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Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by moscobabs(m): 9:59am On Nov 23, 2017 |
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Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by freeman95(m): 9:59am On Nov 23, 2017 |
Love her and continue the marriage haha Rubbish question |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by WhoBeThisMan: 10:00am On Nov 23, 2017 |
Anything you do for that boy, do it from your heart because you love him. But don't think he will ever be your son. As sad as it sounds, the mother is right. She can't just rename another man's child after you.. Is that even legal? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Damfostopper(m): 10:00am On Nov 23, 2017 |
I hope in the coming years... DNA test will be cheaper 4 Likes
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Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by lumzybo: 10:01am On Nov 23, 2017 |
ray121: Why worry ursef? Here is the answer you seek. The Nigeria of today, who you knw matters. The name myt help the boy in future. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by devigblegble: 10:01am On Nov 23, 2017 |
Nothing to stress about bro , you are the step dad and don’t worry about the name used to register the kid, just play your role.. good luck 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Threebear(m): 10:02am On Nov 23, 2017 |
ray121:Please tell me it's not evaritus sons. That dog never stays at a place . |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by SalamRushdie: 10:02am On Nov 23, 2017 |
itiswellandwell: You have played into the survival games of a single mother ..Single mothers will di anything unders the son to get a father figure and rood for their love child and they usually zoom into a kind unassuming man like you....enjoy 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by orjikuramo(m): 10:02am On Nov 23, 2017 |
I know I should not have asked, if the boy is 2 n he is just starting school n u both have a daughter as well, then m lost, how long did u court, how much did u know of her b4 getting into the marriage or did u also clamp her because of her affluence, influence, connection or wealth cos logically it takes 9months to carry n bore a child - son is getting to 2 and u both already have a daughter as well...really hard for me to understand the story but I think u should listen to the guy who said u should hold a family meeting n make them understand that u can't continue to shoulder a responsibility that another man will just come n do like he is wearing "Ebukas agbada". My 2 pence 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Koolking(m): 10:03am On Nov 23, 2017 |
ray121: Of course, you are not the father of the boy and there is no way your wife would name the boy after you. The legitimate father and blood line of the boy's family can not be severed unless otherwise. You do nothing bro but continue showing love to them both. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:03am On Nov 23, 2017 |
LadySarah: You are right; can't be Igbo. He is yorubaa, nah them dey marry single mothers. An Igbo man rarely marries a single mother. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:03am On Nov 23, 2017 |
First she didn't tell you about the boy, next she names the boy by another man's name. Bro, you need to start asking the right question(s), so you don't end up old and miserable, and pls in the name of heaven , take your daughter for a paternity test.. 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by miqos02(m): 10:03am On Nov 23, 2017 |
U make the decision itself joor |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by kitaatita: 10:03am On Nov 23, 2017 |
ray121:It is best to use the name on the birth certificate to avoid issues in future. You are already a man by acceotinf to be the father figure. Continue along the line |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by adetes: 10:04am On Nov 23, 2017 |
Marriage issue hen, no b here o, y didn't she tell u initially before u get married to her, or do ur proper investigation may b with her friends. |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by victoronyekwelu(m): 10:04am On Nov 23, 2017 |
Now everyone is facing the woman what about men that impregnate ladies what should the woman do to them It's a dog chop dog world 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by zaynie(f): 10:04am On Nov 23, 2017 |
The child can't bear her father's name. Unless he denied the pregnancy and all fingers point that the boy is a bastardd. For the sake of the child, the child needs to bear his father's name especially as he is a boy. His father's name is every part of his identity. I can't even wrap my head around you having issues with the boy bearing his father's name. If you and your woman went your ways would you want her to revert your child's name to her father's? Please stop acting insecure before you ruin your marriage. Ray121 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by eph12(m): 10:04am On Nov 23, 2017 |
ray121:She was supposed to use which name? Remember you said you don't want to claim another man's son |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by tubolancer(m): 10:04am On Nov 23, 2017 |
There is probability she will go back to the father of her son. Watch her next move. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Pesuzok(m): 10:04am On Nov 23, 2017 |
ray121: But you knew you has a son before you married her. |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by pweetiedee(m): 10:05am On Nov 23, 2017 |
itiswellandwell: Wise |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Lexusgs430: 10:05am On Nov 23, 2017 |
ray121: Have you suggested adoption? Do you want to legally adopt him? It's her son, she can choose to do whatever she wishes..... If you have forgiven the big lie she told you, put that behind...... You can choose to not have any financial direct involvement, with her son (till you legally adopt him)... |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by hollandis(f): 10:05am On Nov 23, 2017 |
This kind of poster is not a man 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by fareed69(m): 10:05am On Nov 23, 2017 |
Go and Hang yourself |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:06am On Nov 23, 2017 |
ray121: If you cannot articulate your questions clearly, then you don't deserve an answer. Please, rewrite your hot mess |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by CavendishPlex: 10:06am On Nov 23, 2017 |
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Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by chccho(m): 10:07am On Nov 23, 2017 |
ray121:Oga u are just giving yourself headache and hypertension for nothing.i don't even see what the issue is here. So u want her to register the child in your name or what? My brother it doesn't matter what name she uses. Free your mind 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Oluwaseyi00(m): 10:07am On Nov 23, 2017 |
See OP, don't take any funny decision at all.. You' may not be his biological father but you're now his father by playing those fatherly roles.. The lad doesn't know anyone else aside you as his father and as for the name issue its nothing to worry about... The duty of the boy when he's of age is to take care of you as his biological father and if he doesn't.. He's already cursed without you saying anything. #I can relate. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Pataricatering(f): 10:07am On Nov 23, 2017 |
Was about to say the same thing you said but just realized that he can’t adopt him unless the real father gives up his rights to the boy ! The thing is the boy will always see him as the father if he raises him with love . Evacroft: |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:07am On Nov 23, 2017 |
This is just me, any man that marries a single mother has serious, very serious self esteem issues except you are doing it to gain something from her. One of the beauty of being a man is to raise your own blood, not another man's own except you can't have kids of your own and adopting. I doubt she will respect you because she knows you are not a real man...another man's child running up and down your roof and answering another man's name? WTF? You can't be Igbo; Igbo men cannot tolerate this nonsense; fear won't allow her try it. 13 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Had A Son For Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:08am On Nov 23, 2017 |
"is this really true love or i'm fooling myself?" Says it all. 1 Like |
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