Niyi’s decided to break up with girlfriend Josephine as he feels the relationship is not geting anywhere and has run its course. Yet the couple have an expensive holiday to the Maldives booked for two week’s time. They had been planning the trip for some time and have saved considerably towards it.
If he tells Josephine it’s over now, it would mean losing £900, as he would never go away with an ex. They’re not quarrelling, Niyi just decided he wants to be single again. Should Niyi dump her now, or keep up the act until they get back?

the word dump is kinda childish so i m goin to go with break-up.
dude should break up with her now as loosing 900 quid is better than making the girl go through another 2 weeks of uncertainty. money ain't everything and can definitely be recouped back.

on the flipside though, can't the 2 weeks together help them rekindle the spark they once had or is Niyi just bent on breaking up with the girl?

jay bee:

the word dump is kinda childish so i m goin to go with break-up.
dude should break up with her now as loosing 900 quid is better than making the girl go through another 2 weeks of uncertainty. money ain't everything and can definitely be recouped back.

on the flipside though, can't the 2 weeks together help them rekindle the spark they once had or is Niyi just bent on breaking up with the girl?

He should go for that reason alone, not because of the potential lost money. Otherwise if he is soo certain he wants to end it, then please just do.

Kenny_G, na wa oo for your dilemna stories. . . . but why has it always got to do with money?

oh boy £900 na big money oooo,

Secretz:

He should go for that reason alone, not because of the potential lost money. Otherwise if he is soo certain he wants to end it, then please just do.

Kenny_G, na wa oo for your dilemna stories. . . . but why has it always got to do with money?

cos me i like money now lol
maybe because money plays a lot in our relationship

Is 900 quid worth the stress the girl would have to go through for 2 weeks which might include her being used by Niyi?
and 900 quid is not a lot of money to be putting someone thru such. if love is dead then he should be able to bone the money. afterall, he his the one calling it quit  
how old is this Niyi by any chance?

Kenny_G:

cos me i like money now lol
maybe because money plays a lot in our relationship

Greedy boy!

jay bee:

Is 900 quid worth the stress the girl would have to go through for 2 weeks which might include her being used by Niyi?
and 900 quid is not a lot of money to be putting someone thru such. if love is dead then he should be able to bone the money. afterall, he his the one calling it quit
how old is this Niyi by any chance?

Exactly. But like you said before, from his reasonings, it seems maybe they could go on the trip and rekindle the 'spark. Or better still done the relationship and go about his business whilst forgetting his dough. simple.

Or as my colleague is telling me right now 'take her on holiday, deal with her (you know what that means). . . . . come back and wait some weeks, then if you still feel the same way, be gone. (not my words ohhh)!!

Or as my colleague is telling me right now 'take her on holiday, deal with her (you know what that means). . . . . no i dont know what u mean oooo
surely ur colleague is not suggesting that Niyi gives her a BIG PARTING GIFT?? what if just to complicate matters she con get belle?

hey guys,hw are u all doing?missed nairaland and missed u guy so much.

welcome bk

hey guys,missed u guys so,been away for so long.abt the issue on ground,he should break up with her the money shared equally.or better still give her everything for being a jerk.

thanks kenny

ceceee:

hey guys,missed u guys so,been away for so long.abt the issue on ground,he should break up with her the money shared equally.or better still give her everything for being a jerk.

non refundable ticket

oh,i didnt see dat,non refundable ah?emm.well maybe the guy should tell her y he is havin problem with her,i'm sure when they talk and then take dat trip,he might feel differently abt her.the trip will jst be like a get away thing to find each other.dat is if the problem is from her.hate it when people say they av grown out of love of someone they once loved.its just so stupid.they should work it out,

ceceee:

oh,i didnt see dat,non refundable ah?emm.well maybe the guy should tell her y he is havin problem with her,i'm sure when they talk and then take dat trip,he might feel differently abt her.the trip will jst be like a get away thing to find each other.dat is if the problem is from her.hate it when people say they av grown out of love of someone they once loved.its just so stupid.they should work it out,

the problem is unfortunately when a guy says he wants out of a relationship talking abt issues hardley ever work, more often than not the guy has seen another babe wey dey trip am

@poster
how old is this niyi dude?

jay bee:

@poster
how old is this niyi dude?

28 and the gal 29, how is the age relevant? lol

i'm sure he had the intention of breaking up with her evrn b4 they started saving for the trip.see guys are snakes.giving her money will be like payin her off for the services given him,like she is a pros.the only solution is to talk.i don tire 4 dis mata self.

eh

ceceee:

i'm sure he had the intention of breaking up with her evrn b4 they started saving for the trip.see guys are snakes.giving her money will be like payin her off for the services given him,like she is a pros.the only solution is to talk.i don tire 4 dis mata self.

tire ke? u only just returned now! haba lol

ceceee:

eh

ehn now! lol

just pay her off, dude

Abeg i nor need long talk make una pass me the money

y me:

Abeg i nor need long talk make una pass me the money

pay her off like how,

iice:

Can't they go for the vac as friends?
I would. . .

haba, they booked into the same room, if they went as friends sparks go fly something go happen,

What about dividing the domain? Someone takes the couch, someone takes the bed or rather get an extra bed [/color]
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am sure u know the partition comes down with every sip of wine/alcohol,

I guess the best option would be to tell the gal and offer to buy her share of the holiday for half price since she would be inconvenienced the most,

iice:

Oh well. . .me i want my vacation

ok now lol,

ceceee:

eh

ehn?