OMAR12:
Mr.man weather he was there ooo or not, tradition is tradition, respect the tradition and ignore the personality, the man is not talking about weather he was there or not.

cococandy:
it is also traditon to care about and provide for your children.

OMAR12:
biko biko biko she should do the right thing ooo, the man should be buried at his fathers place. that is the tradition understood by both ethnicity, the royal father ought to understand most, as he is one of the custodians of Igbo traditions, he should reply without sentiment.

babyfaceafrica:
oduah better do normal before warri people change am for am...money is not everything

judemmesoma:
......first of all u will ask d man of he knows d boy in person,u don't ask of ur son and u want to bury him rubbish

NwaNimo1:
The gods will be angry if she doesn't do the right thing and transfer the body to Warri/Delta.....

kokoA:
I need to hear Madam's version of the story first. Haba! How can he say he learnt about his son's death on the media I don't think that's true. Having said that, the guy was 28, meaning he was a grown man. It is only proper to bury him in his father's house. There's no two ways about that. Madam's father who happens to be a traditional ruler should know this.

ogmask:
Possible chief etoromi is not the boys father. She may have done the right thing to the poor lad in death by returning him to his true root.
With the way the woman dey divorce and remarry, she is capable of giving Paul's child to Peter.

My N6 contribution.

ensamy:
This same behaviour is been faced by all Naija men in U.S.A whose wives are nurses there. As they are making more money than thier husbands them don pursue thier husbands out of the houses finish. Imagine person wey you come carry for naija enter yankee she go pursue for your own house. Stella Oduah na them be that.

eyinjuege:


When I first read the story that she didn't tell the boy's father of his death, I felt outraged.
But on deeper thought, she has just lost a grown child who was apparently well unexpectedly.
I'm sure she is still in shock, and probably might not even know what's happening around her. You can bet she's not in charge of the funeral, but probably the boy's younger ones/cousins and the youths around them.
However, even if she's excused because of the fresh tragedy and grief, those around her should have thought of the boy's father, and given him a call.
But, let's even assume the Oduahs were useless with no regard for anyone,
Again, if one hears such a news in the media, which initially sounded like a rumour, the initial thing the father should have done was to call Stella, or anybody in her family. I would have expected him to send his people, younger than him to go to Stella's people and find out the truth if he was truly dead, and what caused his death. They would have talked about the burial and the arrangements to be made from their side even if it means transporting the dead body back to his father by themselves. The father shouldn't have waited, and left them to probably send the corpse to him. His people should have done that.
If however they went and were turned back by Stella's people, that's another story entirely.

OMAR12:
Mr.man weather he was there ooo or not, tradition is tradition, respect the tradition and ignore the personality, the man is not talking about weather he was there or not.

dasparrow:


Forget tradition! who tradition don epp? That is why Nigeria is backward as hell due to primitive traditions that help no one. If this man played no active role in the upbringing of his son, then he has no right to determine where his son should be buried. It is that simple. After all, where was he when his son was lying sick in the hospital? The man was just a sperm donor and nothing more. If Stella had not provided for their son, maybe the boy wouldn't have lived to be 28 years old even. If the dead could speak, I am sure the boy will demand he be buried in Anambra instead of his absentee father's hometown.

Businessideas:

That man is just being ridiculous, he heard his son died and sat down in Warri writing stupid letters.Who should be in Abuja since the death occurred. Who should even be waiting at the morque or in front of Stella's gate.
He's just disgracing himself and the itshekiri.The death of this child is a bereavement,he should keep quiet.
I won't be surprised if he last saw his late son or father in law long time ago. This is a valuable lesson to men who think that because they are separated from their wives now abandon their responsibilities or don't keep in touch with their children or their ex in-laws

wagazala:


Imagine your download stopping at 99%. Na then you go sabi say 1% get power.