A few days ago, I was watching a modeling program with my girlfriend, and all of a sudden, I told her that I would like to give that a trial. I will look for a modeling company and see what they can offer. I was looking for some encouragement from her but to my greatest surprise, she said that she is not in support of it.

When I asked her why, she said that she is afraid things might change if I happen to secure one. I tried to make her understand that it is just a trial, but she is strongly against it. We have always shear dreams together before we stick to it. I'm thinking of doing it secretly. Do you think it is a kind of betrayer?

i understand why she's doing it. she loves you to the point that she doesn't want other
people being able to drool over you. she's obviously a good girl. you have to really look at it from
her view and ask yourself if things were the other way around, if you'd like her showing off everything?
but if this is something you've always wanted before even knowing her, i guess you can't let her stand in your way
and you have to do whats right for you and what will make you most happy in the end. maybe you two can think of a
compromise so both of you can be happy? come to a decision. but think real hard.

I think every girl that wants the best for her man,would want him to follow his dreams and do what what makes him happy(even going to a strip bar with his buddies,once in a while ).that being said,i think you should just go ahead and do it jorr!! afterall when the money comes,na two of you go chop am

Can we see photographic evidence please?

^^ lol,

My fiancee has the same opportunity, even got contacted by a magazine to put his picture in it. Offcourse i am proud that they want to do that, but on the other side i am afraid that things might change between us. Thinking of other girls looking at him in a special way makes me shiver. Would even make me feel that i could loose him anytime to one of them. But if your in a serious relationship and it's a stable one you have to trust eachother. So i told him to go ahead with it, and now he is the one having doubts if he should/would do it, maybe i should call that reversed psychology? lol  

You just watched it on TV and loved it instantly? That sure can happen but you can't force it down her throat to like it because it was never one of your dreams before you both started the relationship, you just picked it on the way. Also, be honest with yourself, would you have supported her if she had said "Oh, I love Ini Edo, I'd love to try my hands on acting,"? If you will without doubts towards her, find a way to convince her, but if you won't, don't bother talking about it again. If you do it behind her back, she finds out, and she breaks up with you, don't blame it on her; you'll have been treacherous when you do that.

It's not love, it's selfishness.  Aka possessiveness.  
Fear of losing you and having to deal with loneliness.
 
If her action was based on love, she would want the best for you.
Even if the best for you means she might not own you forever.

Male models are gay! Do something manly.

you must be very sick in love to listen to her.

very immature answers here, male models are gay and you must be very sick in love to listen to her, guess the first one hasn't got the skills to ever become a model and the second one can't even get a girlfriend, help the guy out with some usefull advice instead people,

Dis is ur relationship ur talking abt here,dnt make d worse mistake of ur life n later blame it on odas bcuz u askd 4it.since she is ur grlfrnd u knw her beta,y nt talk her into aceptin if u rily want 2do dis.u guys shud cum 2geda n tink abt it n cum 2a beta compromise

if the girl realy love u like she claims, then she will not oppose to your progress.

Wha if you get contract abroad, how will she take that?

mem, any girl that wants to tie u down in the name of love is obviosly an enemy of progress

Ebonyeyes:

Can we see photographic evidence please?

Lol that's so funny, Ebonyeyessss jor ooooo.

baekdoosan:

Male models are gay! Do something manly.

Did you even bother to read the thread?

na inferiority complex they worry the girl

Modelling ko, Modelling ni.

chika98:

Did you even bother to read the thread?

I no even try'am at all. *sighing*

@poster, your gf sucks but I'm sure you already know that.

Try getting married the girl first. Staying with her is sin before God.

^^^wtf speak english

^^^wtf speak english

not even yr wife but girlfriend, nawa for this kind dumbo, is that your definition of love?? i smell insecurity on her part. How about when you quit the modeling thing then she dumps you for another dumbo , bera wake up and splash some realities on your face and make her realize that this is what you want, it's either she's in or out, meanwhile lets see your picture to really ascertain your looks

But she'll ask 4 more monie.

abeg go for what you want in life man and dont let the babe slow you down,how you dey sure say she go even marry you self abeg go model jo