by banging d hell outta her before ending the relationship shows how dumb u re, ewuu

Ogbeche. U are a Very Good bad boy! @ Bishos. Ogbeche is nt to blame cos he would hav ask d Ex school mate her number through 'inbox' but chose d 'wall' which means dat he didnt hav any 'Negative' agenda but d Girlfriend being d insecure type messed everything up. Girls and insecurity self! Smh

ogbeche77: My last relationship of 3 years ended today... Like 30 min ago to be precise
The full jist below
My ex schools outside Lagos, Often visit me when she's back from sch, just som/e weeks back I met an old classmate of mine on face book, I added her den asked for her number on her wall, she posted it there.. Like 10 min later, I got a text frm my gf dat am a Arrow I just added a gal then askin 4 her num.. I was dumbfounded... She kept sendin me insulting messages calling me a cheat.. I ignored them... 4 days later.. She called to apologized that she only did such out of jealousy, I accepted after much appeal frm her.. The rtp continued.. Thursday last week she called she ll be comin 2 lag 4 Easter break & we ll meet on Monday(today) @ my place
Out of curiosity I logged into her fb account and u guys ll be shocked to wat I saw... She has been hitting on a guy 4 like 3 weeks now...Going through D history of there conversation I was shocked...
For a guy she has not even met.. They ve both bin calling each other honey & using the 'love u' word... How she ll satisfy him on bed.. They chat almost 12 hrs in a day.. When d guy asked of her bf.. She said I was a cheat & Neva want 2 av anytin 2 do wit me again.. I was like WTF
For a lady that can even withstand me lookin @ anoda chick in her presence
I saved d whole page on my phone & mapped out my plan... She already sheduled a date with d guy on Easter Monday... So this morning she came visiting... I pretended as I no nothing... We eat... Drank....Ban.ged her as if there is no 2mrw... Then I told her I bought her a BB... Which she ll collect @ d bus stop but under one condition dat I ll collect her prev fone which I bought 4 her...
She accepted... I collected d fone.. Kept it @ home, then escorted her to d bus stop.. She was like where's d fone.. I told her 2 a plaza...Then opened d saved conversation on my fone.. (NB.. She deleted them dis morning b4 comin
g to my place)

She was shell shocked... Felt like entering d floor..

Omo c as d chick dey beg..Henn ag not met d guy now.. Told her silence will help her in dis situation... But me don make up my mind.. I told her she shuld go & experiment wit d guy.. Ladies don't appreciate wat they av until dey loose it... Make d guy buy am fone if he won follow her talk.. Abi wetin una feel? I was kind enough 2 give her T.Fare
Let bye gones be bye gones

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You did the best thing.
.i dont buy things like phone anymore for any girl oh!
Na only food

ogbeche77: My last relationship of 3 years ended today... Like 30 min ago to be precise
The full jist below
My ex schools outside Lagos, Often visit me when she's back from sch, just som/e weeks back I met an old classmate of mine on face book, I added her den asked for her number on her wall, she posted it there.. Like 10 min later, I got a text frm my gf dat am a Arrow I just added a gal then askin 4 her num.. I was dumbfounded... She kept sendin me insulting messages calling me a cheat.. I ignored them... 4 days later.. She called to apologized that she only did such out of jealousy, I accepted after much appeal frm her.. The rtp continued.. Thursday last week she called she ll be comin 2 lag 4 Easter break & we ll meet on Monday(today) @ my place
Out of curiosity I logged into her fb account and u guys ll be shocked to wat I saw... She has been hitting on a guy 4 like 3 weeks now...Going through D history of there conversation I was shocked...
For a guy she has not even met.. They ve both bin calling each other honey & using the 'love u' word... How she ll satisfy him on bed.. They chat almost 12 hrs in a day.. When d guy asked of her bf.. She said I was a cheat & Neva want 2 av anytin 2 do wit me again.. I was like WTF
For a lady that can even withstand me lookin @ anoda chick in her presence
I saved d whole page on my phone & mapped out my plan... She already sheduled a date with d guy on Easter Monday... So this morning she came visiting... I pretended as I no nothing... We eat... Drank....Ban.ged her as if there is no 2mrw... Then I told her I bought her a BB... Which she ll collect @ d bus stop but under one condition dat I ll collect her prev fone which I bought 4 her...
She accepted... I collected d fone.. Kept it @ home, then escorted her to d bus stop.. She was like where's d fone.. I told her 2 a plaza...Then opened d saved conversation on my fone.. (NB.. She deleted them dis morning b4 comin
g to my place)

She was shell shocked... Felt like entering d floor..

Omo c as d chick dey beg..Henn ag not met d guy now.. Told her silence will help her in dis situation... But me don make up my mind.. I told her she shuld go & experiment wit d guy.. Ladies don't appreciate wat they av until dey loose it... Make d guy buy am fone if he won follow her talk.. Abi wetin una feel? I was kind enough 2 give her T.Fare
Let bye gones be bye gones

8








You did the best thing.
.i dont buy things like phone anymore for any girl oh!
Na only food

kemiola89: by banging d hell outta her before ending the relationship shows how dumb u re, ewuu

Dumb? I feel gratified

ogbeche77: My last relationship of 3 years ended today... Like 30 min ago to be precise
The full jist below
My ex schools outside Lagos, Often visit me when she's back from sch, just some weeks back I met an old classmate of mine on face book, I added her den asked for her number on her wall, she posted it there.. Like 10 min later, I got a text frm my gf dat am a Arrow I just added a gal then askin 4 her num.. I was dumbfounded... She kept sendin me insulting messages calling me a cheat.. I ignored them... 4 days later.. She called to apologized that she only did such out of jealousy, I accepted after much appeal frm her.. The rtp continued.. Thursday last week she called she ll be comin 2 lag 4 Easter break & we ll meet on Monday(today) @ my place
Out of curiosity I logged into her fb account and u guys ll be shocked to wat I saw... She has been hitting on a guy 4 like 3 weeks now...Going through D history of there conversation I was shocked...
For a guy she has not even met.. They ve both bin calling each other honey & using the 'love u' word... How she ll satisfy him on bed.. They chat almost 12 hrs in a day.. When d guy asked of her bf.. She said I was a cheat & Neva want 2 av anytin 2 do wit me again.. I was like WTF
For a lady that can even withstand me lookin @ anoda chick in her presence
I saved d whole page on my phone & mapped out my plan... She already sheduled a date with d guy on Easter Monday... So this morning she came visiting... I pretended as I no nothing... We eat... Drank....Ban.ged her as if there is no 2mrw... Then I told her I bought her a BB... Which she ll collect @ d bus stop but under one condition dat I ll collect her prev fone which I bought 4 her...
She accepted... I collected d fone.. Kept it @ home, then escorted her to d bus stop.. She was like where's d fone.. I told her 2 a plaza...Then opened d saved conversation on my fone.. (NB.. She deleted them dis morning b4 coming to my place)
She was shell shocked... Felt like entering d floor..
Omo c as d chick dey beg..Henn ag not met d guy now.. Told her silence will help her in dis situation... But me don make up my mind.. I told her she shuld go & experiment wit d guy.. Ladies don't appreciate wat they av until dey loose it... Make d guy buy am fone if he won follow her talk.. Abi wetin una feel? I was kind enough 2 give her T.Fare
Let bye gones be bye gones

boy I pull cap for u infact u be like me keep it on nice one

pistol:

five year old thread ke..Is there scarcity of threads eh @ mods
which crypt una pick dis one thread from

LOL!

kemiola89: by banging d hell outta her before ending the relationship shows how dumb u re, ewuu

u are a foreign I d I o t wat do u expect he made a mistake he would have call his friend to come and help him

Mine ended I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ 2009 because her mum did nt like ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ cos i W̶̲̥̅̊α̩̩̩̩̥§ A̶̲̥̅ student bak then, & dem nor get money, as if Йą ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ cause A̶̲̥̅̊M̶̲̥̅! & she cheated on ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ severally but i forgave her until she got pregnant FƠ̴̴̴̴͡я̲̅ anoda guy & wit ∂α†, i called it A̶̲̥̅ wrap! Ever since, Av bn on rampage! Vandalisin! dualisin! Xcavatin! every every M̶̲̥̅̊y̶̲̥̅̊ ex inclusive, cos she arborted †ЂΞ shit & begged τ̅☺ Ƈϑ♍Ə back but i accepted wit A̶̲̥̅ motive! But i A̶̲̥̅̊M̶̲̥̅ beginnin τ̅☺ calm down now because jungle don D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥Ɣ mature.

kemiola89: by banging d hell outta her before ending the relationship shows how dumb u re, ewuu

u are a foreign I d I o t wat do u expect he made a mistake he would have call his friends to come and help him scatter the tin way dey make her head big

.NET:
After a year of knowing each other, mine ended just 3 weeks ago (12 March). These days, No calls, No SMS, just nothing. At this point, I took the hint: plus, she's started acting up. She was no longer interested. I xcheduled a date. She now says she's not interested. woo

.NET

But why do they always use the same format, are they stereo typed to act like that or they teach each other, they just stop calling, when u call them or send messages they don't respond, when they are broke they remember u, and then because u know what they mean, you just generally think of moving on and somewhere along the line they would lie that u were cheating on them, u lied to them when they told u tonnes of lies but u overlooked it and they just make a mockery of u. Mehn I serious understand Adams plight in the garden of eden

olajide_07:
But why do they always use the same format, are they stereo typed to act like that or they teach each other, they just stop calling, when u call them or send messages they don't respond, when they are broke they remember u, and then because u know what they mean, you just generally think of moving on and somewhere along the line they would lie that u were cheating on them, u lied to them when they told u tonnes of lies but u overlooked it and they just make a mockery of u. Mehn I serious understand Adams plight in the garden of eden

My brother, that's not really my concern now o. My focus now is to get another sexy, bootylicious chic as a Girlfriend.
If your girlfriend dumps you, the best you can do is to get another one. .

I no dey bother my head as to why they always take this path. My own is to get another (better) girl. Anyway, I'm still friendly with her (who knows? I might need her tomorrow) .


.NET

ogbeche77: My last relationship of 3 years ended today... Like 30 min ago to be precise
The full jist below
My ex schools outside Lagos, Often visit me when she's back from sch, just some weeks back I met an old classmate of mine on face book, I added her den asked for her number on her wall, she posted it there.. Like 10 min later, I got a text frm my gf dat am a Arrow I just added a gal then askin 4 her num.. I was dumbfounded... She kept sendin me insulting messages calling me a cheat.. I ignored them... 4 days later.. She called to apologized that she only did such out of jealousy, I accepted after much appeal frm her.. The rtp continued.. Thursday last week she called she ll be comin 2 lag 4 Easter break & we ll meet on Monday(today) @ my place
Out of curiosity I logged into her fb account and u guys ll be shocked to wat I saw... She has been hitting on a guy 4 like 3 weeks now...Going through D history of there conversation I was shocked...
For a guy she has not even met.. They ve both bin calling each other honey & using the 'love u' word... How she ll satisfy him on bed.. They chat almost 12 hrs in a day.. When d guy asked of her bf.. She said I was a cheat & Neva want 2 av anytin 2 do wit me again.. I was like WTF
For a lady that can even withstand me lookin @ anoda chick in her presence
I saved d whole page on my phone & mapped out my plan... She already sheduled a date with d guy on Easter Monday... So this morning she came visiting... I pretended as I no nothing... We eat... Drank....Ban.ged her as if there is no 2mrw... Then I told her I bought her a BB... Which she ll collect @ d bus stop but under one condition dat I ll collect her prev fone which I bought 4 her...
She accepted... I collected d fone.. Kept it @ home, then escorted her to d bus stop.. She was like where's d fone.. I told her 2 a plaza...Then opened d saved conversation on my fone.. (NB.. She deleted them dis morning b4 coming to my place)
She was shell shocked... Felt like entering d floor..
Omo c as d chick dey beg..Henn ag not met d guy now.. Told her silence will help her in dis situation... But me don make up my mind.. I told her she shuld go & experiment wit d guy.. Ladies don't appreciate wat they av until dey loose it... Make d guy buy am fone if he won follow her talk.. Abi wetin una feel? I was kind enough 2 give her T.Fare
Let bye gones be bye gones

Damn!

Anyway u try shall ahah...but things changed

the relationship i was in was built on a lie. my ex made me believe she was in school when she had been forced to withdraw form the sch. I didnt get to know until i graduated and once I found out - it was over

Mine was too clingy - always nagging when u don't call or sumfin; she didn't undastand what it meant to be busy @ work; even when u call from work, to end call na wahala. I cudnt cope. Twas sad tho cos I fink I let her parents down. We r still on talking terms sha.

Mine started xperiencing shipwreck this month that just ended and i fear the worst. I gat to knw this girl whn i came to serve in d north 2 yrs ago in our fellowship. I was immediately drawn to her cos she is very intelligent and academic consciousness. She used to visit one general hospital where she hope to observe how patients are treated by her uncle is a doctor there. Infact i got to knw this from her younger brother (abt 13) who liked me and became my frnd immediately. I recconed that he wil be my in4ation minister as it concerned his sister. I got d in4mation from him that her best subject is maths, that she hardly watches movies as she considers them a sheer waste of time and a dstraction. All these warmed my heart over her nd i began advances on her. She really reciprocated cos it appears we're frm d same state, get along wit her younger brother whch there parents seem to give a tacit nod to nd d fact that am a corper(academician frm her perspective) nd lest i 4get am an ardent worshiper. We indeed did not wanna go intimate as our scripturally traine conscience 4bids that couple wit d fact that i wantd to make her my wife nd nt just a gf. We began plottin on hw to help her acheive her dreams. I took her to write her jamb last yr after she made her waec in one sitting same yr, footing all d expenditure. Evn whn she wrote aptitude test in my state i gave her money witout minding wether her father has given her or not and arranged wit my younger bro. who made arrangment 4 her sleep-over nd all dat she took nt to talk of other risky undertaking my bro. went tru 4 her sake. Did i also tel u that i got her elder sis admision in one poly tru my connection? Unfortunately she didnt make d aptitude test and ws diverstated nd i consoled her even tho i was dsapointd too bt neva showed it. To cut d short story long, i spend so much money evryday callin her. Last month i called her nd we were chatting whn suddenly a call entered my oda fone and this happened to be sombody i'v been xpectin a call from. So imediately told her that i gat important call to answer and she objectd who culd be more imptant bt i cut it all d same and tried calling back after bt she wuldnt answer. The following day after service i approachd her if u see the kind embarasmnt this girl gave me, u'll never believed we'd ever had any thing in common. I ws infuriatd to say d least. Ever since i ignored her nd she had remaind dat way. Then i'v bn following comments guys makes abt the pictures she uploaded in facebk nd her own suggestive comment and am pissed. Infact her younger bro. just told me abt so many guys she either speaks/chat wit online rite nw. D boy also was pissed that one had d audacity to pay her a visit. D lad was jealous 4 me nd told her he'll tel me but she shut him up. She's flashd me ysterday bt i ignored her. This girl gat it all wit beauty to match, unfortunately she's flirtatious and that is makin reconsider my stance over her. Had alway suspectd that her flirting thing but doesnt want to admit it. But nw am afraid cos i cant deal wit it. Am too jealous a guy to live wit that.

begwong: Mods,this post is over 5 years old.Must you resurect it to the front page?

and i just registerd yestanyt.is front page to me sir

aomom: broken relationships "the cause" guyz version
i wonder wen a guy tells a gal i luv u, ur the best thing that has eva happen 2 me blah blah the l8ter it will be love gone sour.
culd it be that wot they say to each other along the line becomes monotonous?
the playa factor as in guyz?
golddiger factor as in gals?
or the issue of guyz asking for sex?
imagine my friend broke up with is gal because she called him a pest!
or the animalisitc attitude diplayed by guyz b y blazing the girlz?
cheating?
too many laws?
wot on earth is the matter cuz my self i cant fathom y!
nairalanders let treat this case very carefully. pls we want reasonable comments no abusive words!
strictly for Guyz!

Why do you care to know why? If your girl broke up with you, she is the only one in the right position to tell you why the love went sour. Moreover, Unless you are writing a Ph.D dissertation on why men's relationships go sour, I see no reason why you would like to know the reason for any guy's last break up with his girl. Peace, out!

I dated my Ex for 6years and in Feburary 4 2012 to be precise she ended our relationship cos of the religious difference. she is JEHOVAH'S witness and said marrying a non witness would not be easy, so she ended our 6 years relationship. however she has been proposing we stay friends, but that wont be easy for me so currently i cut off every form of communication with her pending when am strong enough to talk with no strings attached. so thats how the relationship ended.

kemiola89: by banging d hell outta her before ending the relationship shows how dumb u re, ewuu

wats ur own,dats an appropriate parting gift.Some grls are just weird and callous that any payback is justified

Ishsoph: Mine started xperiencing shipwreck this month that just ended and i fear the worst. I gat to knw this girl whn i came to serve in d north 2 yrs ago in our fellowship. I was immediately drawn to her cos she is very intelligent and academic consciousness. She used to visit one general hospital where she hope to observe how patients are treated by her uncle is a doctor there. Infact i got to knw this from her younger brother (abt 13) who liked me and became my frnd immediately. I recconed that he wil be my in4ation minister as it concerned his sister. I got d in4mation from him that her best subject is maths, that she hardly watches movies as she considers them a sheer waste of time and a dstraction. All these warmed my heart over her nd i began advances on her. She really reciprocated cos it appears we're frm d same state, get along wit her younger brother whch there parents seem to give a tacit nod to nd d fact that am a corper(academician frm her perspective) nd lest i 4get am an ardent worshiper. We indeed did not wanna go intimate as our scripturally traine conscience 4bids that couple wit d fact that i wantd to make her my wife nd nt just a gf. We began plottin on hw to help her acheive her dreams. I took her to write her jamb last yr after she made her waec in one sitting same yr, footing all d expenditure. Evn whn she wrote aptitude test in my state i gave her money witout minding wether her father has given her or not and arranged wit my younger bro. who made arrangment 4 her sleep-over nd all dat she took nt to talk of other risky undertaking my bro. went tru 4 her sake. Did i also tel u that i got her elder sis admision in one poly tru my connection? Unfortunately she didnt make d aptitude test and ws diverstated nd i consoled her even tho i was dsapointd too bt neva showed it. To cut d short story long, i spend so much money evryday callin her. Last month i called her nd we were chatting whn suddenly a call entered my oda fone and this happened to be sombody i'v been xpectin a call from. So imediately told her that i gat important call to answer and she objectd who culd be more imptant bt i cut it all d same and tried calling back after bt she wuldnt answer. The following day after service i approachd her if u see the kind embarasmnt this girl gave me, u'll never believed we'd ever had any thing in common. I ws infuriatd to say d least. Ever since i ignored her nd she had remaind dat way. Then i'v bn following comments guys makes abt the pictures she uploaded in facebk nd her own suggestive comment and am pissed. Infact her younger bro. just told me abt so many guys she either speaks/chat wit online rite nw. D boy also was pissed that one had d audacity to pay her a visit. D lad was jealous 4 me nd told her he'll tel me but she shut him up. She's flashd me ysterday bt i ignored her. This girl gat it all wit beauty to match, unfortunately she's flirtatious and that is makin reconsider my stance over her. Had alway suspectd that her flirting thing but doesnt want to admit it. But nw am afraid cos i cant deal wit it. Am too jealous a guy to live wit that.

women are sometimes like that.But thats not a valid reason to end d relationship.U sound like an immature, selfish n insecure guy.Make she no chat online cos u paid her waec fees...Damn

Hmmmmm what more can I say...
Mine is still going strong. Infact I have put it through all kinda stress test I know and she keeps passing them.
Best gal I ever knew.
I hope I don't have to eat my words in future though.
But to all those whose relationship have ended for one reason or the other, its a learning experience, so move on and love again.

Ishsoph: Mine started xperiencing shipwreck this month that just ended and i fear the worst. I gat to knw this girl whn i came to serve in d north 2 yrs ago in our fellowship. I was immediately drawn to her cos she is very intelligent and academic consciousness. She used to visit one general hospital where she hope to observe how patients are treated by her uncle is a doctor there. Infact i got to knw this from her younger brother (abt 13) who liked me and became my frnd immediately. I recconed that he wil be my in4ation minister as it concerned his sister. I got d in4mation from him that her best subject is maths, that she hardly watches movies as she considers them a sheer waste of time and a dstraction. All these warmed my heart over her nd i began advances on her. She really reciprocated cos it appears we're frm d same state, get along wit her younger brother whch there parents seem to give a tacit nod to nd d fact that am a corper(academician frm her perspective) nd lest i 4get am an ardent worshiper. We indeed did not wanna go intimate as our scripturally traine conscience 4bids that couple wit d fact that i wantd to make her my wife nd nt just a gf. We began plottin on hw to help her acheive her dreams. I took her to write her jamb last yr after she made her waec in one sitting same yr, footing all d expenditure. Evn whn she wrote aptitude test in my state i gave her money witout minding wether her father has given her or not and arranged wit my younger bro. who made arrangment 4 her sleep-over nd all dat she took nt to talk of other risky undertaking my bro. went tru 4 her sake. Did i also tel u that i got her elder sis admision in one poly tru my connection? Unfortunately she didnt make d aptitude test and ws diverstated nd i consoled her even tho i was dsapointd too bt neva showed it. To cut d short story long, i spend so much money evryday callin her. Last month i called her nd we were chatting whn suddenly a call entered my oda fone and this happened to be sombody i'v been xpectin a call from. So imediately told her that i gat important call to answer and she objectd who culd be more imptant bt i cut it all d same and tried calling back after bt she wuldnt answer. The following day after service i approachd her if u see the kind embarasmnt this girl gave me, u'll never believed we'd ever had any thing in common. I ws infuriatd to say d least. Ever since i ignored her nd she had remaind dat way. Then i'v bn following comments guys makes abt the pictures she uploaded in facebk nd her own suggestive comment and am pissed. Infact her younger bro. just told me abt so many guys she either speaks/chat wit online rite nw. D boy also was pissed that one had d audacity to pay her a visit. D lad was jealous 4 me nd told her he'll tel me but she shut him up. She's flashd me ysterday bt i ignored her. This girl gat it all wit beauty to match, unfortunately she's flirtatious and that is makin reconsider my stance over her. Had alway suspectd that her flirting thing but doesnt want to admit it. But nw am afraid cos i cant deal wit it. Am too jealous a guy to live wit that.

I think you got a good thing going so don't allow it all go up in smoke. What she needs from you now is a reassurance that she is everything to you. Reassure her and then have a talk with her on the way forward.

ogbeche77: My last relationship of 3 years ended today... Like 30 min ago to be precise
The full jist below
My ex schools outside Lagos, Often visit me when she's back from sch, just some weeks back I met an old classmate of mine on face book, I added her den asked for her number on her wall, she posted it there.. Like 10 min later, I got a text frm my gf dat am a Arrow I just added a gal then askin 4 her num.. I was dumbfounded... She kept sendin me insulting messages calling me a cheat.. I ignored them... 4 days later.. She called to apologized that she only did such out of jealousy, I accepted after much appeal frm her.. The rtp continued.. Thursday last week she called she ll be comin 2 lag 4 Easter break & we ll meet on Monday(today) @ my place
Out of curiosity I logged into her fb account and u guys ll be shocked to wat I saw... She has been hitting on a guy 4 like 3 weeks now...Going through D history of there conversation I was shocked...
For a guy she has not even met.. They ve both bin calling each other honey & using the 'love u' word... How she ll satisfy him on bed.. They chat almost 12 hrs in a day.. When d guy asked of her bf.. She said I was a cheat & Neva want 2 av anytin 2 do wit me again.. I was like WTF
For a lady that can even withstand me lookin @ anoda chick in her presence
I saved d whole page on my phone & mapped out my plan... She already sheduled a date with d guy on Easter Monday... So this morning she came visiting... I pretended as I no nothing... We eat... Drank....Ban.ged her as if there is no 2mrw... Then I told her I bought her a BB... Which she ll collect @ d bus stop but under one condition dat I ll collect her prev fone which I bought 4 her...
She accepted... I collected d fone.. Kept it @ home, then escorted her to d bus stop.. She was like where's d fone.. I told her 2 a plaza...Then opened d saved conversation on my fone.. (NB.. She deleted them dis morning b4 coming to my place)
She was shell shocked... Felt like entering d floor..
Omo c as d chick dey beg..Henn ag not met d guy now.. Told her silence will help her in dis situation... But me don make up my mind.. I told her she shuld go & experiment wit d guy.. Ladies don't appreciate wat they av until dey loose it... Make d guy buy am fone if he won follow her talk.. Abi wetin una feel? I was kind enough 2 give her T.Fare
Let bye gones be bye gones

Its things like this dat actually makes me sick and tired of Naija babes.. They are never satisfied.. I had dis babe dat i truly loved, even though it was a long distance shit, we were soo conected. Den i lots my Job after a while and couldn't even afford to communicate propely cuz i was too broke to be making international calls den.. To be fair to her she began doing all d callings... Infact almost everyday 4 about 3months.. Den after a while i realised dat her attention towards me reduced.. I decided to log into her FB, and discovered dat she had be flirting with a particula guy. I questioned her and we had a fyt.. After d fyt i 4got bout all, but d chemistry 4rm her side kept reducing n reducing... Until d relationship had a natural death
... I thank God now am back to my feet, and all is going on fine.. My key story is dat Naija babes can't persevere: They r only concerned bout d present. The moment u r outta stock, u r auto outta fashion..

@ ogbeche77,Ur OT complete walahi

A relationship needs balance and balance in this case is NOT 50-50 it is 60-40 someone has to take the smaller number which depends on hw strong they love each other....I believe this is also called sacrifice

M.O.M:
@ ogbeche77,Ur OT complete walahi

Wetin be OT?

Every breakup always forcast itself, mine was over money.
Waz dating dis lady 4 ova a year when i decided 2 buy a car, now my ex den came from a well-to-do family and she sorta supported d idea afta all na she go dey front seat. Had saved some cash for the car, but put it in my friends acct while i researched 4 a gud ride.
Around dat time,me ex wan go UK 4 masters n i believed dat her family could handle d project. Anywaz afta abt 2 mnths saw a ride dat i tot waz kool enuf 2 splash d cash on and arrangements made 4 pmnt n settlement on a fri. Got a cal from my ex on dat same fri afta i made an electronic transfer for the car, sayin her family wants me 2 add my cash 2 d project just 2 inflate her act n dat i would get me money bak. Explained 2 her dat i had made pmnts 4 d ride n dats wen trouble started. Said she didn't believe i culd place a car ahead of her masters. Anywazs she stil got d VISA without me.
To cut d long story short, from dat point on we kept fighting ova money n oda issues, but i kept tryin 2 save d rship cos i guess "i was in luv".
Afta masters, she came bak n her family aranged a job 4 her n d pay waz quite ok, den she asked me how much i was earning n for some funny reason dat i don't know, i lied n told her i got about 100k monthly, when in reality i earned far more dan her. She den told me i couldn't support her finacially as she has big dreams 4 herself,wanted 2 travel d world n live "THE GOOD LIFE" n my peanuts were 2 small 2 achieve such 4 her.
Less dan 2 weeks later, she cald dat we shud just b friends as she waz already dating some1 else.
I just hope d guy haz deep pockets.

@ogbeche, u be beta jew man

Generally, ladies dnt luv guys dat luv them
But for both partiest we need to undastand this 5 Love Facts
1-If it's because of her eyes or her lips
or her great body.
-It's not love, it's a LUST
2-If it's because of her intelligence or
insight about life.
-it's not love, it's and admiration
3-If it's because she cries everytime u
try to leave.
-it's not love, it's PITY.
4-If it's because she makes u forget 2
study and sleep.
-it's not love, it's infatuation.
5-Love - is when you don't know why
you seem to be attracted to dat person..
(Love has its reason, and that reason is
unknown!),
And Make Sure That In Search Of A Perfect
Person
You Don't Loose A True One,
Because
Perfection Is Fantasy
&
Truth Is Reality

@ Ogbeche 77, your girl or ex is immature!.

Many girls are incapable of analysing their emotions or feelings.

The "thrill" of a new toaster who is two weeks old, has made some girls single handedly ruin a [b]two years old [/b]relationship. She was simply lost in the thrill, i pity her

You might re access her qualities again to see if you can still keep her, although i think she is not only immature, she is also foolish, thinking of banging a new toaster and scheduling a date makes me think she is very foolish.

You might not want to keep an immature and foolish girlfriend. Do you?