We do not desire to experience disappointments or plan to break up when we enter a romantic relationship. However, events may happen that may warrant a break-up. Break-up after a very romantic relationship could be quite depressing and distressing and it could also be challenging to move on. Notwithstanding, one needs to move on and continue with life, particularly if there is no hope of a reunion. Every day we keep learning and growing; you should pick valuable lessons from the event and go forward.

Review the relationship
Review the relationship. What are the vital lessons you learnt in the former relationship. Start by checking the areas where you stumbled. Which of your actions, habits were wrong, and affected the relationship adversely? Are there attitudes that you need to work on? These are important questions that you need to ask yourself. The import of this review is not for you to indulge in guilt or self pity; it is meant for an objective appraisal of the situation. You also need to consider what were the mistakes and faults of the other person and areas where he should have done better. This would help you put things in proper perspective and not hold yourself responsible for the other person’s faults. This applies particularly to a situation where the break-up was largely his fault.

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