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10 Golden Secrets Of Marriage by phenase(m): 6:23am On Oct 04, 2016 |
*TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE:* *TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND/OR ARE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON* 1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS* Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength. 2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY* No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. try to forgive and forget. The past can't be change. So Focus on the present and the future! 3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES* Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day! 4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS* Don't compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true. 5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR* When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone. 6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE* There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and If this parts are not properly maintained, the car will brake down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. - Many of us are careless about our marriage... Are you? If you are, pls pay attention to your marriage. 7. *GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE* He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hours but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve. 8. *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK* You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get marry to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last. 9. *MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT* Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce 10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY* Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdrawn. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing. May God Give You The Grace And Wisdom To Build A Heaven on Earth Marriage. 3 Likes
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Re: 10 Golden Secrets Of Marriage by majour(m): 8:43am On Oct 04, 2016 |
The more I read abt this marriage thing the more I get scared as fvck 1 Like |
Re: 10 Golden Secrets Of Marriage by nnamdibig(m): 11:38am On Oct 04, 2016 |
majour: Not as scary as they sound bro |
Re: 10 Golden Secrets Of Marriage by majour(m): 12:12pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
nnamdibig:So u say, u married? Am in love with a woman who is a year older than me for 9yrs now, since I was in junior school, problem is, is the age a big deal when u wish to marry her |
Re: 10 Golden Secrets Of Marriage by nnamdibig(m): 2:14pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
majour:The age stuff is personal, some people will say if you love her you should go ahead and marry her but my take is if you are not comfortable marrying an older lady, don't go ahead but if you actually think it's nothing the go ahead. You have known her for 9yrs so you can actually say if she is submissive irrespective of the age. It's you personal decision bro........Yes am married. |
Re: 10 Golden Secrets Of Marriage by majour(m): 3:31pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
nnamdibig:Well about to finish service in a few days, looking forwards to settling down in a couple of years from now, preferably 2yrs, praying the odds be in my favor Thanx for ur advise, coming from a man, its was a boast in the right direction |
Re: 10 Golden Secrets Of Marriage by nnamdibig(m): 3:59pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
majour: You are most welcome |
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