tngtech:

@poster

are you a victim?

woye77:

i'm sure some other guys must be wondering about this too - ladies in civilised societies don't do that so why are our girls fond of this? is something to do with our culture?

woye77:

i'm sure some other guys must be wondering about this too - ladies in civilised societies don't do that so why are our girls fond of this? is something to do with our culture?

stillwater:

Men in civilized societies will not see you passing the street and think it's right to stalk the lady.
They will not wait dedicatedly by their windows expecting you to pass so that they can toast you because men in civilized societies have jobs to do.
I hope that answers your question.

SEFAGO:

maybe because u did not match the taste of the girl. If the girl wanted to do she would not pour insults.

THE AMAKA:

that happened to me in naija too, had to curse a lot of people out. well not "curse" them out but tell them like it is.
really f***ing annoying!  

stillwater:

I know of a guy who has been [i]pursuing [/i]me since I was 13. Till I left naija, the dude did not give up. Sometimes he called me all sort of names, but another time he'd be blowing kisses and inviting me to his house. His brother too was doing the same thing. Always tried to grab my hands on the streets. The mumu told me he had his bed ready that I should come to his house.

Then woye wants to put civilized with naija men? Shiooorrrrrrrrrrrrrr

stillwater:

I know of a guy who has been [i]pursuing [/i]me since I was 13. Till I left naija, the dude did not give up. Sometimes he called me all sort of names, but another time he'd be blowing kisses and inviting me to his house. His brother too was doing the same thing. Always tried to grab my hands on the streets. The mumu told me he had his bed ready that I should come to his house.

Then woye wants to put civilized with naija men? Shiooorrrrrrrrrrrrrr

GIRL!! tell me about it. I don't know where their hands have been.  
not tryna exaggerate but if i were to estimate i would say this has happened to me in naija at least 15 times. sooooo annoying. in my grandpa's store, silly foolish customers, in church, walking down the street, at Oghu festivals, ITS CRAZY!!! gosh.

Its a pure lack of etiquette and manners Grin Cheesy. Toasting is our right! Whether you accept or refuse is up to y'all but be gracious about it. Some of them would rather act like skeezers just to prove their point

Unwanted touching and grabbing of females out in the Nigerian market-place doing their shopping is still too widespread in Nigerian society today. Some of these Nigerian men bring it over with them to UK or USA as Kate Ukezue and Elizabeth Nwankwo recounted in their articles about Nigerian men. These Nigerian men are taking a big risk and could end up in police handcuffs.

Some Nigerian men make the mistaken assumption that if they are on friendly terms with a woman it is ok to touch her body – I have had this happen to me and I think it is very wrong. Nigerian men should understand that by behaving this way, they are taking the risk of being reported to the police and getting arrested.

It is also true that some Nigerian men come on too strong – persistently hitting on a girl that has rejected him ten times already and still trying to chat her up. Maybe it’s time to leave the poor girl alone?

THE AMAKA:

GIRL!! tell me about it. I don't know where their hands have been.  
not tryna exaggerate but if i were to estimate i would say this has happened to me in naija at least 15 times. sooooo annoying. in my grandpa's store, silly foolish customers, in church, walking down the street, at Oghu festivals, ITS CRAZY!!! gosh.

stillwater:

I think the high unemployment rate of young men in the country is a defining factor here. Because no jobless man will be this crass and unrefined. Nevertheless most of the ones that have jobs have zero manner of approach. If you want to be approached properly look for rich guys alone.

SEFAGO:

^Golddigger

E pain you?

And I remember this 30-something yr old man that used to bother me, OMG! I was only 10 oo Grin Grin
Good thing he didn't know my name, he kept calling me 'obioma', LMCAO!! Obioma coo Chioma nee.

chiogo:

LOL, @ poster, you sef leave them alone.

Sheesh, I remember back in naija this dude would be stalking my sister and she'd be wary of going out, he even found out where we lived. And on top of that, the fool was mad old My sister was a minor then.

And I remember this 30-something yr old man that used to bother me, OMG! I was only 10 oo
Good thing he didn't know my name, he kept calling me 'obioma', LMCAO!! Obioma coo Chioma nee.

0hsisi:

The one that irritated the daylights out of me were these pervs calling me "my wife"
If only eyes could kill
I rolled my eyes at them and gave them a much deserved *waka*

0hsisi:

The one that irritated the daylights out of me were these pervs calling me "my wife"
If only eyes could kill
I rolled my eyes at them and gave them a much deserved *waka*

last time I heard that, I was like 6. . . . .by a Mallam in Lagos.
Dude was nice though. .  . . free agbalumo.

0hsisi:

The one that irritated the daylights out of me were these pervs calling me "my wife"
If only eyes could kill
I rolled my eyes at them and gave them a much deserved *waka*

LMFAO!!! you gave the waka too? haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa  
i did that so many times too. it used to irritate the hell out of me when they would say "my wife" or something. i can't even explain it but it was soooooo annoying. UGH! i hated it.

FL Gators:

last time I heard that, I was like 6. . . . .by a Mallam in Lagos.
Dude was nice though. . . . free agbalumo.

SEFAGO:

Kai u are that cheap

rotfl. . . . .sharaap  
At that time, I didnt even know what he was doing.
All I know is that I get free agbalumos.

0hsisi:

lucky you

There are a lot of perverts in Nigeria
and the men will stalk you and deal with you sometimes when you turn down their advances
There are many stories of girls who did not graduate till they put out.
Sick  vindictive men full Naija

Very true. Sweet one second, you turn them down, the devil comes out.
Seriously, Naija men need to learn to take "No" respectively.