influentia:

PLEASE MY STORY IS LONG JUST TAKE PAIN TO READ IT

I am burning inside right now, I want to set my husband ablaze and watch him burn to ashes before my very eyes but my conscience wont just allow me. Only last night  I discovered that my husband is a serial r.a.p.i.st, for now I don’t know what to do to him.

We have had several people lived with us but they all left one after the other without any cogent reason. First it was my younger sister of about 20yrs who left us, enquired why, she just said she could just cope and she is no longer happy being in the house. Next was the house help we got, she left same way and abandoned our baby with our neighbours. I got a new one afterwards and she been saying she wants to leave  barely a month after she came and have been misbehaving seriously, though she is very respectful but she never take corrections, if u admonishes her about little things she will do worst. Yester night I got so very angry with her for the time that I raised my voice at her, questioning her upbringing and manners. Then she said “I am not who you think I am, am not dirty nor wayward, am only doing these things to hurt you deliberately cos of what I have been going through in your house” I couldn’t place a finger to what she was saying cos I treated her well, she dishes her food most times and I don’t disturb her with much work so wot could she be talking about??

When I probed further she told me wouldn’t talk about it and that she had written a parting letter and was going to drop it and leave it after taking baby to school but because I have been very nice to her and the way I spoke with her in the morning before I went to work she will tarry a little while I look for another person. She handed me 3 pages of written full scarp sheets I couldn’t believe wot I saw. She wrote how my husband despoiled her just the second day in  our house, she cried and shouted but there was no body to rescue her kai, and still persisted after then, when she refused my husband hated her with passion, I noticed the hatred too because he was always complaining about her, I thought it was cos of the girl’s sluggish attitude but to me that wasn’t enough for his bullies I was just quiet since she said she wasn’t staying again. I was dazed when she told me all these and couldn’t just hold myself but I apologized to her  and was going to pretend to my husband that I hadn’t heard anything.

I later heard that my younger sister confided in someone that she cos she couldn’t bear my husband advances and harassments anymore, same complain with the other house girl. And once u refuse him he displays total hatred towards them and start treating them like shirt. My husband used to like my sister a lot all of a sudden he wouldn’t just hear her name again, it was that bad.

The worst of all now is that someone have been violating my babygirl of 1yr 4mths+. She stays in the crèche  while I work. It’s so obvious that I see hairs around her private and she sticks her hands inside once in a while. The baby is so intelligent that she does everything that is been done to her. She pours water on herself and tries to bath herself, tries to wash her mouth, eat etc and now she is sticking her hand inside her private, it means someone have been doing that to her also + the redness around the p.area.
Her crèche is an open place, only matured women works there and there are other children there. I have been telling my friends that I was going to confront them, they said it cant be possible that it’s only in my imagination. Now I believe it’s my husband’s handwork.

In the middle of these thought he drove in and entered into the house, I just greeted him and he started laughing and getting romantic with me I was so red in anger and I told him they despoiled baby again today and started raining curses, he asked who took the baby to school, I said the house help, he started blaming me for not taking care of her I was so angry I told him how I might sure he is not the one despoiling her. He rose up to meet me, I gave him a hot bite and smashed his head, he bit me too and neighbours came in but we couldn’t say wot happened.

For now I don’t know wot to do other than killing him right now. Please my people I count on your advice

influentia:



[b]The worst of all now is that someone have been violating my babygirl of 1yr 4mths+. She stays in the crèche while I work. It’s so obvious that I see hairs around her private and she sticks her hands inside once in a while. The baby is so intelligent that she does everything that is been done to her. She pours water on herself and tries to bath herself, tries to wash her mouth, eat etc and now she is sticking her hand inside her private, it means someone have been doing that to her also + the redness around the p.area.[/b]couldn’t say wot happened.

influentia:

PLEASE MY STORY IS LONG JUST TAKE PAIN TO READ IT

I am burning inside right now, I want to set my husband ablaze and watch him burn to ashes before my very eyes but my conscience wont just allow me. Only last night I discovered that my husband is a serial r.a.p.i.st, for now I don’t know what to do to him.
For now I don’t know wot to do other than killing him right now. Please my people I count on your advice

adamse:

OMG! A 1YEAR OLD? @POSTER,i sincerely feel the pain in you myself. please i will advice you to be very careful in handling this.i think you should take it to GOD in prayer and then as someone said, see a spiritual leader.do not do anything funny! your daughter should be kept very safe now.this could go a long way for the baby,than you expect. A man like that will be very dangerous!be careful.geez,hen hen,

Big-Man @Poster - If i understand you well, your husband despoiled his own daughter? Habaaaa, this cant happen unless your husband is not a Nigerian or he is under curse.

Your thread is hard to believe especially the latter part on your daughter. Are you a Nigerian? Nigerians understand the consequences of making love to their own children let alone 1.4yrs old. You mean he can despoil that kid without injury occurring As per the other part of the story, get your facts well. Like someone suggested, call your sister and the former house girl to narrate their own versions.

If everything is proven, take your husband to the church for deliverance as this is not normal. Dont kill your husband. Remember the Bible says he who kill with sword must die with the sword.

Big-Man:

@Poster - If i understand you well, your husband despoiled his own daughter? Habaaaa, this cant happen unless your husband is not a Nigerian or he is under curse.

fifi09:

This is absolutely sickening…

I think you already know there are boundaries being crossed here. 

Please please do whatever it takes but do not let him be alone with her ever again.

Fhemmmy:

Been in same house with that kinda is even more sickening

omega25red:

[size=18pt]what you need to do is to take the hairs you found on your child and have a hospital analyse it or when you notice the redness and hairs call the cops so they can investigate. all this asking for advice is waste of time because the police should have been involved by now. [/size]

You also should call your sister and have her tell you everything and call the house helps too so when the cops lock his backside up he wont have an excuse to get off.
hurry up before he realises that something is going on.

ABOVE HIGHLIGHTED FOR YOU INCASE YOU DIDN'T SEE IT AND GET YOUR DAUGHTER TO A COMPETENT HOSPITAL ASAP, NA POTENTIAL VVF YOU DEY PLAY WITH LIKE THIS

chaircover:

No disrespect but please can the mothers on this forum stand up.

I'm sorry, but forget the housegirl, forget the sister, forget the freaking daycare & forget the damm job or whatever you are doing that is stopping you from being with your daughter 24/7 until you can get to the bottom of who is molesting your precious daughter.

What is wrong with people nowadays? People ready to sacrifice their own children just because they need a man in their lives and have to be Mrs Somebody.

You are still here looking for advise on Nairaland when a despicable crime and injustince is being carried out against your helpless daughter.

You are almost 100% sure that your baby is being molested and you are still here talking about it.

If anyone so much as touched my daughter I would murder the person in cold blood. No questions asked. If anyone touched my tropical fish, the person will be in trouble not to talk of my precious baby.

I don't know whether or nor the randy husband is molesting your daughter; it doesn't matter who it is. What matters is that it is happening and a stop should have been put to it long ago. So forget all the drama about biting and breaking peoples heads. If anyone's head should be broken it your head as the mother who should have her head broken. What one earth are you selling or which bank are you heading that is more important that making sure that your daughter is safe. You suspect your daughter is being s.e.xually abused and you still send her to the same daycare? Are you mad?

How foolish can you be. You are more interested in acting FBI or is it CIA and catching Mr randy husband sleeping with the housegirl & pretending to be Oprah or is it Montel and interviewing the sister than you are interested in finding out the lowlife (even if it is your husband) who is molesting your own daughter.

I feel like giving you a dirty slap to jar your brain into gear and getting your priorities right.