agabaI23:

May be but I know u like pensioners

BlueDiva:

Thought as much.
It ain't hard to know a devil lover.

You got it wrong there. I hate the devil. Gunners 1888

BlueDiva:

oh, I see.
I pray you break your trophylessness this season.

helvetic:

Fellow Nairalanders,
i am surprised about how some people react to issues here.
I must say this to you: I met my wife when i was in the youth service and she was already working then. We fell in love with each other and we discovered that were compartible. She saw me as a goal getter and believed so much in me as much as i believed in her. We wedded four months after my youth service. She paid our wedding. Three months later i got my dream job with a mouthwatery pay. Today, we are blessed with two wonderful kids and we are in a very comfortable finiancial situation.Both of us work 100% in leading positions in our distinctive firms.
What can you say about this??
Was it a mistake that we married??

Yes it was a mistake

Your case is one hell of a difference!

It is unafrican for a man to be thinking of marriage when he aint got no job/means of livelihood

It's ok if you are comfortable to be an 'invited guest' to come and chop without contributing anything to your own wedding (while your wife picks all the bills)!

A jobless man's main pre-occupation is how to get a job not how to marry a wife

Iranoladun:



Yes it was a mistake

Your case is one hell of a difference!

It is unafrican for a man to be thinking of marriage when he aint got no job/means of livelihood

It's ok if you are comfortable to be an 'invited guest' to come and chop without contributing anything to your own wedding (while your wife picks all the bills)!

A jobless man's main pre-occupation is how to get a job not how to marry a wife

It is unafrican for a man to be thinking of marriage when he aint got no job/means of livelihood

Iranoladun:

@Oyb The topic is not on polygamy or African institution, so don't derail the thread

tilewill:

With the way our ladies handle it, all seems MONEY. do we ever ponder of the spiritual aspect of it? we tend to forget things could start working when the 2 party are together "2 heads are better than one the bibles says; it depends on the kind of man anyway. With what has happened to me, l got to europe as nobody few years ago, miraculously, l got my permit of stay within 5 months that l came in, not through anybody but only me and God at the european commision, with tough 3hrs of interview. 4 months after, l met this beautiful and very intelligent young lady at my frd's church, a nigerian with european nationality. though l was intimidated at first due to her attributes and standard.  in short, with my no work and black, dull african face, this lady began with me on how to drive, later engaged me with the small auto business she's runing without profit. along the line, we started going from offices to offices together as a perfect young executives, looking for ways to create our own business which we eventualy suceeded in doing. all tru that time, no cent of euro in her acount, the same way l have no kobo, talkless of cent of euro.  we acted as if she's the head while l appeared as the vice to the company owners we see for business reasons.Oh, she just doesnt see things the way most of our girls see things cos, highly big white and black company owners were wiling to engage her in a proper marriage, especialy when they see the level of her intelligence, but she only believed in  the approval of God on a relationship, hoping that every other things shall be added to her and the seem poor husband.Ladies, the situation of out of job you see today with that young man will change. though it depends. then, together, apply strong faith with enough strategies to fight poverty, not always ready made!!!good luck!

justwise:

Hmmmm. . .please how do you managed to get work permit in europ within 5months? I'm struggling to believe that story

Sagamite:

Jesus na!

And his holy power congression came and did a miracle.

helvetic:

Fellow Nairalanders,
i am surprised about how some people react to issues here.
I must say this to you: I met my wife when i was in the youth service and she was already working then. We fell in love with each other and we discovered that were compartible. She saw me as a goal getter and believed so much in me as much as i believed in her. We wedded four months after my youth service. She paid our wedding. Three months later i got my dream job with a mouthwatery pay. Today, we are blessed with two wonderful kids and we are in a very comfortable finiancial situation.Both of us work 100% in leading positions in our distinctive firms.
What can you say about this??
Was it a mistake that we married??

Emma Sun:

For me Heaven helps those who help themselves,
Get a job first so that you can take care of you wife before another man will take her away from you. All jobless men here "receive your employment now!!!"

Emma Sun:

For me Heaven helps those who help themselves,
Get a job first so that you can take care of you wife before another man will take her away from you. All jobless men here "receive your employment now!!!"

Ikedonn:

I am a guy living abroad,this thread is really interesting so i got to contribute to it.I think i can't marry a nigeria lady because they are all after your pocket unlike the white ladies here.I personally disagree with the ladies here that a jobless man can't get a wife.