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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 11:01am On Jan 04, 2019
AryEmber:
Poor thing was just trying to secure her future but some ladies are funny sha oh, who stays with a guy that told you he does not want commitment?
I taya for the matter o. The guy is inconsiderate. He is the one tying her down with an aimless relationship.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by zabuur: 11:01am On Jan 04, 2019
Ur children must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin - this statement really portrays ur maturity. Once u understand what hopes, dreams, ways and means are, then come ask for advice.

Coz right now, u only want to hear what suits you and believe what u wanna

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Nobody: 11:01am On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?



Please flee. Run for your life.

Meanwhile post her details here. I'm sure there are guys who won't mind taking her off your hands and making her the queen of their world.

You surely do not deserve that lady.

I hope she realizes this before it's too late.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Madcow(m): 11:01am On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?



You are a buffoon... you see a girl that likes you and your family and you are wasting time deceiving yourself... i hope she dumps your confused self and finds a real man who will value her... dodoyo! okpomu!! didirin oshi

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by DanDeeBoss(m): 11:04am On Jan 04, 2019
Tomkinh:
Yy
Zz gringrin
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by simplyOJ(m): 11:04am On Jan 04, 2019
franchasng:
She didn't do anything wrong please forgive her.

You are a man, so you won't understand the pressure ladies face to get married, always consider that.

At least you confessed that she is a good lady, so why throw the bathwater with the crying baby, huh

Meanwhile, our destinies differ, some of us may never make it so big like we desire until we settle down. Success takes time, and if you keep waiting, maybe by the time your big success is destined to occur, you may have lost all the amazing ladies worthy to be your wife, and will be left with slay queens professing fake love based on the big success you have achieved.

You can agree with her to settle down and not give birth yet until a certain agreed time, strict agreement, and that's if truly she meets the criteria of your dream wife or woman, if not, please sincerely let her go so she doesn't keep wasting her time cos time don't wait for ladies, their biological clock tic faster than ours, my opinion though, wish you the best in whatever you decide smiley

You just hit the nail on its head.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by babyfaceafrica: 11:04am On Jan 04, 2019
Jaynom:

And you're expecting her to stick around for you to conquer the world? You're sleeping with her. You have full access to her body and you don't want her to tie you down? Deep down you know you're only Using Her to cure your Kónji!
they are sleeping with each other please

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by amp01(m): 11:04am On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?


If she is my sister,I will tell her to move on with her life.Guys like you,can not be trusted later in the future.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Vectorchuks: 11:05am On Jan 04, 2019
You are a big fool to think this way. If you are not ready to marry her why tie her down. For her to get close to your mum makes her wiser than you. Nonsense

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Nobody: 11:05am On Jan 04, 2019
Nigerian sha...we no get chill..
The OP is getting what he didn't expect, insults thrown at him from every angle...Let me add mine...
It's either OP is plainly stupid of stupidly plain

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by franchasng: 11:05am On Jan 04, 2019
Godsgal:
And this happens to be the same person that bragged about his achievements earlier. what else do u wish to achieve before u finally settle mr banger
Some guys love to be well achieved before they settle down. Some wish to own their own house(s), at least 2 solid cars, a well established business or company; not all guys love to marry working for someone whether big company or small company.

Some wish to achieve a lot, while some achieve it, some don't, but that's the wish of majority of Igbo guys especially, and I suspect the op is an Igbo guy, check well, u can take it to bank cool

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 11:05am On Jan 04, 2019
firstolalekan:
I swear to GOD, this guy is a bloody fooooooooooooooooooooool

I don't know why some girl just get unfortunate to be with assholes


What a senseless kid your are


You are not even matured enough for relationship talk more of marriage

That girl will be doing herself a huge favor if she dumps you as soon as possible.



ODE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
couldn't have said it better. See me here wishing I can have enough just to fulfill marriage rites and foot bills a wedding and here is someone who is probably doing okay but wants to wait till he and Dangôte start walking on the beach holding hands drinking champagne and calling figures in trillions which may never happen. Dude is just wasting the poor lady's time.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by AleAirHub(m): 11:06am On Jan 04, 2019
Life is very funny sha. If I see a good girl of your girlfriend type ,this year will not pass me by. Who told you if you get married and you will never achieve your life purpose.
Well I wish you best of luck
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?


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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Cutiekatty: 11:07am On Jan 04, 2019
Marry her she is a woman that can build your home with you. Don't be upset with her forgive her and move on

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by reservd(m): 11:09am On Jan 04, 2019
AryEmber:
Poor thing was just trying to secure her future but some ladies are funny sha oh, who stays with a guy that told you he does not want commitment?
She hasn't seen another that why

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Jaynom(m): 11:10am On Jan 04, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
they are sleeping with each other please
Nice grin

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by reservd(m): 11:10am On Jan 04, 2019
If u lose dt girl, u wl surely regret it, go easy on her and do d needful, no time to waste time

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Dinho20(m): 11:10am On Jan 04, 2019
NOT A BIG DEAL.

AS FOR ME, NO ONE CAN TIE ME DOWN,
BECAUSE WHAT I NEED/WANT IS NOT IN NIGERIA,

WETIN DEY HUNGRY ME DEY FOR EUROPE.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by otunbadan(m): 11:11am On Jan 04, 2019
You re mad and stupid ... #ModPleaseNoBan me because I deserved freedom of expression


Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?


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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by paulpery: 11:11am On Jan 04, 2019
If you are not ready for commitment, free her. women have no time to waste.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by melaninpop: 11:11am On Jan 04, 2019
firstolalekan:
I swear to GOD, this guy is a bloody fooooooooooooooooooooool

I don't know why some girl just get unfortunate to be with assholes


What a senseless kid your are


You are not even matured enough for relationship talk more of marriage


God bless you!!!

That girl will be doing herself a huge favor if she dumps you as soon as possible.



ODE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 04, 2019
the only reason you want to break up is because she sent stuff to your mother? I don't have any advice for you. just do what is on your mind now and in a few years time, you will know if you made the right choice

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Emmexguy123: 11:11am On Jan 04, 2019
Bros please just share her contact here on nairaland so that people like us will caution her,,advice her on what to do and also tell you what to do..
Thank you and I'm or we are really expecting the contact..

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by AndLeo(m): 11:12am On Jan 04, 2019
You are still feeling your self. Life never show you pepe. A girl that loves you to the extent of buying your mum gift. What do you even think you are.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by EphraimBoat: 11:13am On Jan 04, 2019
Bro, first if you will read this with all sincerity, then imma speak!!

She has done absolutely nothing wrong!! She is just doing the normal thing you would do if you were in love!! Now, most ladies won't even do what she is doing, just this morning, on this same nairaland, I read where a girl wants to break up because her guy got his own mother a car and got her a phone.

If you will be in a relationship, it should be geared towards marriage, at least that's the original idea. You won't blame her for what she is doing, sit her down and ask her for the real reason behind her actions.

If you will break up with her, even if she builds a house for your mother, you will still break up! Just chill!

From all indications, she is a responsible girl trying to get in your good books, ain't nothing wrong with that. If you have a sister and she is with someone for 2 years, you would hope they end up together. You will date other girls and they will outrightly disrespect your mother.

If you want to break up with her, please kindly hand her over to me. Even if we are not committed now, she is the kind of person we will like to end up with when we do!

Cheers

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by anonymous1759(m): 11:14am On Jan 04, 2019
Husband is scare if you no you no.... cool cool cool cool i wish all men can be like me... Them for they fill application... Recruitment age will be 18-24 grin grin if you're above the age bracket OYO is your name. tongue tongue
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Pat4321: 11:15am On Jan 04, 2019
1, Why dates her for two years without intentions of marriage? That's wickedness
2,Such a desperate lady could aboundon and dump your mother,afyer she has succeeded in marrying you. Because her intentions were not from a good hearts, if not she could have requested for your permission to do that.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Acos925(m): 11:15am On Jan 04, 2019
Guy....e be like say ori e o pe? (e be like say ur head no correct?)

You better stay with the gal. its normal to feel dt way for every lady. You should thank your star that you even mentioned that she is not beggy beggy...and she is a working too.

Na slay queen wey dem pant don turn logo benz u prefer abi....

I pity ur case o


Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?


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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Willie2015: 11:15am On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?

Even, Mumsi said
"Who is that nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime"

You are very lucky ... Dude
When you bring another chick and your Mumsi tell you that she will disown you 5 times...
U will understand the value of Lilian......
Just wait till you are 50 before you get marry
Ur brain will reset properly...

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by MyTototear: 11:15am On Jan 04, 2019
The only reason I find it difficult to be harsh on you is because you told her your terms and conditions that you are not ready for any commitment and she foolishly decided to remain with you. But you may end up regretting when you lose her and get married to her opposite in nature. Men are so confused.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by emeraldknytt(m): 11:20am On Jan 04, 2019
This OP is one of the most unserious man I have ever heard of in my lifetime. A girl, supposedly your girlfriend, reached out to your mum in her own way of reducing pressure from your parents when it comes to asking and you are here complaining that she's trying to tie you down with marriage. All I see is a girl who is husband worthy and a guy, such as the OP, who misinterpretes every single good opportunity that comes his way. Guys will always be the one who want to settle down with a young blood yet, they waste the time of some other young compassionate blood. Honestly, this OP is really ungrateful. My advice to you is, you owe that lady an apology. Consequently, you can tell her about how her little extension was a thorn in your flesh.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Ab025(m): 11:20am On Jan 04, 2019
@Poster

You are still reasoning like a kid

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