Our Muslims Brothers & Sisters are not happy. I actually feel very sad for this as a human being.

They’re not happy in Gaza
They're not happy in Egypt
They're not happy in Libya
They're not happy in Morocco
They're not happy in Iran
They're not happy in Iraq
They're not happy in Yemen
They're not happy in Afghanistan
They're not happy in Pakistan
They're not happy in Syria
They're not happy in Lebanon
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Lets Find The reason Why..
So, where are they happy?
They're happy in Australia
They're happy in England
They're happy in France
They're happy in Italy
They're happy in Germany
They're happy in Sweden
They're happy in the USA & Canada
They're happy in INDIA

They're happy in almost every country that is not
Islamic! And who do they blame?
Not Islam..
Not their leadership..
Not themselves..

THEY BLAME THE COUNTRIES THEY ARE HAPPY IN!!

And they want to change the countries they're happy in, to be like the countries they came from where they were unhappy.
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Buddhists living with Hindus = No Problem
Hindus living with Christians = No Problem
Christians living with Shintos = No Problem
Shintos living with Confucians = No Problem
Confusians living with Bahai's = No Problem
Bahai's living with Jews = No Problem
Jews living with Atheists = No Problem
Atheists living with Buddhists = No Problem
Buddhists living with Sikhs = No Problem
Sikhs living with Hindus = No Problem
Hindus living with Bahai's = No Problem
Bahai's living with Christians = No Problem
Christians living with Jews = No Problem
Jews living with Buddhists = No Problem
Buddhists living with Shintos = No Problem
Shintos living with Atheists = No Problem
Atheists living with Confucians = No Problem
Confusians living with Hindus = No Problem

Now..

Muslims living with Hindus = Problem
Muslims living with Buddhists = Problem
Muslims living with Christians = Problem
Muslims living with Jews = Problem
Muslims living with Sikhs = Problem
Muslims living with Bahai's = Problem
Muslims living with Shintos = Problem
Muslims living with Atheists = Problem

MUSLIMS LIVING WITH MUSLIMS = BIG PROBLEM. Yet they are saying Islam is a religion of peace, I hope people will shine their eyes & read between the lines very well, AWI!!!

Are u desperate?.....YES
Reasons:
1.Will u av to come to nairaland if u wanna help ur male friends with no strings attached?
2.If u didn't help him and he is still struggling to get to his feet in the next 2yrs will u still consider him for marriage?
3.If u decide to help him and he dumped u,wont u regret helping him?
I doubt u really love him...maybe u just desperate to get married

.....Just my opinion

ma'am,if you want to help out just go ahead and do it.now not as a girlfriend but as a philanthropist and a concerned sister wanting to help a brother out.or do you want him to commit suicide first before helping out.what will happen next after helping out shouldn't be a concern now.helping people without thinking about the aftermart is what makes you a better person.what is important is the feeling of self satisfaction.just for you to know,some people are already saying why haven't you helped out yet since you have the means to.so you see my dear,whatever you do people must talk.i hear some people saying he hasn't asked yet so just keep your money.you know men with thier ego.he maybe feeling he shouldn't be asking you about such stuffs.bottom line,if you can help out just do it.othan.

esthertk:
I need the candid advise of the matured minds here. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months when our relationship was 3 months I was able to get a German visa and moved to Germany .

He lost his job 2 months ago, and we have been discussing on how he can get back on his feet, lots of interviews and no call back and with this harsh economy we consider it best he starts a business which he doesn't even have the capital.

I really wish I can support him but so scared it might be termed as using money to buy love and this might just make him stick to me for the wrong reasons or even later dump me... I am so confused

No try am o.dont think helping a guy will make him stick with you, in fact its usually the opposite, he'll leave u once he's done with you. u cant know so much abt a person within 8 months. he's just ur boyfriend today, who knows he can be anothet girl's boyfriend tomorrow. there's no guarantee that he will stay with u after u help him. such assistance is only permissible in a marriage.

Antina:


in my own opinion, 3 months is too short to know the kind of guy he is. But if you really want to help him, just have it in mind that you are helping "someone" not your boyfriend.

Tell him you are borrowing from someone for him to get back on his feet, don't let him know it's your money so that he will have the mind of paying back and give the day the owner will need the money.

If he doesn't want to be with you, even if you give him the whole world he won't still.

Miss. Esther
This is the best advised I have stumbled so far.
Take it

esthertk:
I need the candid advise of the matured minds here. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months when our relationship was 3 months I was able to get a German visa and moved to Germany .

He lost his job 2 months ago, and we have been discussing on how he can get back on his feet, lots of interviews and no call back and with this harsh economy we consider it best he starts a business which he doesn't even have the capital.

I really wish I can support him but so scared it might be termed as using money to buy love and this might just make him stick to me for the wrong reasons or even later dump me... I am so confused

babe.. you can help.. him. . DO IT OUT OF LOVE AND LEAVE THE REST FOR GOD!!!!

esthertk:
I need the candid advise of the matured minds here. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months when our relationship was 3 months I was able to get a German visa and moved to Germany .

He lost his job 2 months ago, and we have been discussing on how he can get back on his feet, lots of interviews and no call back and with this harsh economy we consider it best he starts a business which he doesn't even have the capital.

I really wish I can support him but so scared it might be termed as using money to buy love and this might just make him stick to me for the wrong reasons or even later dump me... I am so confused

Of you're helping him yea you can
But my advice would be do it outta goodwill and don't expect anything in return whether in cash or kind...

Don't make it a habit
Don't make reference to it when you have issues with him

Because most ladies gets pained by the fact they helped a guy and he ditched them...

So make up your mind irrespective of whatever advises you get, and know that if you giving him, its out of generosity and concern...

prettyboi1989:

No try am o.dont think helping a guy will make him stick with you, in fact its usually the opposite, he'll leave u once he's done with you. u cant know so much abt a person within 8 months. he's just ur boyfriend today, who knows he can be anothet girl's boyfriend tomorrow. there's no guarantee that he will stay with u after u help him. such assistance is only permissible in a marriage.

ARE YOU A GUY

[b][/b]No Risk No Reward.
If you don't take action now or early... there shall be delay in the proposed my marriage time you guys have planned.
Take The Risk You Can Afford.
And don't bother about what people may say...cos if they are good and in your shoes they might also think of helping.
People gamble.... sometimes they make their money sometimes they lose... but fear of what might happen won't stop them.
Best of luck Babe

raziboi:




ARE YOU A GUY

read inbtwn d lines and get the message.

To me you just have to recollect what has transpired between you while you were dating him here in Nigeria and he was still employed.Consider how generous he was to you and most importantly your level of commitment to each other.Not all guys are ingrates so you might be in the positive side.But to me it seems even you are not fully commited because if you are you wont be hessitating at all.Possibly you have other options.

Oliviaxx:
Do you want to 'loan' him money or 'dash' him money....if its loan, u have to be sure hes a person of integrity and loves u enough to not runaway before paying up. We've had too many stories of 'my bf ranaway with my money and blocked me on all social networks' here on nairaland. This is something you both have to sit and talk about. Dont make that decision in a hurry sweetie

overfine dey worry you o! come and loan me money... i swear i won't run away and block you on nairaland!

dingbang:
If he hasn't asked you for assistance yet, don't give him ..

Wat a matured response

Nutase:
I would have said follow your heart but the heart is very deceptive

the heart is only deceptive when it is not guided that is why the Bible say in Proverb that we should guid our heart, not just guid but guid it with all Diligence

my advice to fellow guys is to be careful with girls,there are some girls u will be dating and u wont prosper and only the girl will be prospering,am not envious but my idea of relationship is a scenario where man and woman are prospering,anything short of this is an error.op,if you truly love him,help him or let him go,u might be the cause of his problem without knowing it.i had such an experience and when we separated september last year,i had three opportunities that am in a dilemma as to what to choose.

yomi007k:



Na wa oooo..




And we help our women without thinking twice or asking for people's opinion.



We learn daily.

No mind them

engrchykae:
my advice to fellow guys is to be careful with girls,there are some girls u will be dating and u wont prosper and only the girl will be prospering,am not envious but my idea of relationship is a scenario where man and woman are prospering,anything short of this is an error.op,if you truly love him,help him or let him go,u might be the cause of his problem without knowing it.i had such an experience and when we separated september last year,i had three opportunities that am in a dilemma as to what to choose.

i can relate

I can totally relate with you dear. It's obvious you have good intentions. Truth is just do what you can for him without expecting anything in return. Respect him & never make him feel bad or regret receiving help from you. God will reward you one way or another.

Help him if you wish and from the kindness of your heart. But don't expect anything in return.
Just do it for God and remove eye.

Your bf may later appreciate u for it.. Or may move on later.

If u have? Send some money to him.
God blesses a cheerful giver.

I am not in anyway causing his downfall ,we never had sex before I left Nigeria as its our plan to practice sexual purity till marriage

engrchykae:
my advice to fellow guys is to be careful with girls,there are some girls u will be dating and u wont prosper and only the girl will be prospering,am not envious but my idea of relationship is a scenario where man and woman are prospering,anything short of this is an error.op,if you truly love him,help him or let him go,u might be the cause of his problem without knowing it.i had such an experience and when we separated september last year,i had three opportunities that am in a dilemma as to what to choose.

pedrilo:
if u have bn helped by a guy b4 in ur life n u still hav d mind to spill dis shiit then u r unreliable n its unfortunate,

hey! ,everyone is entitled to their opinion, mine is don't help him at all,by the time he gets back,he will tell you, he cant be with a lady richer than him
oya come beat me as I talk am
ote

Josephamstrong1:

you waka miss road? ?

Philpham:
Don't help that boy. Men should not be helped by women. They are ungrateful piece of nonsense. Once u help him come there to Germany he will dump u and marry a white woman and tell everybody u are prostituting.
Men are very mean. No woman should ever help them in need.
They should struggle and be a man. If he can't get a job in Nigeria then something is wrong with him.
Don't associate your self with a failure.
Get a man with potential and decent future over there and save yourself heart break by these Nigerian men.

WTF? are u for real ??

May God heal that broken heart

esthertk:
I am not in anyway causing his downfall ,we never had sex before I left Nigeria as its our plan to practice sexual purity till marriage

thats the same with us,we never had sex,but somethings are just too strange to understand,then september last year we agreed to go our separate ways and right now we are doing fine individually but i respect her for having faith in me for the while we stayed together.anyway if you lend him some help and things get worse for him,then you will know that you are not meant for each other.though sometimes,relationships have its period of trials.

Just give him moral support. As long as he has food and shelter, he'll figure out how to get out of his condition. He is just a boyfriend and not a husband.

Let me put myself in ur guy shoe.
1. I wil nt ask u 4 any money.
2. I hate to collect money/capital 4m my lady & will use it as reference points in any serious matter in d future.
3. I sometime (it) believe it give lady room nt to respest their man.

Philpham:
Don't help that boy. Men should not be helped by women. They are ungrateful piece of nonsense. Once u help him come there to Germany he will dump u and marry a white woman and tell everybody u are prostituting.
Men are very mean. No woman should ever help them in need.
They should struggle and be a man. If he can't get a job in Nigeria then something is wrong with him.
Don't associate your self with a failure.
Get a man with potential and decent future over there and save yourself heart break by these Nigerian men.

U re nt serious, I guest?

esthertk:
I need the candid advise of the matured minds here. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months when our relationship was 3 months I was able to get a German visa and moved to Germany .

He lost his job 2 months ago, and we have been discussing on how he can get back on his feet, lots of interviews and no call back and with this harsh economy we consider it best he starts a business which he doesn't even have the capital.

I really wish I can support him but so scared it might be termed as using money to buy love and this might just make him stick to me for the wrong reasons or even later dump me... I am so confused

a lot of good advice have been offered along with terrible ones lol

question. if you guys don't finally get married will helping now hurt you? will you regret it? if yes don't help or find a way to help without later regretting it

wish you guys d best

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dingbang:
If he hasn't asked you for assistance yet, don't give him ..

this is a wicked, so where does sensitivity to plight of her bf come in

maybe the guy is even shy

both of u should discuss..

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