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Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by pressplay411(m): 8:08pm On Oct 15, 2017
Stud12:
I haven't masturbated for a week now, and I tried having sex with my gf again last night, still now orgasm. This is really frustrating

I'm no expert so I'll suggest you see a doctor about it.
It's probably a psychosexual counselling you need. Have you tried orgasming thru porn?
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by gGGODDd(m): 8:38pm On Oct 15, 2017
lawalosky:

HI I use to mustabate most every evenn to bfr I sleep,
4uck I gotta do mehn?
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by Nanjerian: 9:36pm On Oct 15, 2017
Truepays:


Very true ...my ex has same probs I left him
Stupid gal,u are proud to say u left a guy because of ur hole

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Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by lawalosky(m): 9:50pm On Oct 15, 2017
gGGODDd:
4uck I gotta do mehn?
am always arosed wen am wth my girlfriend and female friends, problem of mustabation is over addiction if u ask me, but it is the best option if you truely wona stay safe
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by vanvick247(m): 10:15pm On Oct 15, 2017
Ogechux:
I wish I could talk to you privately. Mastubarting had nothing to do with your experience; fact is that your body lacks a very vital mineral going by all the symptoms you stated in your post. It's affordable and can be bought from any registered pharmacy.

Plz do u mind sharing the vital mineral so we can all benefit.
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by excel101(m): 10:27pm On Oct 15, 2017
ArcGibson:
All these small small kids sha... Must you have sex at that your age. Only God knows where the world is heading to.
You are very correct, probably you were coming from the generation that wrote lots of love letters (indirect contact) to their proposed Girlfriends. If you feel that your contemporaries were much more holier than others, then u're wrong. How long did it took Isaac to marry Rebecca? In Isaac's case, he's Father Abraham was directly involved even without the knowledge or consciousness of Isaac.
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by Stud12: 10:27pm On Oct 15, 2017
pressplay411:


I'm no expert so I'll suggest you see a doctor about it.
It's probably a psychosexual counselling you need. Have you tried orgasming thru porn?
Yeah. I can orgasm with or without porn, as long as I do it myself
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by objobj: 10:53pm On Oct 15, 2017
Stud12:
I masturbate a lot too. But I'm really trying to change. My only symptom here is the fact that I can't orgasm from sex. No matter how long I go, or how good d sex is, I just won't orgasm. Pls anyone with a solution here or who has gone through this should help me.

Thank your star then. Continuous blasting. U no like am?
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by Notatribalist(m): 11:33pm On Oct 15, 2017
NIGHTMAREOO7:



Alright lucky u... but most times its hiv evn tho som other sickness hv same symptoms.
But hope u waited for atleast 3months before ur confirmation lab.

U can get good result from 2weeks. But perfect result from 3months minimum.
And VERY perfect result from 4months.
Conunting from day of suspected infection.
what are u trying to say?that I might be HIV positive?
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by NIGHTMAREOO7: 2:23am On Oct 16, 2017
Notatribalist:
what are u trying to say?that I might be HIV positive?

I didnt sy that read my post again.
I only asked if u confirmed properly.
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by DateMynd44(m): 3:24am On Oct 16, 2017
gGGODDd:
op all d effects of masturbation u listed are blatantly wrong n opposite. masturbation enhances sexual abilities such as naturally enlarging ur dikk size, making u last longer during sex, making u able to go extra rounds after many rounds. see this guy? do u know hw many guys masturbation has helped their ministries? its only disadvantage is d addiction. I use to have small dikk but masturbation changed it to a monster. i now fhuck 4 more than an hour, girls rarely allow me go even after fuckingg dem 3 rnds. altho I stopped masturbation long ago but it has really helped me. what happened to u was nt effect of masturbation, No. u have been saved from damage. that girl has a very bad spirit n ur spirit is stronger or perhaps ur ancestors protected u. it happens to so many guys. its d girl, ur spirit is stronger than hers. ur lucky. masturbation did not cus it. A true masturbator's dikk gets hard on any slightest provocation. all u wrote are opposites of d effects of masturbation.
i also have the same issue with the O.P. But someoe told me it's not erectyle disfunction nor masturbation but rather my diick failed to rise due to the fact that the gal is a water spirit.
How true?
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by DateMynd44(m): 3:28am On Oct 16, 2017
Stud12:
Yeah. I can orgasm with or without porn, as long as I do it myself
i am a chronic masturbator with xvideos and porn but when i engage in physical sex i cant orgasm even for hours. While still on sex I had to use my mind to think of those porn stars so as to ejaculate. Very frustrating experience.
Maybe it's because i have masturbated for 10 years and disvirgined myself thru masturbation, also the gal's vjay is not as tight and hard like the hand.
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by DateMynd44(m): 3:33am On Oct 16, 2017
TerrorSquad147:
bros my own is that I took 250mg and my di.ck refused to stand up, even after much sulking and stroking from the girl, I was so disappointed. We laid naked all night still e no gree stand, I had to be suc.king pu.ssy so the girl can be cumming...
mehn see wetin people dey pass thru all in the name of sex. Chai
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by DateMynd44(m): 3:44am On Oct 16, 2017
frankdGreat125:
Bros, good u know that masturbation is bad, if care is not taking and ur pencil (penis) is no more writing that means it will lead u to same sex engagement, since u r not penetrating a woman, then men will start penetrating you,
By then you will know the damages u have cursed to urself.
Ask God for forgiveness and turn from ur evil ways , ur jon thomas will rise again, the bible said, dry born shall rise again Ezikel: 34 vs 17
hahahaha amor u no well at all. Lmao

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Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by DateMynd44(m): 3:49am On Oct 16, 2017
YelloweWest:
God pls help us let go of the things that don't give You Glory.

Masturbation is a real killer.

Lord have mercy upon us.

Jesus help us
started masturbating at the age of 17 while i was a sophomore in the university. My destiny was dampened, i dropped out due to a poor cgpa, suffered, my handsome face became sickening and ugly, loss my weight and my fat cheeks became sullen. I'm 27 now and masturbated for 10 years and my career is nothing to write home about and the addict for masturbation and porn is still strong.
Masturbation is a destiny killer. But there is a way out

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Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by pressplay411(m): 5:38am On Oct 16, 2017
[quote author=Stud12 post=61457732] Yeah. I can orgasm with or without porn, as long as I do it myself[/quote

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2011/oct/20/cant-ejaculate-during-sex
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by pressplay411(m): 5:39am On Oct 16, 2017
Stud12:
Yeah. I can orgasm with or without porn, as long as I do it myself

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2011/oct/20/cant-ejaculate-during-sex
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by Stud12: 6:05am On Oct 16, 2017
DateMynd44:
i am a chronic masturbator with xvideos and porn but when i engage in physical sex i cant orgasm even for hours. While still on sex I had to use my mind to think of those porn stars so as to ejaculate. Very frustrating experience.
Maybe it's because i have masturbated for 10 years and disvirgined myself thru masturbation, also the gal's vjay is not as tight and hard like the hand.
Mehn.. I haven't tried that thinking of pornstars ishh. I don't even know how I feel about it
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by TerrorSquad147: 7:30am On Oct 16, 2017
KevinDein:


Tramadol is very addictive and can ruin life. Taking it for the sake of improving ones sexual life isn't worth it. You are better off with life style modification such as diet and exercise. Take this as an advice from someone who really cares.
true that tramol is addictive, before I tried to stop it it was hell but I'm happy I don't even think of it again.
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by YelloweWest: 7:53am On Oct 16, 2017
DateMynd44:
started masturbating at the age of 17 while i was a sophomore in the university. My destiny was dampened, i dropped out due to a poor cgpa, suffered, my handsome face became sickening and ugly, loss my weight and my fat cheeks became sullen. I'm 27 now and masturbated for 10 years and my career is nothing to write home about and the addict for masturbation and porn is still strong.
Masturbation is a destiny killer. But there is a way out
Wow... it's just God that has been helping me. Porn is also a huge problem for me too.

I was exposed to sex too early. My uncle started sexually molesting me when I was 11.
I guess that's when I grew curious about sex and started watching porn.
I'm 29. Married with kids and a Christian but I fall into temptation easily..

I just pray each time that God should never leave me. I will always return to Him quickly and ask for forgiveness.

I always pray my kids never come close to anything addictive. It's just horrible.
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by DateMynd44(m): 7:56am On Oct 16, 2017
YelloweWest:

Wow... it's just God that has been helping me. Porn is also a huge problem for me too.

I was exposed to sex too early. My uncle started sexually molesting me when I was 11.
I guess that's when I grew curious about sex and started watching porn.
I'm 29. Married with kids and a Christian but I fall into temptation easily..

I just pray each time that God should never leave me. I will always return to Him quickly and ask for forgiveness.

I always pray my kids never come close to anything addictive. It's just horrible.
ur uncle was gay?
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by YelloweWest: 7:58am On Oct 16, 2017
DateMynd44:
ur uncle was gay?
I'm a girl...
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by ObaKlaz: 8:06am On Oct 16, 2017
NiRfreak:


This guy asked this dumb question and to think over 100guys liked it supporting him.. hmm. the number of masturbators on here is really damn high!!!
I've been pretty occupied to react to this mention, but I made a mental note to react whenever I had time on my hands.

Now, if you were well-informed, you'd know that the subject regarding health issues related with masturbation have been largely controversial over the decades, and still is being debated (medically) in this day and age.

That I asked the op that question don't mean I masturbate, or that the question is dumb.

Maybe the number of Likes it got pissed you off, but then maybe those who Liked it know better than you do.

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Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by DateMynd44(m): 9:19am On Oct 16, 2017
YelloweWest:

I'm a girl...
oh. Well hope u have been freed from the addiction cos ever since i was free, God started restoring all what i lost to the devil

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Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by BrainnewsNg(f): 9:54am On Oct 16, 2017
OP, thanks for this nice piece.

I will like to get your contact or you can have mine.

There's an online WhatsApp conference my group will hold and one of our topic will be how to overcome masturbation.

I need you to be the speaker on that conference .


My contact is 08063668067
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by YelloweWest: 10:29am On Oct 16, 2017
DateMynd44:
oh. Well hope u have been freed from the addiction cos ever since i was free, God started restoring all what i lost to the devil
I'm a work in progress. Victory is mine by His grace.
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by DateMynd44(m): 11:04am On Oct 16, 2017
YelloweWest:

I'm a work in progress. Victory is mine by His grace.
this is how i got directed by the Holy Spirit of God to be freed from it and truly i was freed from it's power, effects and guilt.

Prayers and Fastings - (Matthew 17 vs 21) this kind cannot go out except by prayers and fasting.
The Word Of God .
Matthew 1 vs 21
- and she shall give birth to a Son and shall call His name JESUS for He shall save His people from their sins.
John 8 VS 34 & 36 - Whosoever commits sin is a servant of sin. Therefore if the Son shall set you free. You shall be freed indeed.
Just those verses and i rebuked the spirit and it went away
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by YelloweWest: 1:04pm On Oct 16, 2017
DateMynd44:
this is how i got directed by the Holy Spirit of God to be freed from it and truly i was freed from it's power, effects and guilt.

Prayers and Fastings - (Matthew 17 vs 21) this kind cannot go out except by prayers and fasting.
The Word Of God .
Matthew 1 vs 21
- and she shall give birth to a Son and shall call His name JESUS for He shall save His people from their sins.
John 8 VS 34 & 36 - Whosoever commits sin is a servant of sin. Therefore if the Son shall set you free. You shall be freed indeed.
Just those verses and i rebuked the spirit and it went away
Words can't express how grateful I am. Thanks you so much for this. God bless you.

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Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by gGGODDd(m): 1:51pm On Oct 16, 2017
DateMynd44:
i also have the same issue with the O.P. But someoe told me it's not erectyle disfunction nor masturbation but rather my diick failed to rise due to the fact that the gal is a water spirit.
How true?
very true.
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by DateMynd44(m): 1:56pm On Oct 16, 2017
gGGODDd:
very true.
i later used vega drugs to get myself in. Though i've repented now though
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by computerglobal(m): 5:01pm On Oct 16, 2017
sorextee:
The earlier u stop, the better. On the flip side, why u no use BURANTASHI before action? Since u already knew about all the effects u wrote up there before hand..

U can also use tramol. But i must advice not to swallow d whole pill. Just half is enough..

Badt guy
Re: Learn From Me, Masturbation Ruins Life by computerglobal(m): 5:06pm On Oct 16, 2017
Adaumunocha:
Start drinking watermelon juice with a dash of lemon juice when u can.... Thank me later.

Take her advice

Bae Take this

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