michelin89:

See una don rubbish this thread. Na2day obviously you don't want women to know why they should never marry you.

michelin89:

See una don rubbish this thread. Na2day obviously you don't want women to know why they should never marry you.

mama-gee:

REASON: Na2Day is annoying and no woman wants that.

na2day?:




surprisingly u count urself a woman!  world don spoil finish 

na2day?:

marry me? if i can have them for free why marry? and if it is marriage, that is abt the easiest thing, there is always one nigerian girl looking for papers or i just go to church and some AA chic will pick me up in no time

michelin89:

Glad you know only desperados want you.

michelin89:

Glad you know only desperados want you.

na2day?:

and since u are one of them, how far?  

michelin89:

Omo, nor insult me ooo.

na2day?:

na insult me that? i dey [b]compliment [/b]your skillz, abi u want me to show u wetin insult be?

michelin89:

I send that curse back to you.

na2day?:

i dodge am

michelin89:

Omo see am for your right. . .*hits you on the left*

na2day?:

lie! that was my shadow 

michelin89:

Lie. . .your shadow has long abandoned you. It was tired of being under a heavy weight like you.

michelin89:

Lie. . .your shadow has long abandoned you. It was tired of being under a heavy weight like you.

na2day?:

really? while urs is too skinny to lift a leg?

michelin89:

I am not skinny!

topup:

What pisses me off though is that it's not the problem of the guys to stop lying, it's the woman's job to be sort of paranoid and on tip toes and of course smart (it's always good to be smart)

But it's like, you'll call a guy, and at this point you probably already have the vibe (if we're honest) that he's not that into you anymore, but when you're getting pissed, instead of him taking the initiative to end the relationship - he comes up with excuses. (And all your friends, male and female advise you not to be the stereotype psycho girlfriend who is like "Why won't you call me." and pester's her poor and genuinely busy man who could also be going through some emotional problems (a frequent excuse) - chasing him away from her).

I read somewhere  (written by a guy) that in all honesty, most men are cowards when it comes to being honest, the last thing they want is to tell you the truth because they know they'll appear like jerks, they might have to see you cry and they'll break your heart. They would much rather you break up with them, they push you to the limits because in all honesty - yes some girls don't get the clue - but at the same time they are being repeatedly lied to - any decent human being would naturally think that -"if he doesn't want to be with me - he'll leave".

Ignoring your phone calls, only to call back 2 days later saying "Sorry, I've just been so busy with work." is not the same as saying; "I've been tired of this relationship for a while and I want to end it." It's just not, I just hate it how the automatic response is to blame the person who actually believes the crap and not the bullsh*tter themself.

This isn't just limited to guys, girls do it too "Oh, babe yeah, I was thinking about you all that time I was apart from you. Of course I still. . . care."
Lol.

Anyways back to the points raised from this topic; guys should really man up and just be honest, don't start something you can't finish, don't coward out - distance yourself, forcing her to break up with you.

More girls break up with their boyfriends than boys who break up with their girlfriends, because guys are said to be less emotional and that they can just withdraw just like that without really thinking twice or caring sometimes.

Sad really.

I will close with the line: "Forget giving her hints, just man up and tell her you want out you big baby!!"

Yours,
Tp

luvbooks:


I think I read that book too. Was it " He's Just Not That Into You " . . . ?

Yeah!! Great book it really showed me an alternative point of view but confirmed most of my existing opinions. Good choice