We have a case here and a judge is really needed now.
Really, the post iz interesting and also makes sense but,  let's leave it at that but i feel the woman should be a companion though some do mess up but i feel there are other ways out aside that of the poster 'coz we different individuals. Bleep ups should be treated accordingly and also in stages.

platinumnk:

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David and Saurons Secret Remote

OH tai2,
We bow at thy feet hoping and wishing all men can come to be like that. . . . . .we pray thee to further pepper and water us with your emotional knowledge . . . . . .

interesting thread

REAL men have been doing the same (putting these in practice)through the ages!

long live men of valour

i had to print this write up and keep for FUTURE REFERENCE!!!NICE ONE BRO

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Abeg! leave this your theory, what works for u may be a death warrant for another. there are no straight rules to relationships except love and submission other things the duo works out for themselves.

Too much theory dey cause wahala. Agreements and compromises work better.

hmmmm
interesting

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madlady:

lol

OGA,

I beg u give us the abridged version of your entry, it is a too lenghtyyyyyyyyy

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Wheres Pro 1?

madlady:

REAL MAN. LOL

REAL MEN=a new generation of men who show their strength in their personality but are not afraid to care for their appearance.

NOT

those pussies who do all your bidding

I have 3 tips on how to subdue a woman.

TIP #1: You can't.
TIP #2: you are deceiving yourself.
TIP #3: Stop wasting your time.

I am speaking from experience,

this is quite interesting

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I've been in this situation before,and God knows you're 100000000000000% right,Soo many Heart Break experience will only toughen a man and put him in control, Even women say it,that they don't like nice guys.

I like this original Poster's point, he is a practical guy. i would give this same advice to my younger brother. Don't worry, i have added you to my yahoo messenger. Please ignore those guys that says you are writing rubbish; it is either they are hypocrites or naive.

Hi All,


With every respect to the ladies here, I must say I can see where the poster is coming from.  

I once dated a girl who, in course of a lovers tiff, called me a bast-rd. I then turned round and asked her as to how she could call me a bast-rd, considering that she said she loved me.  At this point, she replied by saying:

"that's because women love bastards!"

Again, there's a saying over here, that goes as follows:  "treat them mean and keep them keen". That doesn't mean beat them up, mind. 

You only need to be a bit hard on them and not show too much affection 'cos otherwise, the girls will take the piss at you and say things like 'you're too nice', 'you're too soft', 'you aren't a challenge to me anymore' and eventually move on, leaving you heartbroken because you are too much of a Mr Nice Guy.

Make what you like of it.



kiwi992.

NB:

Sorry ladies, if I've offended you by recalling my own personal experience as well as expressing my own views.

@Poster

You are absolutely right,  I go with you

2 Captains can't drive a ship @ the same time.

Men must know how to control women orelse you are finished.

Women love to be controlled, but there are some cases we have stubborn/bossy ladies labelled as a losers 

Women like this might find themselves single, divorce because they always think they are smart.

Ladies out there, stop that sh, it, we know everybody likes to be in power but that position is not meant for you 

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All ye who seek true control, I have returned to impart my opinions and counsel on what is being said here:

1.) A man of true control does not boss his woman or give her a list of commandments to follow. All those talking about men who tell their wives and girlfriends what job to do and not to do are not talking about men of true control. These are men of artificial control, men who have to shout and make noise when talking to their women because they think the money they have spent has bought part of her soul. A man of true control does not need to tell his woman what to do, she usually tries to do what will make their relationship work because she doesn't want to lose him. Men of true control do not have to beg for sex at night, neither do they make it a compulsory issue. A woman with a man of true control will give him sex 24/7 if she thinks it will keep her beholden to him.

2) If you men seek true control, NEVER spend more than 10% of what you earn on a woman. 20% is allowed in cases of extreme happiness and special occasions. Anything else you will resent it and complain to everyone that comes how much you spent on her and who the hell wants to know? If you can't afford it don't do it. No one likes to be reminded that they owe you, no woman wants to hear how much you spend. Only a man of no control or artificial starts calculating how much he has "invested" on a woman. Spend 10% and you will never have unnecessary regrets.

3) A man of true control treats his woman with respect when she respects him. Respect does not necessarily mean being foolish which is what some of no control an artificial control think it to be. Respect is a ladies first thing, when she gives you yours you give her relative respect but not to your own detriment. Anything that degrades you unnecessarily is not respect.


4) A man of true control does not need to shout to get his voice heard. He merely expresses his displeasure and gives the cold shoulder treatment if she acts otherwise.

5) A man of true control listens to his woman's opinions from time to time and takes some of her wise decisions into account. But he does not become a mugu by doing every single thing she thinks of.

faakay:


Ladies out there, stop that sh, it, we know everybody likes to be in power but that position is not meant for you

Well Im sorry for the Condelezza Rices, Hillary Clintons, and Oprahs out there

Such a sexist statement, Men like that are good for Breakdowns

madlady:

at least you have a sense of humour.

hmmm, I see, thanks

platinumnk:

Such a sexist statement, Men like that are good for Breakdowns

If you say so

tai2:

All ye who seek true control, I have returned to impart my opinions and counsel on what is being said here:

1.) A man of true control does not boss his woman or give her a list of commandments to follow. All those talking about men who tell their wives and girlfriends what job to do and not to do are not talking about men of true control. These are men of artificial control, men who have to shout and make noise when talking to their women because they think the money they have spent has bought part of her soul. A man of true control does not need to tell his woman what to do, she usually tries to do what will make their relationship work because she doesn't want to lose him. Men of true control do not have to beg for intimacy at night, neither do they make it a compulsory issue. A woman with a man of true control will give him intimacy 24/7 if she thinks it will keep her beholden to him.

2) If you men seek true control, NEVER spend more than 10% of what you earn on a woman. 20% is allowed in cases of extreme happiness and special occasions. Anything else you will resent it and complain to everyone that comes how much you spent on her and who the hell wants to know? If you can't afford it don't do it. No one likes to be reminded that they owe you, no woman wants to hear how much you spend. Only a man of no control or artificial starts calculating how much he has "invested" on a woman. Spend 10% and you will never have unnecessary regrets.

3) A man of true control treats his woman with respect when she respects him. Respect does not necessarily mean being foolish which is what some of no control an artificial control think it to be. Respect is a ladies first thing, when she gives you yours you give her relative respect but not to your own detriment. Anything that degrades you unnecessarily is not respect.


4) A man of true control does not need to shout to get his voice heard. He merely expresses his displeasure and gives the cold shoulder treatment if she acts otherwise.

5) A man of true control listens to his woman's opinions from time to time and takes some of her wise decisions into account. But he does not become a mugu by doing every single thing she thinks of.

THE FIVE COMMANDMENTS SENT DOWN FROM ABOVE 

Lol

Look at how hard you have to try to "Control A Woman".  Sign of who's winning this war?  We do it effortlessly baby.

platinumnk:

Well Im sorry for the Condelezza Rices, Hillary Clintons, and Oprahs out there

which is why Condi and Oprah remain single eh?

Have you finished your assignment?

tai2:


2) If you men seek true control, NEVER spend more than 10% of what you earn on a woman. 20% is allowed in cases of extreme happiness and special occasions. Anything else you will resent it and complain to everyone that comes how much you spent on her and who the hell wants to know? If you can't afford it don't do it. No one likes to be reminded that they owe you, no woman wants to hear how much you spend. Only a man of no control or artificial starts calculating how much he has "invested" on a woman. Spend 10% and you will never have unnecessary regrets.

In other words, pay your tithe to your woman.

Oh great wise one, you are truly foolish (pardon me, i don't mean it harshly).