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Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by georgen2u(m): 10:33am On May 04, 2017 |
I don't know if this is too late but op u surprise me, even if my mum did this I will arrest her, this is pure wickedness I don't want to believe u are a weakling Do the needful Arrest her Press charges for burglary theft, No one has the right to break your room in your absence, so deal with it. Nonsense 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by streetzdreamz(m): 10:35am On May 04, 2017 |
as much as I hate violence and won't hit a lady, lord knows ama beat the living hell outa that sister that very day she will be sane for some hours, I mean what wickedness, hit my wife unprovoked and thereafter cart away ma certs and destroy ma properties? hells!!! after the beating she'd get a restraining order from a court, and then a family meeting discarding all ties with her,water related or not!!! and op please grow some balls,stop being timid and frightened! you a man,start acting like one; what's the point when you can't protect your loved ones from harms way, your mum,wife,lil kid, it was even your wife that stood up against her, and all through you were watching the drama unfold? too bad man. 1 Like |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by esiri4jesu(m): 10:35am On May 04, 2017 |
omron:go rent your own apartment and move in with your wife and report your sister to the police so that you can retrieve your wife's certificates. please, your mother should not go with you to your new apartment so that your sister don't have reason to come to your home and be prayerful. your sister needs psychiatrist evaluation. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by shiftback: 10:42am On May 04, 2017 |
alonzoiv:Which kind yeye spiritual leader. Get the bi**ch arrested! |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by DICKtator: 10:48am On May 04, 2017 |
omron: What actually caused the quarrel? You did not explain in a detailed fashion. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by obiink: 10:50am On May 04, 2017 |
ARE YOU A MAN AT ALL ? 1 Like |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by DonaTee(f): 10:51am On May 04, 2017 |
omron: if by now u did not beat dat ur sister blue-black then u r a weakling. If by now she never cool of for police cell and bring back ur wife's certificate at least then u knw u r a disgrace. Infact ur father will b turning in his grave. Maka gini? Are aware dat she assaulted ur wife? Meaning she assaulted you? the case dey plain. Biko go n do d needful. If u dont take firm stance here ur wife will start seeing you in a different light. Jus Negodu! 1 Like |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by Bahddo(m): 10:54am On May 04, 2017 |
Sparkle777:forgive and forget the certificates she stole? Even God doesn't forgive unrepentant persons. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by Sparkle777(f): 11:03am On May 04, 2017 |
Bahddo: Trust me, she destroyed it too. Imprison her beat her, e don go be e don go. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by Basseybruce: 11:07am On May 04, 2017 |
I am feeling the psychological trauma you are facing right now, @ first, i don't think am wrong if i should blame you for living with your Mum, it is never possible for her to leave her husband's house and come to disrupt your peace if you are living alone{when she's not mad}, your mum would be limiting you from taking some steps, which are the best steps you ought to take, your sister needs more than a counsellor, i think she needs a pastor too, move out and stay alone if you love your immediate family. Be checking on mum regularly. Take care Bro. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by Bahddo(m): 11:07am On May 04, 2017 |
Sparkle777:then teach her a hard lesson. It's because she keeps getting away with her nonsense that's why she's that way. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by petersonoking: 11:08am On May 04, 2017 |
WHO GAVE HER THE RIGHT TO COME TO YOUR HOUSE TO TOUCH YOUR WIFE. MY BROTHER IF YOU CAN NOT PROTECT YOUR WIFE WHO ELSE? DID YOU MARRY YOUR WIFE FOR YOUR SISTERS? YOU BETTER FIGHT FOR HER NOW YOU ARE ALIVE. TO ME: IS BETTER FOR HER TO REMAIN SINGLE THAN TO HAVE YOU AS HER HUSBAND. 1 Like |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by 99foxxy(f): 11:08am On May 04, 2017 |
I'm not married but what I see couples who stay at their family home after marriage is hell, she won't have dared to come to your own house to do such, she only took the advantage of the fact that you are staying at your father's house... Your wife made me happy by challenging her to a fight. Bros go and rent an apartment and own up as a man. If my future sister in law dare me in such manner ehn, I will make sure she eats her shiit as food and drink her urine as water. She demon idiotic sister in law. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by einsteino(m): 11:09am On May 04, 2017 |
omron: What do u mean by u r d last born and she is older? You dont know by tradition, if u r the only son and have no uncles, you would have been the one to give your elder sisters hand out in marriage? Respecting your sister's age should stop the day she disrespects you. I dont even care about what your sis did to you, its ur wife i care for. As far as i am concerned you brought this mess upon your wife, you owe your wife a heartfelt apology. What rubbish! First of all it takes a very understanding wife to consent to living in your parents house. Bringing ur mum to ur house would have been a better idea and nobody would have had the guts to disrespect you in your own house. I cant phantom how such a thing could happen and all you can do is run to nairaland, for pete's sake you are a man! And i dont mean it in a supremacy manner but part of the responsibility of a man is to take the initative, be a rallying point of the family and put people in their places when the need arise... right now your sister's place is weeks long all expense paid vacation in a cell. A mere idiot pretending to be a sister is getting u into such mess. Men bring their ageing troublesome fire for fire mum whom they owe their who life to, to come live with their family and still enforce order and peace... Honestly you sound as though you never performed the role of a man until you got married. Cos i dont understand how come you havent long arranged your sisters scoi scoi when you were younger. Your sister is not possessed, she is just finding someone who can stand up to her and cure her crase...once you do that she would either respect you or forever leave you alone. A man should be gentle and calm but ready to go crazy when the need arises else he would be trampled upon. 1 Like |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by DaniDani(m): 11:15am On May 04, 2017 |
Go to her house and replicate whatever she did to you. Adopt any method you can and seize her belongings; valuables, car if she has any and if possible, take away any of her little child at reach. Before you do this, make sure you had taken your family to a safe location. Make sure you hold her to Ransom the same she did to you, then that demon will leave her. ARRANT NONSENSE. I AM PROVOKED ALREADY! |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by Bahddo(m): 11:19am On May 04, 2017 |
streetzdreamz:as in... The guy is such a sissy. Can't stand up for his family. 2 Likes |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by Sparkle777(f): 11:24am On May 04, 2017 |
[quote author=Bahddo post=56196396] then teach her a hard lesson. It's because she keeps getting away with her nonsense that's why she's that way. [/quote. Any lesson to her wil further kill their mom. Remember? She nids help, any good psychiatric hospital wil do her well. Then prayers also. I ve experienced such. You just can't win. Trust me. The guy should hav listend to his spirit sooner. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by bros856: 11:25am On May 04, 2017 |
Please report her to the police without wasting your time, but make sure you have witnesses or evidence. I have a sister like that who did same thing to me and i lost my marriage, She even went as far as sold one of my dad's property. It's the police i use to calm her down. She was almost jailed. Till date she has changed. Go to police zone command where the matter will be taken very serious not just a police station where the matter will be taken lightly. Just take my advise and shun the family thing. My sister and i are twin but i still locked her up in police sail and allow police to do their work. she just feel you people have soft spot for her and nothing will happen hence her behavior, Somebody need to teach her a lesson and this is the opportunity. After this case look for place of your own even if it's one room rent for your family because that is what makes you a man and husband. Protect your family if you want to remain a husband, don't make my same mistake, After God your wife and children first. Nobody messes with mine now after my experience. I wish you LUCK. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by baby124: 11:26am On May 04, 2017 |
petersonoking:And if he's killed in the process of fighting? Who will take care of his family? You think a person that can do this is alright? 2 Likes |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by baby124: 11:31am On May 04, 2017 |
OP, Tell your mother to tell her child to return your certificates and refund you money for property lost. Also meet with her husband like a man and tell him everything that transpired. If he's a reasonable man he will be ashamedand do the right thing. If not go to the police station and file a theft report with her name on it, also file an assault report. Get your own apartment and move on with your life. Work on replacing those certificates, I hope you have the photocopies. Cut off contact with her. Everything can be replaced but not your life. Apologize to your wife on her behalf and that of your family and just move on. Trust me, you will be the bigger person and God will bless you. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by Truckpusher(m): 11:34am On May 04, 2017 |
[quote author=Sparkle777 post=56196942][/quote]Yimu!! |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by bellenornor(f): 11:36am On May 04, 2017 |
omron:Get a house help for your mum. That way she won't feel that lonely |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by posh95(m): 11:42am On May 04, 2017 |
ejosh4:Emotions ke? Is that kinda person ready to change? Abi u no hear say na so shey dey from small? Best thing na 2 put her 4 guard room 4 2wks. Dat kind matter, na life-changing beating go instill d fear of the Lord. Who emotions epp? |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by talk2bity: 11:45am On May 04, 2017 |
U should leave ur family house and rent ur own apartment.u don't know wat ur sister will do wit the credential.she can take it to babalawo (GOD forbid that).ur sister said she will go extra miles to distroy ur home.Report to the police,so that the will teach her a lesson of her life. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by misscowmilk(f): 11:46am On May 04, 2017 |
[quote author=dingbang post=56187321]Are you not a man? U ought to beat sense into her.. Jeez..[/quote Real men don't beat |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by Bahddo(m): 11:49am On May 04, 2017 |
Sparkle777:his mother promised nothing would happen, nothing could be farther from the truth. If the sister's lunacy hasn't killed the mother, neither would the man's lesson. The mother wasn't there to prevent or solve anything. The same mother raised the monster he calls his sister, with this same pampering and living in denial. She still wants him to live in denial until his sister kills his wife and child and maybe him too. His mother should take the back seat, she was missing in action so this isn't about her anymore. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by Larasisi(f): 11:52am On May 04, 2017 |
poshestmina:Honestly I agree with the poster above any Military personnel in the house should help a brother. If she is mad once she is handled the way she deserves she will produce the certificates and pay for damages for all she destroyed. Sorry Bro . |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by Respect55(m): 11:53am On May 04, 2017 |
omron:Nawa oo |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by dingbang(m): 11:54am On May 04, 2017 |
[quote author=misscowmilk post=56197580][/quote]try am for my house na.. |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by blueandbirds(m): 12:19pm On May 04, 2017 |
poshestmina: .... God bless you for that comment you alone have said it all, op you should do what this young lady have said asap.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by SamuelAdila3(m): 12:21pm On May 04, 2017 |
She's demonic |
Re: How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? by dangotesmummy: 12:29pm On May 04, 2017 |
Tokziby:is it not ignoring they've been doing all this years that turned the sister into an animal and makes her think she can misbehave any how she likes .some elders in my place says it's madness to be doing the same thing and expect a different result and that's exactly what is happening in Nigeria. We have been dealing with the same problem using the same approach that's why nothing is working instead Nigeria is sinking deeper into more problem after problem. His case doesn't require gentle man approach of ignoring. That's not how you deal with touts to get off your back, you use extreme violence. You stoop to their level and give them counter violence if not the harassment and disrespect will continue in a worse dimension |
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