Wizkhalifa2:
Why do guys sweat over girls? .. I don't get it.

beetown:
Hello Guys.

This will be the first time I'll be asking for relationship advice on here since I've been on Nairaland

I've been dating this girl for some months now,I really love her a lot but she has some issues

Lemme explain, when we started dating she was the perfect girl until after about a month, I noticed any time she was with my phone she would go through my WhatsApp. Any time I confront her about it she'll accuse of me of cheating and hiding things from her and because of the that we had a big fight, I tried calling her to apologize but she avoided my calls,it was not until she got into a fight with one of her friends because she was checking his WhatsApp that she apologized and we settled.
Now to the latest,I observed that she loved reporting every little issue we have to my friends,which I don't like (I like my privacy) she actually reported our relationship to a friend of mine who I'm not in talking terms with, in the course of the guy trying to intervene, he insulted me so much, he called me a liar so many times and I couldn't do anything cos my girlfriend was the one who involved him. After the chat I got in touch with my girlfriend and told her politely that I didn't like the way she carried our relationship issues to my friends, that my friends' girlfriends never reported their issues to me they way she did to them and she exploded, she called names,she started crying saying I should give her space because I'm making her regret getting into the relationship. Now she hasn't answered my calls since then.
She doesn't respect me at all,she makes me feel as if I'm maltreating her, she doesnt take anything i say and does anything she sees fit. please should I continue with the relationship or not.

PS: she's the only daughter of her family, could it be the reason she acts like this?

R3B3L:
Don't b too quick to break up. Market hard so u won't find any better. She's misguided and trying in her own way. U r more mature Dan her and any man who can truly handle a woman with issues and change her, dats a real man. So don't always take flight. If u can't advise her den talk to some3one she listens to. Start from der. Let him/her let her know she has to listen to u. Wen u have created a healthy environment for communication den u can begin changing her. If u ain't doing shit just convince her by always being open. She'll stop snooping around eventually. B firm but soft sha...

beetown:
What really got me angry was how my friend insulted me because of her,my friend who can't talk to me on a normal day

Crazytrump:
Money before Bitches

Divay22:

Can you ever be nice a Lil with your comments
Dra it's a relationship

Draei:

Okay, it's a relationship.

Divay22:


Good evening

Draei:

How're you dear...

Divay22:

Damn cold, got beaten by the rain
And you?

Draei:

On bed as always.
Uhm rain, coming from where?

DonMekino:
She takes ur relationship matter to friends and u don't like it cos u value ur privacy.... Now u carry the matter cum Nairaland.. Are u trying to outdo her in terms of reporting to third parties Ayam not understanding

Divay22:

I went to my school to submit my project
I got soaked,not wet...
Ain't finding it funny over here

beetown:


I don't really know

Coldfeets:


Nairaland is a FACELESS forum.

You don't know the OP personally neither does the OP know you personally.

But reporting to his friends is a total breach of privacy.

I wonder why and how that is so difficult for you to understand.

DonMekino:


Faceless u say.... Ask op how many useful advice he got here... The known friends are better instead of ppl coming here to skate him n talk anyhow.

beetown:


I've always noticed that she never takes anything I say,she feels I can't correct her,if I say anything she wouldn't take it but if any of my friends says the same thing,she'll concur at once

beetown:
Hello Guys.

This will be the first time I'll be asking for relationship advice on here since I've been on Nairaland

I've been dating this girl for some months now,I really love her a lot but she has some issues

Lemme explain, when we started dating she was the perfect girl until after about a month, I noticed any time she was with my phone she would go through my WhatsApp. Any time I confront her about it she'll accuse of me of cheating and hiding things from her and because of the that we had a big fight, I tried calling her to apologize but she avoided my calls,it was not until she got into a fight with one of her friends because she was checking his WhatsApp that she apologized and we settled.
Now to the latest,I observed that she loved reporting every little issue we have to my friends,which I don't like (I like my privacy) she actually reported our relationship to a friend of mine who I'm not in talking terms with, in the course of the guy trying to intervene, he insulted me so much, he called me a liar so many times and I couldn't do anything cos my girlfriend was the one who involved him. After the chat I got in touch with my girlfriend and told her politely that I didn't like the way she carried our relationship issues to my friends, that my friends' girlfriends never reported their issues to me they way she did to them and she exploded, she called names,she started crying saying I should give her space because I'm making her regret getting into the relationship. Now she hasn't answered my calls since then.
She doesn't respect me at all,she makes me feel as if I'm maltreating her, she doesnt take anything i say and does anything she sees fit. please should I continue with the relationship or not.

PS: she's the only daughter of her family, could it be the reason she acts like this?