shaybebaby:

Now that just nearly brought me to tears because I fear for what the future might be like when I read some people on here.

But Hun, you have no idea what reading your thoughts, ideas, beliefs.. Etc does for me.
It's a reminder that there are others out who are motivated by love for themselves and for others.

The actions of the people around Munich affirms that as well.

Troubles will always come, but we can only get through it with thoughts like these which inform our actions.

Timbuktou:

One would assume that women leave their husbands at a whim are among the scariest elements in the human realm. I mean, such people who havr no concept of value yet possess an amount of power they have no right possessing. That's a real reason to fear.


Everyone has a soulmate on the internet. There are jihadists who came on the www and had orgasms within minutes because they found people of like mind. Nothing special there.



In the concert attacks in France last year, a young man gave his life for his friend. Nothing new there. The human heart is as kind as it is evil. Let that never leave your mind.



We can also wilfully import these troubles into our lives and the lives of our loved ones. Pragmatism will more problems than sentiments will.

shaybebaby:

The question is why they would need transporting in the first instance? That would then determine the sentiment behind their migration.

shaybebaby:
He quotes the bible, she quotes the bible and he resorts to bragging about "marital bliss" rather than refute with facts or something else. If this was a publicised debate, the masses would be chanting "finish him".
Siesta fiesta, you could be male and I'd still say the same, damn you are good. Bet your essays and dissertations got top marks.

kennose:
www.mblog.ng for free airtime

Timbuktou:



Shouldn't they be joining the Syrian army in fighting forces bent on destroying their country?

So, the men of Syria are bailing out of their country while Europe sends their own men to go and die for rapists and criminals. Europe is finished.

Your wisdom is unmatchable. I no fit, abeg.

SiestaFiesta:


You don't separate it at all because you go for the political agenda that will best represent your personal interest and preference.
Employers will vote for other parties than employees, for example.



That's a new topic.





I would like to read more here because you have a perspective on this matter that is quite alien to me.

I have a VIP card.





How much will you pay?

crackhaus:

Madam cheerleader...lol
How short is your skirt and what colours are your pom poms?

You're overdue for graduation into the big leagues, join in the fray jor and stop screaming from the side-bench all the time.

shaybebaby:

The shortest of shorts with neon pink Pom poms Italian stallion sef see me vex.
In this hot sun, mindfulness has got the reins tightly and I will admit that she is doing a better job than I could..I give credit where due, no sentiment.

As per graduation into your big league, how will that boost my bank balance or pay for my holiday? Priorities mate.
Why aren't you posting pictures upandan of agberoish ishan or it a one pack you have?

shaybebaby:
TV01, come back nah. This was just getting really interesting.

shaybebaby:

Like mindy said, these issues are complex and as such, there is no one size fit all solution.
Yes, I agree there is need for pragmatism but also tolerance. Each has a part to play, not all at once and not to the same degree.
There is already an amount of hate driven by certain ideologies, pragmatism is required to deal with the immediate, tolerance is needed as not to fan the flames further... Because for every extremist, there are greater numbers of moderates who pose no threat. What myself and mindy are saying is that be careful that by our very actions, we recruit moderates for the extremists.

With regards to marriage, men have been leaving women for ages even if they are not officially divorced.

It is not up to you not I to question anyone's motivation or levels of tolerance. Only they know where it pinches. Right or wrong, they live with their decisions not you nor I.

If I told you how mine is playing out, you would not believe it .. In the short term, I can already see that both of us are happier apart than we were when we split up. Even in the seemingly impossible, there are good opportunities if only we let go of the rigid confines of our thought processes.

crackhaus:

I've got a pot belly and it getting bigger er'day.

That your Italian niccur should pay for that holiday, so you can relax and learn how to have some fun on NL just for the fun of it.

TV01:

Back. I've posted here. Error posting which took a while to correct in-between chores. I have no expectations of a cogent response from either you or your hero

https://www.nairaland.com/3218607/why-married-women-addressed-mrs/14#47820720



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SiestaFiesta
Shaybebaby
Mindfulness

shaybebaby:

But we did get involved, this is a consequence which we have to deal with..a moral duty for our involvement.

But obviously our views are different, time will tell innit?

Timbuktou:


Which begs the question, why lob them all the way from the middle east into Europe? There's Saudi, Qatar, Kuwait, the UAE for them to go to. Why not those places which are stone throws from their homeland. These are countries with whom they share a common culture, language and religious belief. These are sharia law-practiing countries. Why did they not go to these countries?



How does that make leaving a spouse (husband or wife) right? Is this even a response to be taken seriously?


Oh, but it is very much my business. I have children that will get married in the future. I should attempt to set society right as much as is in my power. And if deviants remain headstrong, know which sort to avoid mixing blood with me. I am also concerned about those outlets dedicated to supplying society with deviants of all sorts.



There's always a reason to spouse-hop. But no reason, barring threat to life is sufficient. In the pursuit of happiness, where does one draw the line? How happy is happy enough? What happens when the happiness subsides? Hopping on the next train that promises happiness? You should never have got married. You have no idea what it means, you never did.

Timbuktou:

Changing the venue of the war will not ease its negative effects. This is just patchwork if the aim is to rectify the problems brought on by meddling. The innocent European did not send them to go and fight a war that doesn't concern him and he definitely didn't send them to bring rabies from outside. This is, frankly, hopping from one blunder to another with no respite in sight. And yall wonder why brexit came to pass. Brits don't want the scourge in Germany and Sweden visited upon them. Call them racist all you want. The few Arabs in the UK will still comport themselves appropriately for the time being.


Indeed, time will tell.

shaybebaby:

Sauce please
Now we are all aware of your stance, again I'm asking you to back up your arguments with well referenced sources. Abi you no go School? If you did, you must have failed. This is poor.

There are many of you on this board - jonzing for validation & medals . Claiming fine, educated, exposed, enlightened. Usually claiming educated when they are not fine , or enlightened when they've made a hash of their personal lives.

TV01:

Like l said, no expectations, l knew you wouldn't disappoint. l expect no better from your oga. Was there anything specific you needed cited?

[b]1.
Islam as a socio-political & religious creed is totalitarian, expansionist and supremacist. Any other creed, ideology or, mode of governance which does not readily submit will ultimately be warred against.

Islam demands an imposition of sharia law and fealty to the recognised caliphate. All muslims do not have to be fanatics. The creed itself is fanatical. A few simply have to follow it to it's logical course - via it's scriptures or historical trajectory. Any muslim who does not deep down ascribe and desire sharia is actually an apostate. Ask your friends amongst them undecided.

We've seen that in the West. In NY, London, Paris, Brussels, Orlando. It's real in Nigeria, Kenya, and other African countries with no hint of Western involvement.

We see it in open terrorist acts, sexual enslavement of young non-moslem women, infiltrating the educational system and the imposition of a parallel court systems, and vigilante activity on our streets. Be blind to all of this if you choose and concern yourself with Islamophobia. Has one person been harmed - in the West at least - as a result of any of this?[/b]



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shaybebaby:

This. I don't want excerpts of the Quran, rather scholarly opinion which isn't lead by religious fervour, wholly objective discourse about Islam.

TV01:

Bolade005, come and see another "jonzer" 0. No matter what, or how you style you've educational background or achievements, we will never see you beyond what you contribute here. And too be honest, it's mostly low-grade canned ideology, with a mish-mash religiosity which basically says "do whatever makes you feel happy".

You've been repeatedly exposed as an inveterate liar, amoral and singularly devoid of an original thought or ability to think tangentially. In fact, revealing more of the "real you" off NL will only confirm what I've written, hence your being so tight-lipped, and hateful of those who are happy to present their reality


Lack of knowledge , complex realities . Right;
Like Germany welcoming millions of refugees whose religion and culture are at best inimical to their host' culture and traditions
Like the dream of anyone being able to settle anywhere, at anytime and do anything is not absurdly reductionist?
Like actualising that will not require jihadi-type action - like Hillary Clinton' as previously posted - to achieve?



1.
Islam as a socio-political & religious creed is totalitarian, expansionist and supremacist. Any other creed, ideology or, mode of governance which does not readily submit will ultimately be warred against.

Islam demands an imposition of sharia law and fealty to the recognised caliphate. All muslims do not have to be fanatics. The creed itself is fanatical. A few simply have to follow it to it's logical course - via it's scriptures or historical trajectory. Any muslim who does not deep down ascribe and desire sharia is actually an apostate. Ask your friends amongst them .

We've seen that in the West. In NY, London, Paris, Brussels, Orlando. It's real in Nigeria, Kenya, and other African countries with no hint of Western involvement.

We see it in open terrorist acts, sexual enslavement of young non-moslem women, infiltrating the educational system and the imposition of a parallel court systems, and vigilante activity on our streets. Be blind to all of this if you choose and concern yourself with Islamophobia. Has one person been harmed - in the West at least - as a result of any of this?

2.
Women are not as emotionally capable, or as well equipped as men when it comes to leadership - especially leadership under stress. It's down to basic biology and wiring. I can't offer you any succour if that reality does not sit easily with you . Take a straw poll of men the majority will agree. Indeed, most in relationships will experience all the time Likewise women. Indeed, most women secretly dread or hate having female bosses. And they hate being with men who cannot lead. And IO donlt mena in choosing soft furnishings 0 !

Does that mean women should not be given opportunity? Or that a some may be able to make the breakthrough? No. Men are just naturally and relatively better, and better equippped. No vex huh .

3.
Racism. The bible, nor I, see men as anything other than descendants of Adam. One blood - Acts 7. I never post or posit based on the construct called race. Personally, I was nannied with a white family soon after birth, I have had more relationships with non-blacks, and I have a number - i.e. many white relatives - by marriage and by blood. Anyway, you have but 3 strategems, lies, ad-hominem, or diversion. And atimes you artfully meld 2 or more. We see you

4.
That's your gig - every question challenging gender dynamics, morality, religion, events, or politics in Europe is met by your stock response, no light in Nigeria, ergo whatever obtains in the West is better . Your self-loathing (of your black heritage), and clumsy efforts to distance yourself, or outrightly reject it are legendary. It's why you find such a ready ally in Crybaby .


There are many of you on this board - jonzing for medals . Claiming fine, educated, exposed, enlightened. Usually claiming educated when they are not fine , or enlightened when they've made a hash of their personal lives.

Your response - as I've noted quite frequently - lack real nuance, and often don't even directly address questions. A subscription to Bild and watching the late night news doesn't make you a political analyst or foreign affairs expert. The less said about your grasp of scripture the better .


If you can respond cogently to just point 1. above, and not resort to any of your 3 strategems, I will de-activate this night


Ma ruggedies, ekú weekend. We'll speak during the week if not before


TV

Timbuktou:


I asked what you thought would happen, you're answering a question you weren't asked.

So, let me rephrase. What do you think the result would be if millions of Nigerians were suddenly transported to a commune in any western European country of your choosing?

crackhaus:

Another time...I prefer reading the discussions y'all got going here.



For your VIP assess to be validated, you gotta be pretty with a big ass... we already have intellect out of the way.

And really, I don't think TV had anything to do with your ban...it's funny you believe he does.
He a MOD?

SiestaFiesta:



You are very slow, very very very very very slow.

You still have not noticed that I have stopped reading your epistles if they are longer than 5 lines. I have limited my attention span to ignorance to five lines. Who knows? It may be damaging to the brightest of brains.

Having said that, let us see what nonsense you have fabricated in your write-up - or shall I say the first paragraph?

@bold

And what made you think that I care how "we will never see you beyond what you contribute here"?
You have not yet noticed that how 'we' see me is as important as a fart released in Indonesia yesterday.

If you can respond cogently to just point 1. above, and not resort to any of your 3 strategems, I will de-activate this night grin

shaybebaby:

Sauce please
Now we are all aware of your stance, again I'm asking you to back up your arguments with well referenced sources. Abi you no go School? If you did, you must have failed. This is poor.

TV01:


While Crybaby is making the pasta, why don't you prepare the sauce - trying to overcome your natural limitations must be a strain. .


TV

SiestaFiesta:
Are you TV's lawyer now?

SiestaFiesta:
Don't tell me you actually read it all?

SiestaFiesta:

For the first time for what feels like a century, you have managed to have a good idea.
This is what we should actually do some day.
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TV01:

He doesn't have to be. He simply knows me well enough to appreciate I would never seek recourse to the mods. I respond, I refrain, or I retire. And what is your own anyway? After all, you have a self-declared cheerleader, who is only serving to make you look bad .

TV

SiestaFiesta:


They would be looked after in Germany and chased away from Hungary or Poland.

SiestaFiesta:

TV01:




Actually, that would impress even me. Not sure how I ever expected comprehension as well, let alone a cogent response



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SiestaFiesta:


Don't tell me you actually read it all?