ladies: how will u feel when a guy falls in luv with u, and u returned the love in full, only for the guy to start acting funny,e.g he hardly calls, rarely takes u out, start complaining that he has a lot to do and that is why is he being distracted. even when do most of the calling he chooses when to pick up ur call and when to ignore. and u dont want to leave him perhaps due to one promise or another. what strong decision will you take?

be patient,

How do u know he fell in love with u? How are u sure he wasn't after the kitten?

sex is not involve, agreement was sex after marriage.

he is trying to tell something indirectly which is he wants out!but he doesnt want to hurt ur feelings, he just wants u to get d message,iv been in that situation before but what i did was talk to him seriously and he told me the truth just that he did not want to hurt me.so girl take it or leave it.he is not interested anymore.

@pringles might be right, most men behave dat way when they are gettin tired of u and is seeing another lady. being busy doesnt stop him from picking ur calls or returning ur calls much later. i ve experienced such b4, but d hope is dat he might actually turn around and change if u can get a close friend of his to talk to him, so my advice now is just be patient and non pestering.

MARRIAGE thing AGAIN ?

@, me thinks that's where your problem is. You've already agreed to sex only after marriage so we can infer you're in the relationship just to get married.
The guy could be having second thoughts about the nuptial thing and doesn't know how to say it like some one said earlier.

I hope he comes around but incase he doesn't you should learn to be more subtle in future. Don't go into a relationship giving the impression you're in it just to get married.

Not necessarily. . . some guys are just like that.
1. Talk to him . . .let him know that u kinda feel neglected
2. watch him closely . . .I did not say to start stalking him o . . .it could very well be that he is tired of the whole relationship, seeing someone else, or just plain needs space.
3. Always remain you. Limit the calls, make yourself scarce from him for a while, hang out more with your girlfriends, attend get together and see how he reacts. Do not sit down and be watching your phone in the name of waiting for his call.

Life is short . . . sometimes we force things that are not really meant to be meanwhile God is showing us all the signs and we just disregard them in the name of love.

what if he keeps on apologising and keep repeating the same thing all over again.and anytime he wants to call he prefers nite calls and will not call during the day.

Then maybe, give him some time and keep a watch.

Guys do that when they are actually cheating on you,and when they feel that they need space which when you now give them the space they will feel like you are also cheating on them.guy are just too,

sex is not involve, agreement was sex after marriage.

liar...agreement my foot.

it means u refused to allow him to set ur biological engine straight.


bt he doesnt want to komplain

A for Apple...

wee2:
Guys do that when they are actually cheating on you,and when they feel that they need space which when you now give them the space they will feel like you are also cheating on them.guy are just too,

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