tachi:

lmao!

Interesting.

Some replies here have surprised me tho.e.g davidylan's.

Always struck me like a straightforward,right-btw-the-eyes kinda person.

anyways, wat do i know o

tachi:

lmao!

Interesting.

Some replies here have surprised me tho.e.g davidylan's.

Always struck me like a straightforward,right-btw-the-eyes kinda person.

anyways, wat do i know o

0hsisi:

not people like[b] Sauron and pataki [/b] that'll be dating a girl for donkey years without her even knowing their middle or last names

~Sauron~:

I am suing for defamation of character.

davidylan:

I am as straight-forward as they come . . . and i cant lead a woman on for 2 weeks max as long as i know i have no interest in her. If she chooses to stick around and waste her time . . . her loss IMO.

davidylan:

the truth is women prefer being lied to.

davidylan:

the truth is women prefer being lied to.

tachi:

well.i dnt know about that.

some women maybe

!amebo no1:

@osisi

Abeg i waka b4 i turned 20, so late teens,hahaha


@luvbrook

Age?na nt telling, else u want me to lie, ive told pple lies here abt d age issue, bt my dad promised to cut the guys abunna if he steps his foot inside his house promised to cut

kemisuga:

Good Topic, really got some sense in this.

Thank you poster.

Pataki:

@ davidylan,

You are so right. And any relationship based on flattery, lies and deception cannot stand the test of time. More reason why I do not pity women when they come with their whinging cries about heartbreaks.

There must have been something a lady has done or shown to a guy for a guy to cook-up lies just in order to sway you off your feet at first. When would ladies start accepting a guy for what he is rather than who is he?

The man annoyed me no be small
Irritating!
na so so lies ,about how he has this and that
how his ex wife did this and that
how he only dates American ladies now
Meanwhile the eediot was eyeing me.

!amebo no1:

Osisi i agree with everything but, the meeting his mother aspect, alot of men have gone as far as proposing to a gurl, meeting her family just to get inbtw her legs, there is this guy in europe who's introduced if not a million girls to his mum,and the mum knows that this dude is just out there to sleep with women, introducing to mum is not a guarantee to marriage, introducing to the whole family member is not a guarantee to marriage, i was introduced to someones family members and even had his mum begging me to come to the east to spend some time with her, at the end of the day i married someone else

I've seen couples separate after trad wedding, men of these days can even go along with the wedding plans until hes gotten what he wants

I agree with chika on the part of a guy being excited when he meets the right woman and wants to marry her ASAP, i did not date my husband for up to 3 months before he proposed.
In all if a girl isnt ready to be deceived the best thing is keep your legs closed, even if the guy leaves you tomorrow, sucide will be far from your mind

stillwater:

I bet it was the same lies the ex-wife found out that made her deal with him.

davidylan:

Is this a female pity-party gathering?

On a more serious note . . . when a man truly LOVES you (as against merely likes you or thinks you're a cute person he can hang with), he shows it. Men are not monsters, you can basically tell if a man is keeping you as a potential wife or as a mere bedmate (if you're 100% honest with yourself you will pick up the vibes). When a man has made up his mind he wont marry you . . . trying to change him is a waste of time.

To be honest . . . 99% of men dating you and professing to "love" you spend a lot of their free time away from you busy looking up potential wives to replace you. At least i confess i do this a lot.

davidylan:

Is this a female pity-party gathering?

On a more serious note . . . when a man truly LOVES you (as against merely likes you or thinks you're a cute person he can hang with), he shows it. Men are not monsters, you can basically tell if a man is keeping you as a potential wife or as a mere bedmate (if you're 100% honest with yourself you will pick up the vibes). When a man has made up his mind he wont marry you . . . trying to change him is a waste of time.
To be honest . . . 99% of men dating you and professing to "love" you spend a lot of their free time away from you busy looking up potential wives to replace you. At least i confess i do this a lot.

0hsisi:

You're welcome
there are some mean dudes out there and ladies have to be fore warned

Pataki:

@ Ohsisi,

I know you do want to protect your gender. I just finished having a chat with a female friend of mine somewhere in Eastern Europe. She was telling me about her heartaches involving two men. When I stated women are confused, I know what I am saying.

She has been dating this Igbo dude for over a year now. The guy remains the most sincere and loving guy she has ever dated. Two months ago, the guy traveled to Nigeria. Around last year, my female friend met this dude from Germany, who knew she was in a relationship, but kept professing love to her. She remained true to the Igbo man. Until recently, she developed strong feelings for this Germany resident guy. He comes visiting her somewhere in Europe some days back, called her and told her his location. Informed her to take a taxi and meet him at his hotel. My friend obeyed. She got to the hotel, expecting that they would sleep with for the whole night.

The germany dude, simply gave her a hug and went to sleep with her beside him throughout the whole night. My female friend got annoyed and asked the dude, why did you ask me to come and see you tonight? He replied her with a question: ''what is it that you want tonight?'' She said, intimacy! The guy replied her, ''I want love''. Now my female friend is madly in love with this germany guy, wants to break up the relationship with her Igbo bf, who is still in naija. She is already in a state of mental depression.

Tell me, why should a man not play up with deception with women? Do women deserve the best of qualities in a man, and when they do get it, why are they so foolish to throw it all away.

You can give all the emotional radars and sensors a woman should look for in a serious man, but the truth is that, most women can never be satisfied with what they have in their respective men.

Enough said.

~Sauron~:

Women prefer the lies.
[size=24pt]Without the lies, the men cannot score.

Men must score so they have to lie[/size].

0hsisi:

From the horse's mouth
let all the YIMers and YAMers hear this one  o
all these transatlantic  shopping  sorry, chopping trips that has been going on in this nairaland since 2006
I'm sure many regret it but others need to learn
BTW I haven't heard whitelexi's input on this thread

davidylan:

women are desperate . . . i dont think they will listen to you.
Truth be told, by the time a woman is about 28 with no serious bf in tow, she's no longer interested in your pontificating.

0hsisi:

Hmm
This America has done our girls many things
very few eligible men
I better train my girls to target and lock down a man when they're in their 3rd year in the university highest
many overgrown girls in this US of A
the thing fears me 
many girls here will finish first degree,do masters,enter med school,start residency still no man has asked her nne how much?

0hsisi:

many girls here will finish first degree,do masters,enter med school,start residency still no man has asked her nne how much?