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Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 12:02am On Feb 12, 2010 |
davidylan: What ever, u had your pilot example, and I have my business partnership. Business partnerships are most similar to marriages, in a plane, the the co pilot does not "maninpulate" the pilot to fly in a particular direction |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:02am On Feb 12, 2010 |
platinumnk: OMG . . . .u actually take what ppl say to you on the net seriously? more fool u, sory to say |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:03am On Feb 12, 2010 |
platinumnk: Wake up . . . this slumber of urs is too deep. You think u're still playing bf and gf? |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by ayettymama(f): 12:03am On Feb 12, 2010 |
platinumnk: hehehehehehehehehehehe u dont have to marry a nigerian there are plenty of better reasoning men out there! |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:04am On Feb 12, 2010 |
stillwater: I sure as hell dont. i want a man that keep me on my toes cuz i am very stubborn and if u r a wimp u cant handle me so i want a man who is a HEAD not a biz partner |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sauron1: 12:05am On Feb 12, 2010 |
stillwater: Platinumnk desires a MUMU husband. The one that will hand-wash her dirty panties. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Krayola(m): 12:06am On Feb 12, 2010 |
I think every relationship is different. People are different in a lot of ways, need different things, and respond differently to different situations. Some people enjoy being controlled, some people prefer to defer responsibility/decision making to someone else. Some people do not want to be controlled but will take it if it keeps the home together, some will become defensive and even hostile. . . .yada yada ya. I don't think any one situation is "better" than the other. It ultimately, IMO, depends on the individuals involved and whether or not they are happy/comfortable in the situation. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 12:08am On Feb 12, 2010 |
~Sauron~: hell he was the one soaking them, shouldnt he wash them TOPE2000!: well still got cambodia so im good ayettymama: Abi o! Im not worried, my PARTNER is out there michelin89: But seriously The woman gets her way right, and the man is happy, so who is really leading who? |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:08am On Feb 12, 2010 |
Krayola: This is where the confusion is submission is not CONTROLLING. submission is willing to do without been forced A guys that wants to control is an asswipe to me. . . i cant date a guy that controls me talk less of marry. 1 Like |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by ayettymama(f): 12:09am On Feb 12, 2010 |
dedicated to the loooosers!!! lol boss lady needs a boss man https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAsBVMZDZwE 1 Like |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:10am On Feb 12, 2010 |
davidylan: I will fight for equality in the work place, school or any institution or organization. But when it comes to the workings of a family, you can't use such mentality and you think you'll succeed. Even the West marriages people use as a case in point when we talk about 50/50 from what I have seen here the responsibilities of the home still lie on the woman. It's utter balderdash when people scream the 50/50 thing. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:11am On Feb 12, 2010 |
stillwater: even stillwater gets it? Is today groundhog day? |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:12am On Feb 12, 2010 |
stillwater: Can i kiss you? |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sauron1: 12:12am On Feb 12, 2010 |
stillwater: Biko nu, how much is your bride-price again? I wan pay now before before the price soars. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:12am On Feb 12, 2010 |
~Sauron~: You mean she deserves a mumu CEO? Now washing panties is good biz IMO. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:13am On Feb 12, 2010 |
davidylan: Leave plat jor She will soon get it, she is still young |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 12:13am On Feb 12, 2010 |
Phooey- Stilly to get your way you will manipulate if you dont like what your hubby says What kinda "leadership is that" If you wasnt aiming for 50/50 then you wouldnt manipulate |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sauron1: 12:14am On Feb 12, 2010 |
davidylan: ROFLMAO. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:15am On Feb 12, 2010 |
platinumnk: i'm sure you have succeeded in confusing even yourself. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by mamagee3(f): 12:15am On Feb 12, 2010 |
davidylan: *Dies* |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Krayola(m): 12:18am On Feb 12, 2010 |
TOPE2000!: But what if he gets used to u being so submissive. . . WHat happens when you disagree with him but he insists on making decisions that directly affect you, for u, despite your objections? TOPE2000!: I think guys that try to control girls are wimps. In fact one of my friends asked me for my opinion today about some issues he is having with his girl, thinking I was going to take his side, but I just told him straight up that his relationship was gonna mess up if he didn't stop trying to control her. Basically she has two job offers and she wants to pick one of the jobs because she has worked a similar job before. He wants her to take the other job because the company has been around for longer while the other one is a new start-up company. I explained to him that she is an adult that is going to spend 40 hrs of her week at a job. . . It is only fair that she gets to decide which job that will be . . . offer your input or advice, but it is unfair to force your opinion on her. Being a typical Naija man he just said "Well, I've put my foot down and that's it" . Kinda sad IMO. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 12:18am On Feb 12, 2010 |
davidylan: No i am the only one being politcally correct here. the women are clamoring "oohh i can use emotions to get what I want" isnt that 50/50? If he was a truely your leader, you would listen to his intructions and not try to manipulate him to change his mind. Meaning you are essentially striving for equality, where I want i bold faced, no playing games and running schemes on my husband. Is he not human as I? Because he wasnt given that special chromosone then I should bow down? HA! |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by chiogo(f): 12:19am On Feb 12, 2010 |
Story story!! Story!!! Krayola:Thank you!! 1 Like |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:19am On Feb 12, 2010 |
davidylan: You no well. This is not the first time I'm saying this kind of thing on NL. The rift here is that most girls and 'modern' men have a skewed definition of what the Bible says about submission. TOPE2000!: Yes. ~Sauron~: The price is already high. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by platinumnk(f): 12:19am On Feb 12, 2010 |
Krayola: Are u married? Still hope! |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:22am On Feb 12, 2010 |
stillwater: you got that right. Perhaps you can try explaining what it means to plat, i'm sure she listens to you. Or maybe i shld marry plat? Just a thot. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:22am On Feb 12, 2010 |
Who said men don't use emotions to get what they want? Especially at night when they start stroking their kobokos against your yansh saying please na. If that is not being slave to your emotions, I don't know what to call it. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Sauron1: 12:23am On Feb 12, 2010 |
platinumnk: It is not. There's no guarantee that a woman's use of her emotions will get her what she wants. At best, she will get what she wants 3 times out of 10.
They cannot always listen to his instructions cos men are human-beings prone to errors as well. That a woman wants something does not mean she is striving for equality. When a kid wants a new toy, he is not asking for 50% of your income.
I'm sorry for your relationship. U would be thrown out of it faster than farticles stream out of OBJ's arse after eating a pot of beans. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Krayola(m): 12:24am On Feb 12, 2010 |
michelin89: |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Nobody: 12:24am On Feb 12, 2010 |
platinumnk: You really see this issue as a lord and subject thing. Sorry I can't help you here. |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by Krayola(m): 12:26am On Feb 12, 2010 |
platinumnk: haha. I'm not married. Probably never will. I love my |
Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by TOPE20001(f): 12:27am On Feb 12, 2010 |
Krayola: Used to being submissive? I only start my submission after marriage. I always say what u wont take when you are married. . . . voice it out when you are dating. Only a useless man will make decisions behind his wife's back. But then again u are an Atheist . . . i dont expect u understand what God meant when he said wives shud be submissive
I agree with you completely . . . .men that controls are are assholes but we are talking abt submission darl. |
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