How dumb can you be? Sorry I won't applaud you for "doing the right thing" instead I'll smack your 'smartness' for geting engaged to someone you felt  zilch for!
You've known him for over 3 years, didn't find him appealing all this time, then you agreed to date him. On what grounds? Okay, you still didn't develop feelings or whatever for this dude and yet you accepted his ring just after 2 months? How old are you? 

At first you sounded like you broke a 5 year engagement. Please grow up!

aisha2:

Dont worry dear, it will all pass. Yeh maybe i got your dad or u got mine? Daddy is gonna be facing panel when i see him.
I salute you. After some time, if you dont get married some people will start saying why did you not marry that guy after all, but dont let it get to you, you did the right thing

That aint gonna get to me sis. . . I was brought up to be strong, principled and decisive.
You know we all make mistakes sometimes. . . but they are meant to sharpen us for things ahead. Nothing is going to make me regret what i did. . . am very much relieved.

You're sweet.
muchas gracias.

You did the right thing, but you shouldnt have collected the ring in the first place since you didnt feel anything for him.
Whatever it is i cant blame you for taking that decision but here is a summary of an old Chinese movie:

A certain guy was asking a girl out and she told him no from the very first day.
This guy kept talking to her with the hope that one day she will accept him
and this went on for a very long time; one day this girl told the guy that she
does not have any emotional feelings for him not to talk of love thinking that
this will put him off.
This guy, with excitement told her that the love he has for her is enough cover for the two of them,
and she need not love him to be his friend,

I understand what it is like when you are with someone you dont have any feelings for
I wish you all the best in life.

YOU DID THE RIGHT THING OR ELSE, U 'LL BE FRUSTRATED & MAY CHEAT WHEN U FIND SB THAT FLOWS AT UR LEVEL

whitelexi:


My thoughts exactly. . . Remember what they say about sticking with someone who loves u, or falling for someone who doesn't give a F.ck?

Tomorrow, the story will change to, "We love ourselves very much but he has been cheating since we had our first baby"

lol

facibabe:
some times what you want might not be what God want for you. it is good to marriage a guy that loves you rather than the guy that doesn't love you in which you love him. why is it that people that are fat pray to be slim while people that are slim pray to be fat. only God knows best but i will like you to also pray about it. there is a yoruba proverb which says"don't use your husband as a boyfriend and don't use your boyfriend as a husband. i hope you don't regret it because before you make any decision, you need to pray about it.

she has regretted already,thats why she created this thread.
She also don chop the man money finish...

spikedcylinder:
How many people love the persons they are married to anyway?

hehehehehe...are you married?

You did the right thing dear,remember a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.....