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Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by waywardpikin: 2:52pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
MissRaine69: They don't have kids. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by ehnkay: 3:18pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
EgunMogaji:Hope you're satisfied ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by MrBottle: 3:25pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
waywardpikin:They probably have a stronger bond than kids like maybe they buried a body together somewhere...or maybe my guys di.ck no dey rise when e see another babe. .you know how bad konji be. It's making doreto to crawl on his knees even to the point of seeking advise from some warped personalities on nairaland just to get back to his wife honeypot. IMHO |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Sexyolori(f): 3:32pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Pipedreams:just negodu this one... mtcheeew 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Sexyolori(f): 3:41pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Pipedreams:just negodu this one...mtcheew |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 3:55pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by BlueScholar(m): 5:09pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Lexusgs430: true ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by xtervaganza(m): 5:43pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
MissRaine69:if she does not care why should he? Thing is some of you ladies have become obscenely arrogant. A woman who is separated for months and made ni attempt at reconciliation is no longer interested in the marriage. Him asking for reconciliation would mean humiliating himself over nothing. He should try it. I'm 99% sure he would regret it |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Mariangeles(f): 5:57pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
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Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by MissRaine69(f): 5:58pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
xtervaganza: There are two sides to a story. Why conclude based on one side? |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by ehnkay: 6:47pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
EgunMogaji:Okay ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by eelipumper(m): 7:00pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
[quote author=Lexusgs430 post=66504510] They really do..... They simply add petrol to the burning fire, rather than look at burning issues, they start quoting scriptures and expect the woman to succumb....... [/quote>] My dear, some pastors are different. They've also saved Marriages. Stop painting them all black. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Blonchilli(m): 7:42pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Ishilove:Don't mind these indomie generation married couple. They think it's pre wedding pictures that's marriage. So because you didn't talk for two days you left husband house and he lock up for four months. Tufiakwa!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 8:11pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
I couldn't read the whole thread. Can someone tell me op's final decision and outcome? |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Dazzle86(f): 8:21pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
doreto:First both parties have to want to come together. This does not concern family. Families may never reconcile but you have to take a bold step. Put ego aside. Its possible, speaking from personal experience. Communicate with her,let her know you want your relationship back. If you dont ,years later you will always wonder if you did the right thing by just walking away. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Lexusgs430: 10:49pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
[quote author=eelipumper post=66597073][/quote] Unfortunately, a few drop of blood taints the river very quickly........ |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by xtervaganza(m): 12:12am On Apr 11, 2018 |
MissRaine69:the op did not tell us any story. So I don't see how I reached conclusion where there's no story. My point is that we don't know why they are separated but if the lady is still interested she would have reached put to him directly or indirectly |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by eelipumper(m): 5:42am On Apr 11, 2018 |
Lexusgs430:Hmmnm |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by deliciousgeh(f): 7:42am On Apr 11, 2018 |
Lexusgs430:Yes o especially if the husband has small change for pocket, they will heap all the blame on the wife and later call the man to ask for assistance which he will willingly provide; have been there, am still there but am getting out in Israel leave Egypt style and am taking my husband with me. No more pastor controls.... We go dey settle our matter ourselves! |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Lexusgs430: 8:21am On Apr 11, 2018 |
deliciousgeh: Money, the root, stem and branch of all evils...... 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 9:18pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 9:01am On Apr 13, 2018 |
After perusing this thread, weighting the pros and cons of courses of action as suggested by contributors, coupled with lots of self introspection as a result of the experiences while dating and marrying my ex,I have reached a decision to tow the path of honour. To take my destiny in my own hands alone.To take the simple path and never look back.I will never be initiating reconciliation with my ex. IDGAF. If they take the high road,help them pave it.Move on it is. Move on to the next. Move it must be. According to some contributors, succeed. Success is the greatest attractor. I must thank you all for your views and posts. If it's hard,it's not working.Friction decreases efficiency,if I remember correctly. I prefer simplicity in all my actions,that's mainly why I am taking this path. K.I.S.S. Thank you all once again. Have a splendid day, people! |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by coolcatty: 9:58am On Apr 13, 2018 |
doreto: Great decision bro... My favourite uncle that had your kind of problems used to say..''it is better your inlaws sees you as a wicked man than a weak man''..never you appear weak to your inlaws..especially igbo inlaws Let it go...take your time and fall in love again...good women dey....if that one doesn't work out..you try again..just keep trying. Goodluck man |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 10:53am On Apr 13, 2018 |
coolcatty: Did your uncle move on? |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by coolcatty: 11:03pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
Pipedreams: Niggah is married with 3 kids now....his 1st daughter is in jss2 now. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
coolcatty: Did he have any kids in d 1st marriage? |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by ikemeze: 4:06am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Butterflyleo: please send me message tonymez2002@yahoo.com |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 4:18am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Op thinks there are many fishes in the ocean... Bros na crayfish remain inside that water o. Make e no go clear for your eyes like my ex! Pride and ego is destructive. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Butterflyleo: 7:37am On Apr 14, 2018 |
ikemeze: Replied |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Aquablue: 11:44am On Apr 15, 2018 |
doreto: I know I am late to the party but Op,u need to man up and extend the olive branch. Especially she walked out on you. The grass is never greener on the other side,u just av to water ur own grass. Be the gentleman and take up the responsibility of texting and calling,till she openly tells you face to face that she isn't interested in the marriage. Swallow ur ego o |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by Nobody: 6:13pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
That train has left the station.People should especially stop harping on swallowing egos as a defeatist concept.If I accept I even have ego and then swallow it,it'll still be in me. ![]() ![]() ![]() If I want to display ego,my reaction would be no beautiful woman can leave me and start grovelling for her to return but I have let her go.This means I really don't act out of ego.I take my ballsy(just the same way I took the surprising decision to marry her) decisions based on sound analysis and strategy. ![]() ![]() ![]() Remember if you don't stand for something,you'll fall for anything.This is what man up means.You are brave and bold-and damn all the consequences. ![]() ![]() ![]() Thank you for caring though. ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Reconcile With My Wife. by InvertedHammer: 6:25pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
/ The greatest killer is "my case will be different" until the inevitable happens. If you think your destiny is tied to your ex, then go for reconciliation. In all, you haven't factored in why the marriage fell apart neither have you considered if she is open for reconciliation. I can only wish you luck while praying that you don't become part of statistics. Don't ever get married to a losing position. Pull a stop loss. / |
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