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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Psalmologi(m): 12:11pm On Jan 04, 2019
You better stop forming DON and a fucking tight to that lady, she worth given a trial. Don't be a jerk unnecessarily, lady like that is rare. Commitment will come later.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Jan 04, 2019
I've been there done that, BUT for your own good...

RESPECT & ADORE THAT LADY!

#SHES ONE OF THE FEW RARE SPECIES fast going extinct!
#A WORD IS ENOUGH.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jan 04, 2019
The painful truth is that most BOYS don't appreciate good girls, only few MEN do. They love the ones that show them pepper. You are not even happy that she is showing your mom love, you have not seen girls who treat their mother in laws like trash.

You can't date a girl for two years and expect her not to want marriage. You should have told her from the onset that you wont marry her, not when things have gotten this far.

My ex is still regretting he left a nice person like me, girls have showed him pepper, but its too late, I am already married to a man who appreciates me.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by AleAirHub(m): 12:16pm On Jan 04, 2019
Seenyo:
I've been there done that, BUT for your own good...


RESPECT & ADORE THAT LADY!


#SHES ONE OF THE FEW RARE SPECIES fast going extinct!

#A WORD IS ENOUGH.

Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by srclark: 12:17pm On Jan 04, 2019
AryEmber:
Poor thing was just trying to secure her future but some ladies are funny sha oh, who stays with a guy that told you he does not want commitment?
atleast he his sincere and only acting according to his present situation better than wasting your precious time on deceivers that use these words "I AM LOOKING FOR A GIRL THAT IS READY TO SETTLEDOWN"all cause they want to get in between your legs

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Anijay1212(m): 12:18pm On Jan 04, 2019
publicenemy:

you are a fool.
The "boy" is mad.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by babyfaceafrica: 12:18pm On Jan 04, 2019
MamaTuoyo:
The painful truth is that most BOYS don't appreciate good girls, only few MEN do. They love the ones that show them pepper. You are not even happy that she is showing your mom love, you have not seen girls who treat their mother in laws like trash.

You can't date a girl for two years and expect her not to want marriage. You should have told her from the onset that you wont marry her, not when things have gotten this far.

My ex is still regretting he left a nice person like me, girls have showed him pepper, but its too late, I am already married to a man who appreciates me.
so sending recharge card is love showing?..aime people date for 5 years and more so spare us the two years epistle...... the guy is not ready,therefore the gal should have left, instead of showing love to the mom

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by boomssey(f): 12:18pm On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?


no pls just forgive her.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Adiwana: 12:20pm On Jan 04, 2019
Aint nothing to add here as many have really said it but in case you read this,look at this

1)You cannot point a particular flaw of hers that's preventing you from putting the ring on her finger

2)She's independent and makes her own money

3)Is reaching out to your family.Has already gotten your moms approval which is the most difficult part

4)From your own words,will make a good wife irrespective of the amount she makes

5)Is not a leech that depends on you

WTF are you still waiting for??You have your own money,she has her own and you want to own to whole world before you make her your wife??You think there aren't richer and more successful folks than you that are hitting on her??Her working at Oando means she's meeting a very good caliber of men that are willing to love and cherish her and she still with your ass??Bro,once another man starts showing her the attention you are currently denying her,you will lose her for good and trust me you will never meet anyone like her.You will regret for the rest of your life.Act fast and wife her up you ungrateful nitwit or drop her info here
A lot here are looking for this rare gem and trust me she will get married before June.Act wisely

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Deapexboy(m): 12:21pm On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?



Why displaying ur childishness?
If you don't want her to communicate with your people just tell her, and I quess if she is wise she will knw it red flag for her, but wait you just want to keep ble*ping her until you hammer then you tell her stories.

A time will come when you beg ur slayqueens to talk to ur mum self.
You carry ur small pikin character from 2018 enter 2019

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Jman06(m): 12:21pm On Jan 04, 2019
Ugosample:


but then, if he has given her the impression that he is going to marry her like ASAP, then he is at fault.

The way relationships work in Nigeria is just bizarre cheesy
From the post he never gave her such impression. The lady is the one trying to rope him in by all means.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by AleAirHub(m): 12:22pm On Jan 04, 2019
@Driggs

I'm replying here twice because I love you & most advice here has been goodwill/good wish advice.

Your girlfriend type is just 1% out of 100 girls & in case you don't need her again with duly respect , drop me her number.

Be Wise Bro.

Thanks

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by srclark: 12:23pm On Jan 04, 2019
Seenyo:
I've been there done that, BUT for your own good...


RESPECT & ADORE THAT LADY!


#SHES ONE OF THE FEW RARE SPECIES fast going extinct!

#A WORD IS ENOUGH.
you are so on point let him be over reacting there he his only pushing the girl away and if he his not careful he wilk regret in the nearest future she might actually be ready for the long wait ( which in the real sense is not really long if they both know what they are doing )
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Reeberry: 12:23pm On Jan 04, 2019
You are in a relationship her, acting like you love her, but don't want to marry her, while you keep sleeping with her.

You are nothing more than a he-goat.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by alujonjonkijon: 12:23pm On Jan 04, 2019
the guy is right.why cant she wait for him to introduce her to his mummy.this is the meaning of witchcraft,why try to box the guy into the marriage he is not yet ready for.please have a talk with her and tell her to go if she cant wait.the feeling and the timing must be mutual;.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Deapexboy(m): 12:26pm On Jan 04, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
so sending recharge card is love showing?..aime people date for 5 years and more so spare us the two years epistle...... the guy is not ready,therefore the gal should have left, instead of showing love to the mom

Had it mean the girl dumped this as* hole Op

The op will still come and cry to us here on NL that girls are wicked
Most boys like slayqeens joor

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Jman06(m): 12:27pm On Jan 04, 2019
JennyOfOldstones:
Driggs, I saw when you made this post earlier but I couldn't comment only to see it a few hours later on front page under a different headline which I think is more insulting to your girlfriend than the previous one. I hope you lose her because of your selfishness and immaturity and I assure I'll be the first commenter to laugh at you on your subsequent post on Nairaland complaining about the greedy girlfriend/wife you have when you finally "become" DJ Khaled.
SMH.....even your financial role model says a lot about you. Couldn't even pick people like Richard Branson, Jeff Bezos or Zuckerberg
So, in the whole country only that particular lady qualifies as "good girl"

Tell that to the birds!

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by babyfaceafrica: 12:29pm On Jan 04, 2019
Deapexboy:


Had it mean the girl dumped this as* hole Op

The op will still come and cry to us here on NL that girls are wicked
Most boys like slayqeens joor
let her dump him first..how can a guy say he is not married and you stayed?..that implies you are not serious
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by XDaBOSS(m): 12:31pm On Jan 04, 2019
I being wan insult u b4, i come realise say u xlf no know wetin u want. Cuz she called ur mom "mother in-law" u start open chest for her de form man, all in d name of anger. Na crime mk she show ur mom care abi na crime mk she love u?
My advice to you is, kindly break up with her cuz she's too good for u(that's your fear). Nd secondly, u no fit combine hustle n relationship cuz its like serving two masters at the same time. Just break up, go hustle...if u ready to settle down, find ur xlf a partner...shikina....!
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by pedrilo: 12:33pm On Jan 04, 2019
see mumu

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Deapexboy(m): 12:35pm On Jan 04, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
let her dump him first..how can a guy say he is not married and you stayed?..that implies you are not serious

Boys with lies this same op might be buying time with one reason just to be hitting her jack pot

I am 100% sure the op didn't even openly tell girl he is not ready for marriage
Guys!! Fear us

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by excessmon(m): 12:35pm On Jan 04, 2019
my questions bro to you is this..please dont get angry .just honest answers please.

1. how old are you now?

2. how much have you made exactly since you have been hustling?

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by dontizzo: 12:35pm On Jan 04, 2019
The truth of the matter is; if you are not ready for a serious relationship with a lady, then don't get utterly committed! She knowing that you were some how down financially based on what happened you, was only trying to help, or would you say she has never helped you before? Guy, time is not her friend, please release her to reasonable men. She don't need a man like you. Your woman must help you in some ways in as much you loved each other.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by ashjay001(m): 12:39pm On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?



U didn't tell her, u wouldn't marry her now? Just told her to be patient, till u hammered?!

What's bad in getting to know d in-laws, while waiting?

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by JennyOfOldstones(f): 12:40pm On Jan 04, 2019
Jman06:
So, in the whole country only that particular lady qualifies as "good girl"

Tell that to the birds!
Hello Birds, Jman06 said I should tell you something......
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 12:43pm On Jan 04, 2019
my Love, i was thinking the same thing..
AryEmber:
Poor thing was just trying to secure her future but some ladies are funny sha oh, who stays with a guy that told you he does not want commitment?
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by correctguy101(m): 12:49pm On Jan 04, 2019
What a slowpoke, $mh undecided
That your last line eh, na small pikin dey do you.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by samsam2019: 12:50pm On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?


some don't even know a good thing when they have it.



What's your problem? No mee vex for you oo

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by correctguy101(m): 12:51pm On Jan 04, 2019
What a slowpoke, $mh undecided
That your last line eh, na small pikin dey do you.
Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by emoney2012(m): 12:51pm On Jan 04, 2019
Bros send me her number. You don't deserve her. You may not get a good girl again after I hv taken her. Fool.

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by oyebanji(m): 12:51pm On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?





"You want to own the world" Do you know what that means?
Bros getting married to someone that loves you is a blessing and you can still "own the world" even in marriage.
You no wan marry am but you can date her Abi?
Unless you have fundamental issues bros...make hay.....

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Re: She Wants To Tie Me Down With Marriage. Should I End My 2-Year-Old Relationship? by Blakjewelry(m): 12:53pm On Jan 04, 2019
Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?


bros since you don't appreciate what you have, just text me her number but I promise you, you will come begging

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