pls house i want u guys to help me just pls, i have this girlfriend frm the north central nd me,in abuja i'm the 1st child of our extended family,26,i had a job sumtym ago lost but she stil stick around.. but i'm hopin to hv here in abuja or either i go to her place my own is that i want to settle down. I need ur advice pls.

Just do it. Anything your eye see, take am like that.

I do not wish to discourage you from getting married because it's always a good thing when one finds a wife, but I sincerely hope it's not the girl putting you under pressure to marry her.

At 26, you're still a very young man and if you're older than her, it means you both still have time to develop your careers and increase your earning potentials.

The Nigerian environment today is all about cash, if you go into marriage with an empty pocket, the love may turn sour and the same lady forcing u to marry her would start admiring richer guys outside.

All the same, I am not God to determine the future, pray about it and ask your parents for wisdom.

Though I really didn't understand what you were explaining, I think you should go to see her parents so they would know you're fiance, do it quickly before another man takes your place.