no connection between him and his wife

sometimes,I kept asking myself y such a beautiful woman got married to a much older man.. U I've always seen their marriage as slave-&-master marriage

I really pity her kids, they were fond of their mother.

So you know the family. Thanks for the information. I can tell the man was telling lies. I hope he is caught soon.
The woman is in a better place now, never to be beaten again. May God bless her soul and give comfort to her children and her family.

Respect55:



Ur bias conscience won't allow u to tell the women to respect their marriages n stop messing around

If you respect yourself first, then your woman will respect you. Do have a lovely day sir.

myfantasies:
Too bad d wife is not alive to tell her own side of the story

He might be lying about her infidelity

About the Infidelity to a large extent its true. I saw the story on nairaland Saturday morning, met a sister in-law of mine in the afternoon of the same Saturday who happen to stay a street next to theirs. She confirmed d lady was seriously cheating on her husband and due to that they've been having serious issues. He did locked the door n went away until the nanny came n raised d alarm.

Nice thoughts...

Now I know who you are... Jum***Alaw***-J****

Smellymouth:
All these na long talk..

He doesn't sound remorseful. Imagine bragging about bin a Lagos boy..

See the extent domestic violence has gone? Am sure it didn't just start recently.Any man that can not control his fist does not deserve a wife. Ladies if your man beats you up, please run for your life first before you even think of love. Who is to blame doesn't matter here any longer so long as someone is dead already.

No matter how your temper hot reach, e nor fit boil yam

did anyone read d she has been screwing around part?

teekay213:
That is why my wife can't work under any person.

Some full time house wives still cheat

kizbad:
IF THE WIFE CHEATED ON THE HUSBAND, I SWEAR SHE DESERVE TO DIE THOUGH NOT FROM THE MAN'S HAND..I ALWAYS WONDER Y will a married woman cheat on her husband..if ur tired just walk out..MOST PEOPLE DONT KNOW D PAIN AND HURT THAT GOES WEN U FOUND OUT THAT D ONE U LOVE IS FU CKING ANOTHER MAN..NO ONE CAN CONTROL THE TEMPER..I REPEAT NO ONE and most men started beating their wife wen dey started suspectn dem..MEN ARE TOO JEALOUS IN NATURE


I BELIEVE THIS MAN 73% if she dint cheat ds man would av bn remorseful....so far d man sounded like ds dat means d late wife cheated..DO U KNOW WAT ITS MEANS TO CATER FOR UR WIFE AND AT D SAME TIME SHE IS CHEATING ON U ABEG GUYS PLACE URSELF IN HIS SHOE..THE LADY SHOULDNT AV DIED BY D MANS HAND BUT ODA MEANS RUBISH

I AM REACTING TO D MANS SPEECH..SO dont quote me to talk rubbish., quote d op

ANYWAY I THINK D MAN KILLED HER OUT OF ANGER BEYOND HIS CONTROL

I hope you don't cheat? You think, it's easy for women to cope with cheating men too. If women should strat killing their cheating spouses how many men would remain. Cheating on your spouse whether you are a man or woman is wrong!

martineverest:
I know get very well. She doesn't look like somebody that cheats... The man look aggressive.

pls how does somebody dat cheats look?

madridguy:
Your mother said don't marry her but you moved ahead thinking we're in the 20th century.

Wetin old person dey see lying down a young man will not see standing ontop of skyscraper.

This is very true.. Sadly, many of us in this generation think that opinion of parents or those older than us when it comes to issue of marriage are outdated
and not really important.

greatness22:
This is why I totally supported that South African Woman, who celebrated her divorce from the Beast she formerly called "husband" in a grand style.

Assuming ronke had a spare life, she would have file for a divorce. RIP ronke.




But some fools in that thread want women to endure a "wrestlemania marriage"



Now, to all those married ladies and those ones who are not yet married, please and please, relationship is not meant for "Endurance"
Don't remain forever with an abusive beast, Remember, you only have one life to live.

Thanks.

Stop talking as if you are three years old.

Violence is repugnant but yet more repugnant is a married woman that refuses to accept the fact that she is married.

If you cannot take the heat and vagaries of marriage, you better stay single than trying to eat your cake and have it.

There is something they call provocation. It is possible that this man could no longer take the blatant cheating of an unfaithful wife and reached a snapping/breaking point.

The moral of the whole issue being that whosoever comes to equity must do so with clean hands.

Domestic violence is condemnable but tackling it goes beyond getting emotional. It is about dealing with the root causes.

Titony1:
About the Infidelity to a large extent its true. I saw the story on nairaland Saturday morning, met a sister in-law of mine in the afternoon of the same Saturday who happen to stay a street next to theirs. She confirmed d lady was seriously cheating on her husband and due to that they've been having serious issues. He did locked the door n went away until the nanny came n raised d alarm.

Like i said.... He might

Respect55:



See grammar
U can either say; Who would bliv u didn't do it, or Who wouldn't bliv Dat u did it
Thank me later

Typo stuff. Thanks dude.

TDstarr:
Sorry but if what he says is true.... I will do worse if am in his shoes... Reasons I avoid cheating women... Any woman my mum does not like I stay clear... Only women understand women... And they hate each other.... I have a terrible temper... I tell them on the first date... I don't cheat... For you to cheat on me... Just break it off

Anyone who cheats doesn't really deserve the other person...it's better for the person to remain single

Guy, better dont kill yourself. A cheat would always cheat right under your nose even if she is home 24/7.

teekay213:
That is why my wife can't work under any person.

#confession!...I pray for d grace to walk away & not to do worse if my wife brags about her sexacapades to my face!

Men or women often go through difficult marriages. In each case someone or both is at the receiving end. I think way forward to avert crisis is to dissolve the marriage or the couples could agree to separate. In this story I fault this guy because I expect him to have taken a walk and separated from his wife. I am saying this from my personal experience. When I could no longer handle my wife's infidelity I took a walk. Who knows what would have happened if I stayed back to prove that I am the man. My ex is still pleading to this moment but I moved on for good. This is what I expect everyman to do. There can never be an explanation for killing another person because the dead party is not alive to tell her story.

maestroferddi:
Stop talking as if you are three years old.

Violence is repugnant but yet more repugnant is a married woman that refuses to accept the fact that she is married.

If you cannot take the heat and vagaries of marriage, you better stay single than trying to eat your cake and have it.

There is something they call provocation. It is possible that this man could no longer take the blatant cheating of an unfaithful wife and reached a snapping/breaking point.

Okay, my ancestors.

Oloshi, you did not kill her, Fulani herdsmen did.



I really don't know how and why people end up killing their partners




It's insane

pipeliner:
Men or women often go through difficult marriages. In each case someone or both is at the receiving end. I think way forward to avert crisis is to dissolve the marriage or the couples could agree to separate. In this story I fault this guy because I expect him to have taken a walk and separated from his wife. I am saying this from my personal experience. When I could no longer handle my wife's infidelity I took a walk. Who knows what would have happened if I stayed back to prove that I am the man. My ex is still pleading to this moment but I moved on for good. This is what I expect everyman to do. There can never be an explanation for killing another person because the dead party is not alive to tell her story.

Maximum respect to you sir. That's the best decision ever

99billiondollar:
All i will say now is , marriage is divine , it doesnt concern whether you had an early or late marriage ,

You better educate these little children all over the place...

Some people are making asinine reference to the age difference between the man and his wife.

One of the prettiest and most talented ladies of the recent past, Celine Dion married Rene Angelil who died recently. You didn't see the diva frolicking with the horde of men after her in such a high pressure environment like frontline showbiz.

Come to Africa and all you see are women majorly going into marriage with a plan B.

I am sorry but if you sow the wind there would naturally be a concomitant whirlwind...

Ds is a limus test for d men in black to arrest d lagos boy#bado sneh#

HaneefahRN:




I hope you don't cheat? You think, it's easy for women to cope with cheating men too. If women should strat killing their cheating spouses how many men would remain. Cheating on your spouse whether you are a man or woman is wrong!

i dnt cheat, i'd rather stay single and Bleep around than to marry and mess around..my point is if u know u can, will and must cheat den stay single PERIOD...MEN CHEATS MORE QUITE OLRYT, but wen a man decide to repent from his hrt..its possible but if a cheatn woman decides to repent its 99% impossible and 1%posible by his grace cos d men she flirtd with will always persuade her to ride along..das y its nt cool for women to start it atol ..and u know in Africa, women are nt always compare to men wen it comes to ADULTRY..even old testament of d BIBLE BUTTRESS MA CLAIM

The man is not saying the truth because he will like to defend himself.he might not expect what has happened now .see what anger has caused him now.I see no reason for a married woman to cheat when your husband is still alife...if the man is saying the truth.I pity the innocent children and the family if the late wife.may God choose for us in this kind of situations.I hate infidelities in marriage.

Smellymouth:
All these na long talk..

He doesn't sound remorseful. Imagine bragging about bin a Lagos boy..

See the extent domestic violence has gone? Am sure it didn't just start recently.Any man that can not control his fist does not deserve a wife. Ladies if your man beats you up, please run for your life first before you even think of love. Who is to blame doesn't matter here any longer so long as someone is dead already.

No matter how your temper hot reach, e nor fit boil yam

A round of applause for the Chief Judge.

firstly, I find it hard that a woman with kids would bluntly agree to having extra marital affair,like he made it seem,secondly there seems to be a mystery surrounding the cause of her death, and how the children got locked in the house,and thirdly,him saying he is a Lagos boy and cannot be found shows he lacks remorse,alas! who will tell the woman's side of the story?,personally even if he didn't intend to kill her,his actions suggests he is not remorseful and unrepentant, and the murder is premeditated

He said the last time he beat his wife was three years ago after they had a disagreement, adding that he never touched her since then.


Can you imagine!

He killed her and now he's lying against her because she's dead.

If she was adulterous, why didn't you divorce her instead of killing her?

Now you are bragging that you are a Lagos boy.


Mxm.

If ur partner has anger issues and his name starts with a D please run, he just completed the word "Danger"

Why do I have this feeling that this man is on Nairaland?
Just two nuggets for you.
*Egberun Samu, kole sam'Olorun lowo.
*Ti Oluwa bama Sami ese, taloleduro.

Oily soup marriages na so dem be,
Too much oil csan cause......

Police: okay my brother. But can you please come and tell us this story in KFC over a bottle of cold bear? Tell us if you plan to marry again and how we can assist you find a better wife.

No matter what she did you had no right to take another human life!Ronke isn't here to defend herself that why you still all this lies and trash about her.

Mr lekan your time is up
I remember when my neigbours husband beat her she called her brother who is a colonel being the only girl out of5kids...Her brother warned the stupid man never to touch his sis again and since that day he never touched her

Are you a nigerian ?

codemaster2much:
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