Okija_juju: Simple. . .

Most girls are confused as to what they really want.

I am a good guy by many standards, never cheated or double dated at anytime in my entire life. I know what I want and I stick with what I've got.

I dated a girl who was 23 at the time but had experience that would make a 40year old married womans jaw drop. Kudos to the girl in question for telling me about her past and all (i guess she wanted me to hear it from her before I heard it outside).
I pushed on dating her. Infact, the fact she told me herself even endeared me more towards her and gave me a new perspective on the respect I had for her. I tought she was mature. I thought wrong cos that was the best thing I remember about her.

She was juvenile in everything she did. Wanted the best things of life but didnt want to work for it. That was the begining of the end for us. I saw no drive. Infact, I almost started being like her. All she was interested in was being on the social circle. She knew where and who sold the latest designer outfits and assesories but never had the money to buy these things. She was a professional begger. Like One day she has 20,000 credit on her phone and is like my friend that works at XXXX just bought it for me when I went visiting. Tomorrow, she comes home with new sets of Bags and shoes and says I picked them from a friend who just returned from wherever on credit. . . At some point, her culmulative debt was up to 400,000 in total. And what I realized was that because she had so many desiner things, she needed to attend social events to flaunt them in. I mean, she attends any and any thing. Birthdays, weddings, child dedications, Bar mitvah. In all the period we dated (almost 1 year), I cant ever remember one solid progressive advice she ever gave me. I dont remember her ever talking about improving herself (just graduated and not served). All she wanted was fast money, fast cars. I on the other hand just couldnt. Im not against partying as I do party on occasions myself, neither against wearing designer labels as I have a shitload of genuine (not knock-offs) labels, but the difference is I can afford my shi't. I pay for my stuff. No credit, I have a 9 - 5 job but still do other side businesses to augument my income, I am not lazy and dont borrow unless extremely necessary.

I really loved her and was considering a relationship with her, but I just couldnt imagine her being the mother of my kids and keeper of my home. .

Okija_juju: Simple. . .

Most girls are confused as to what they really want.

I am a good guy by many standards, never cheated or double dated at anytime in my entire life. I know what I want and I stick with what I've got.

I dated a girl who was 23 at the time but had experience that would make a 40year old married womans jaw drop. Kudos to the girl in question for telling me about her past and all (i guess she wanted me to hear it from her before I heard it outside).
I pushed on dating her. Infact, the fact she told me herself even endeared me more towards her and gave me a new perspective on the respect I had for her. I tought she was mature. I thought wrong cos that was the best thing I remember about her.

She was juvenile in everything she did. Wanted the best things of life but didnt want to work for it. That was the begining of the end for us. I saw no drive. Infact, I almost started being like her. All she was interested in was being on the social circle. She knew where and who sold the latest designer outfits and assesories but never had the money to buy these things. She was a professional begger. Like One day she has 20,000 credit on her phone and is like my friend that works at XXXX just bought it for me when I went visiting. Tomorrow, she comes home with new sets of Bags and shoes and says I picked them from a friend who just returned from wherever on credit. . . At some point, her culmulative debt was up to 400,000 in total. And what I realized was that because she had so many desiner things, she needed to attend social events to flaunt them in. I mean, she attends any and any thing. Birthdays, weddings, child dedications, Bar mitvah. In all the period we dated (almost 1 year), I cant ever remember one solid progressive advice she ever gave me. I dont remember her ever talking about improving herself (just graduated and not served). All she wanted was fast money, fast cars. I on the other hand just couldnt. Im not against partying as I do party on occasions myself, neither against wearing designer labels as I have a shitload of genuine (not knock-offs) labels, but the difference is I can afford my shi't. I pay for my stuff. No credit, I have a 9 - 5 job but still do other side businesses to augument my income, I am not lazy and dont borrow unless extremely necessary.

I really loved her and was considering a relationship with her, but I just couldnt imagine her being the mother of my kids and keeper of my home. .

Bisjosh:


How funny men cld be. U saw ur female classmate on fb and u collected her number(for what?). Ur msgs showed on ur wall knowing fully well dat ur gf wld see it(lack of respect). Then when ur gf said she wld b coming over, u opened her fb (for what?)to find out if she was also cheating on u?(insecurity). I believe she wanted to cheat on u too for cheating or wanting to cheat on her(WRONG!!!). Its better u guys end it cos both of u dnt know what u want. BUT STOP BLAMING ONLY D GIRL COS BOTH OF U ARE TO BE BLAMED!!!!!

U couldn't hav said it any better