0hsisi:

many girls here will finish first degree,do masters,enter med school,start residency still no man has asked her nne how much?

It is not America and Sauron has it right down pat. Many of these girls have attitude problems. any girl i meet who is over 27 and still single - there must be some serious reason no guy has come to her yet.
I know an igbo girl here, she's going to be 30 in March . . . a full surgeon YET nobody, not even an unserious bedmate. It didnt take me too long to figure out why . . .

- she's not fine (lets call a spade a spade abeg)
- she's lazy when it comes to household skills . . . i cant marry a woman whose house is more untidy than mine and who expects me to cook for her because she's busy at work all the time.
- She's too pushy, we just met less than 2 weeks and suddenly she wants to be all clingy and already warning off other chics.

Women are their own worst enemies . . . there are times i wondered if i shld just have kept this chic at least to warm the bed and spend her money but i've gotten to the stage where games no longer interest me. Besides i have my sanity to protect and there are younger finer chics to invest in.

oyinda.:

lol
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/07/fashion/07campus.html

in the future, women will be the ones asking men out. most of the american couples i know, the girl asked the guy out. and we know they are usually ahead of us, trend wise

cant wait for that time to come, i have my list of what she will buy me sef, PS4, 120" OLED samsung TV to name a few

0hsisi:

Hmm
This America has done our girls many things
very few eligible men
I better train my girls to target and lock down a man when they're in their 3rd year in the university highest
many overgrown girls in this US of A
the thing fears me 
many girls here will finish first degree,do masters,enter med school,start residency still no man has asked her nne how much?

and whose fault is it? they think they are in america and are above all but when they strike 40, they start seeing the mirror clearly. remember, in the first place a man does want to get married if he can keep getting some, so when they are waiting for that knight in shinning armor to show up, they will keep donating their kongo to be shinned by these shoe markers

U cant just blame the male folks,God has made us smarter and made the ladies with fish brains. When a lady blatantly refuse to read the writing on the wall what do u expect the guy to do ?

Rooneyboy:

U cant just blame the male folks,God has made us smarter and made the ladies with fish brains. When a lady blatantly refuse to read the writing on the wall what do u expect the guy to do ?

translate? i kid! i kid! i kid!

Na wa ooooo

i'm really loving this thread. . .at least its a bit diff from the usual all-naija-men-are-going-to-hell type we've gotten used to!

netotse:

i'm really loving this thread. . .at least its a bit diff from the usual all-naija-men-are-going-to-hell type we've gotten used to!

lmafo! i have to agree with u bro, i came with my sword and shield to defend nigerian men but it wasnt the usual bloodbath

lol it's not yet degenerated into the battle of the sexes.

U know,i have come up with the growth chart of the AVERAGE i repeat oooo AVERAGE Nigerian men.

16-20 , Entering University.Still warming up, battles with the fact that his female age mate isn't his age mate.

21-25, Finishing Uni.Younger Babes are just Fun for him and He is Beginning to Feel the Power of Control, Meanwhile his Female agemate is getting to be a fast pro veteran in the aristo business.for those that are not,a serious boyfriend is their target/They are beginning to lower their standards with regards to the rich quys,

25-30, A lot here happens.The Guy is now making real money if he makes it early and Chicks of all ages swarm over him.Confusion enters as his ringtone changes from "I Need A Girl" to "Danger" cos Wahala dey, Here every Guy should be careful. Always know what you want.Whether a Wife u need now or a nice bedmate.A lot of guys confuse good bedmatics and get married then are out in the market again,

Hey, back to my lovely females, Time is catching up with them.The Mother that warned her against boys now asks if she has a boyfriend.If she replies Shyly then wahala o ti kpo ju.Theman Hunt then begins.Some career ladies keep on telling them selves or listening to the stories of their friends that they don't need a guy till she wakes up to find herself unmarried and her "compatriots" happily married, keeping her off so as to prevent "Husband Snatching."
31-35, for a guy he starts getting very serious about settling down,for a girl, it just overtime, Here is when the 5-month courtship b4 marriage exist, Sometimes it includes introduction and wedding planning.
Funny as this world is.There is a time for everything, The time to sow and time to harvest, Be warned. Always search for that"Girl/Guy"on  time as they say there is no time to check the time cos it has passed.

lord krato:

U know,i have come up with the growth chart of the AVERAGE i repeat oooo AVERAGE Nigerian men.

16-20 , Entering University.Still warming up, battles with the fact that his female age mate isn't his age mate.

21-25, Finishing Uni.Younger Babes are just Fun for him and He is Beginning to Feel the Power of Control, Meanwhile his Female agemate is getting to be a fast pro veteran in the aristo business.for those that are not,a serious boyfriend is their target/They are beginning to lower their standards with regards to the rich quys,

25-30, A lot here happens.The Guy is now making real money if he makes it early and Chicks of all ages swarm over him.Confusion enters as his ringtone changes from "I Need A Girl" to "Danger" cos Wahala dey, Here every Guy should be careful. Always know what you want.Whether a Wife u need now or a nice bedmate.A lot of guys confuse good bedmatics and get married then are out in the market again,

Hey, back to my lovely females, Time is catching up with them.The Mother that warned her against boys now asks if she has a boyfriend.If she replies Shyly then wahala o ti kpo ju.Theman Hunt then begins.Some career ladies keep on telling them selves or listening to the stories of their friends that they don't need a guy till she wakes up to find herself unmarried and her "compatriots" happily married, keeping her off so as to prevent "Husband Snatching."
31-35, for a guy he starts getting very serious about settling down,for a girl, it just overtime, Here is when the 5-month courtship b4 marriage exist, Sometimes it includes introduction and wedding planning.
Funny as this world is.There is a time for everything, The time to sow and time to harvest, Be warned. Always search for that"Girl/Guy"on  time as they say there is no time to check the time cos it has passed.

nicely done

na2day?:

nicely done

Bro.am all about telling the truth man,

lord krato:

Bro.am all about telling the truth man,

but they cant handle the truth

lord krato:

U know,i have come up with the growth chart of the AVERAGE i repeat oooo AVERAGE Nigerian men.

16-20 , Entering University.Still warming up, battles with the fact that his female age mate isn't his age mate.

21-25, Finishing Uni.Younger Babes are just Fun for him and He is Beginning to Feel the Power of Control, Meanwhile his Female agemate is getting to be a fast pro veteran in the aristo business.for those that are not,a serious boyfriend is their target/They are beginning to lower their standards with regards to the rich quys,

25-30, A lot here happens.The Guy is now making real money if he makes it early and Chicks of all ages swarm over him.Confusion enters as his ringtone changes from "I Need A Girl" to "Danger" cos Wahala dey, Here every Guy should be careful. Always know what you want.Whether a Wife u need now or a nice bedmate.A lot of guys confuse good bedmatics and get married then are out in the market again,

Hey, back to my lovely females, Time is catching up with them.The Mother that warned her against boys now asks if she has a boyfriend.If she replies Shyly then wahala o ti kpo ju.Theman Hunt then begins.Some career ladies keep on telling them selves or listening to the stories of their friends that they don't need a guy till she wakes up to find herself unmarried and her "compatriots" happily married, keeping her off so as to prevent "Husband Snatching."
31-35, for a guy he starts getting very serious about settling down,for a girl, it just overtime, Here is when the 5-month courtship b4 marriage exist, Sometimes it includes introduction and wedding planning.
Funny as this world is.There is a time for everything, The time to sow and time to harvest, Be warned. Always search for that"Girl/Guy"on  time as they say there is no time to check the time cos it has passed.

this post is on point, even though it makes me fear for some females i know,

0hsisi:

Jehovah!
you were a teen bride?
Jenny nwa nma
did you know what you wanted as a teenager?
The man no even gree you test other waters kai!
anyway sha, I'll rather my child married as an 18 or 19 year old than present me with[b] an unfortunate belle[/b]

well I read that omotola Jalade's hubby married her that early too and they're both happy.
there's no guarantee that marriage is better when the woman is in her late 20's or 30's

my mums thoughts too ,naa i've always known what i wanted, early marriage was a thing for me, i desired it with a great passion even when i was little, and i guess God honoured my prayer, i am against 16 or 15 yrs old getting married, but once my daughter turns 18 ,shes free to get married

It was one decision i did not regret for one day, osisi you know ehn, if you meet the right person you will know, when you meet your partner there is this strong force, i really dont know how to explain, but im sure you felt same when you met your own husband, na that force drag me inside, infact i was so scared of my dad so tey when i arrive naija, i talk say i go sleep for hotel room cos i wasnt ready to face the man, but today the man dey enjoy the benefits of a being a father inlaw ,infact i dey complain sef say i think my dad loves him better than me seriously them fit talk for fone for hours and i end up talking with my father for a few mins

Ive got the best family my sister and only one nairalander has been opportuned to meet them

All these talks about meeting their friends and mum and family members are a lies. No be those his friends will be laughing behind your back when they know fully well that he has strings of girl friends.

!amebo no1:

my mums thoughts too ,naa i've always known what i wanted, early marriage was a thing for me, i desired it with a great passion even when i was little, and i guess God honoured my prayer, i am against 16 or 15 yrs old getting married, but once my daughter turns 18 ,shes free to get married

It was one decision i did not regret for one day, osisi you know ehn, if you meet the right person you will know, when you meet your partner there is this strong force, i really dont know how to explain, but im sure you felt same when you met your own husband, na that force drag me inside, infact i was so scared of my dad so tey when i arrive naija, i talk say i go sleep for hotel room cos i wasnt ready to face the man, but today the man dey enjoy the benefits of a being a father inlaw ,infact i dey complain sef say i think my dad loves him better than me seriously them fit talk for fone for hours and i end up talking with my father for a few mins

Ive got the best family my sister and only one nairalander has been opportuned to meet them

Gbam!
I totally get ya ma dear
wasn't I about to walk down the altar with another fiance before my true hubby showed up and swept me off my feet

wow, so much bitterness in this thread. do grow up ladies and deal with it!!!!!!!!!!!!

Osisi so you break another man heart? how the man cope naaa

Yeah cos when you meet your partner, you will know youve met the right person and they can be stubborn, even if you are in a relationship and tell them upfront "hey ive got a man" the words dey enter one ear they come out from another , infact na then them go rush you tire i'm a witness

above all, what goes around comes around---- play a girl from today till tomorrow, encourage your friends to take advantage of women---- in the next life when you are all blessed with daughters, you shall TRULY enjoy the fruit of your labors.


If you can

Ver nice

Bookmarked for later reading


But its not by force to marry a Nigerian

platinumnk:

Bookmarked for later reading


But its not by force to marry a Nigerian

did anyone say so?
_{don't let those uncircumcized philistines white boys deceive you}

0hsisi:

did anyone say so?
_{don't let those uncircumcized philistines white boys deceive you}

lol i was being funny sweets
But its sads u have to study so u can be prepared for all the games they play

My thing, be patient, dont push, an focus on being the flyest b!tch there is and marrying is the LAST thing that comes to mind
them philistines . . . yummy who said they are all uncimcusized

^^^^ unfortunately, thinking like this will mak you single for a while.

unfortunately, the number of bad nigerian men outweigh the good but there are still GOOD men out there.

OBLONG:

^^^^ unfortunately, thinking like this will mak you single for a while.

single as in umarried? Im not worried about that, I'll accept a propsal one day
I run from propsals not to them  
Im not some silly Arrow looking for a house and 2 babies, I have an empire to build

^^^^ u're my kind of woman

platinumnk:

single as in umarried? Im not worried about that, I'll accept a propsal one day
I run from propsals not to them  
Im not some silly Arrow looking for a house and 2 babies, I have an empire to build

nothing do u babe, keep building till perhaps when u r 45.

OBLONG:

^^^^ u're my kind of woman

Rooneyboy:

nothing do u babe, keep building till perhaps when u r 45.

LOL 45 . . age doesnt scare me, I actually have other priorities

platinumnk:

LOL 45 . . age doesnt scare me, I actually have other priorities

take your time jor
and make sure to get the right one
the number of lunatics out there is astounding
The number of men with loose nuts dey uncountable
I hope you're not a nurse ,Nigerian men in the USA have been known to use their wife's meat for peppersoup

0hsisi:

take your time jor
and make sure to get the right one
the number of lunatics out there is astounding
The number of men with loose nuts dey uncountable
I hope you're not a nurse ,Nigerian men in the USA have been known to use their wife's meat for peppersoup

why are u reading my mind?

na2day?:

why are u reading my mind?

These men all look like na2day.