Abeg no hurt that Innocent gal.. You are even lucky to have a nice gal like her.
You only told us about the airtime she has been sending your mum . you never told us about her little help to you since your were rob.
Abeg kpachara anya.

Zeinymira:


Thank you for this

You are welcome sis..

Jman06:
The lady is acting all holy now because she feels she has seen a maga to marry. After marriage the real character will come out. Women and their selfishness!

a childhood neighbour of mine fell into the same trap.

now that she is now a "Mrs."

the real character is out

a lot of young men in Nigeria get scammed in such fashion ALL THE TIME and I feel so sorry for them

Driggs, dont be stup!d. That's a girl to wed already. She looks like a girl that would catalyse your ambition and it's better you start a family real quick. Maybe two kids quickly, raise them early and start enjoying together.

Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?

you refused to pick her calls,refused your mum's,for what?-she called your mum and sent her airtime. Doesn't all these tell us,and even you,the type of human being you are.

You need to grow up man,you can achieve all you want even when married, in fact,faster.

Please be specific,is she a pump attendant at Oando ?

Ugosample:


good


pursue that if, indeed that is what you want

THANKS!
I KNOW WHAT I WANT

Driggs, I saw when you made this post earlier but I couldn't comment only to see it a few hours later on front page under a different headline which I think is more insulting to your girlfriend than the previous one. I hope you lose her because of your selfishness and immaturity and I assure I'll be the first commenter to laugh at you on your subsequent post on Nairaland complaining about the greedy girlfriend/wife you have when you finally "become" DJ Khaled.
SMH.....even your financial role model says a lot about you. Couldn't even pick people like Richard Branson, Jeff Bezos or Zuckerberg

MzTunechi:
sexual gratification

She better pack her bag and run, at this rate he would never buy the cow, while the milk and cheese is FREE........

mcgaius:
Please be specific,is she a pump attendant at Oando ?

Now go and face the wall and raise both legs.....



.

I suppose this guy is still immature and a kid,how many gals will be nice to your mother like this?and besides,she is not a begging begging lltype as u say?I don't see anything wrong on her own side,u are just being childish,to me u a a mumuuu

Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?

What are you feeling like?




Infact you are mad

Jman06:
The lady is acting all holy now because she feels she has seen a maga to marry. After marriage the real character will come out. Women and their selfishness!

WOMEN CAN BE FUNNY,
I KNOW WOMEN MORE THAN THEY KNOW THEMSELVES.

Yeye talk. You dey get mad at the girl. Did she use your money to buy stuff for your mother? Your mom is wiser than both you and the girl. If she saw her as not a nice person, she would have told you. You have no justifiable reason to feel trapped. Very useless talk. If you don't love her, do not waste her time. Some guys reason like kids. Posts like yours get me tired of Nigeria. Damn!

Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?

I can only tell u good gals are hard to find. “IF” u find one and u love her don’t mess it up. Sm gals actually support ur dreams and push u further rather than draw u back. U may or may not have it all set b4 u marry it all depends on hardwork, luck, time and chance.

If she’s the type that will draw u back or slow u down once married then put marriage on hold. As per what she has done by calling ur mum I can’t be totally sure of her motives bt if she was just being nice or acting out of desperation bt Desperation is nice at all.

Ugosample:


a childhood neighbour of mine fell into the same trap.

now rgar she is now a "Mrs."

the real character is out

a lot of young men in Nigeria get scammed in such fashion ALL THE TIME and I feel so sorry for them

I tell you! That is why a sensible guy should marry at his own time and on his own terms. Never let anybody trick or blackmail you into marriage!

If I were op, I won't be deceived by what anybody is typing here but stick to my plans.

soberdrunk:
This is so wrong! How will she do that!!!?? Infact send me her number ASAP let me correct her!!!

Op, please this dude has the best advice of all, how dare she show love to your mother? how dare she give little appreciative gifts of airtime to your mumsy? Cant she be like some other girls that fight and hate the mans mum even without any reason, please sharply give her number to soberdrunk let him correct her asap


immature boy.. .

Poster, you are a fool.
Just imagine wasting my precious time to read your childish gibberish.
Mtscheeeeeeeeeeeeeew

Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?

You have a very good girl if u lose her out of carelessness and childishness, na u sabi.

Some guys sha, me dey like this kind lady. She has something doing and can be a supporting system financially. People that are getting married these days never own the world before taking the bold step. It's your choice anyway. Connect me to her if you don't want.

jaxxy:



I can only tell u good gals are hard to find. If u find one and u love her don’t mess it up. Sm gals actually support ur dreams and push u further rather than draw u back. U may or may not have it all set b4 u marry it all depends on hardwork, luck, time and chance.

If she’s the type that will draw u back or slow u down once married then put marriage on hold. As per what she has done by calling ur mum I can’t be totally sure of her motives bt if she was just being nice or acting out of desperation bt Desperation is nice at all.

How did you know that the girl is good! Because she sent recharge cards to his mom? That's a trick some ladies employ to lure a guy into marriage. After marriage the real character will come out.

Guy's should simply marry when they are ready and not get tricked into marriage.

OP it is too early in 2019 for this kind iregbe. Go and sin no more

Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?

You won't value what you have until you lose it.

Besides, reading what you wrote here goes a long way to explain how childish you are. You have a girl who is not a "beggy beggy slay queen," she has a job and have been with you for two years, assumably giving you full access to her body yet all this while you have not conquered the world and you obviously don't know when as it appears marriage is not in your plan this year.

O boy, you don't deserve that girl and the earlier she leaves you, the better for her. You are too childish to be dating a family oriented girl like her. There are a lot more other girls that can wait for you while you conquer the world, but certainly not this one. Two years, she has tried abeg.

Jman06:
I tell you! That is why a sensible guy should marry at his own time and on his own terms. Never let anybody trick or blackmail you into marriage!

If I were op, I won't be deceived by what anybody is typing here but stick to my plans.

but then, if he has given her the impression that he is going to marry her like ASAP, then he is at fault.

The way relationships work in Nigeria is just bizarre

publicenemy:

you are a fool.

The boy is mad,an idiot and a foolish fool.

Jman06:
How did you know that the girl is good! Because she sent recharge cards to his mom? That's a trick some ladies employ to lure a guy into marriage. After marriage the real character will come out.

Guy's should simply marry when they are ready and not get tricked into marriage.

Lol I didn’t say she is or is not, I meant/said if she is then he should hold on to her if possible. He should have known if she a good gal b4 now since they have been 2geda for 2years. This has nothing to do with the recent act of giving his Mum recharge card. Read my full text and u will see My thoughts on her interactions with his mum.

I laugh at people who think the gal is a good gal?..so because a lady buys airtime for your mum makes her a good gal?..una never see anything!!..it is when a lady is married that you know if she is good or not..women are very crafty fellows..be wise!!!!..an act of kindness should never be translated to goodness.. only the OP knows why he is not ready yet!!

Jman06:
The lady is acting all holy now because she feels she has seen a maga to marry. After marriage the real character will come out. Women and their selfishness!

Only you and babyfaceafrica have seen through that "innocent" ladys' act.Sending recharge cards to dear old mummy?All na film trick If she eventually marries the son,that same "nice" lady will not let Mama enter her sons' house.I have seen it all with women especially the Nigerian version

Jman06:
I tell you! That is why a sensible guy should marry at his own time and on his own terms. Never let anybody trick or blackmail you into marriage!

If I were op, I won't be deceived by what anybody is typing here but stick to my plans.

Honestly, I was surprised that many of the people commenting here were blasting the OP.

So, he should marry the girl because she calls his mom and sends her airtime? I have heard another one today. My uncle's wife did more than that when she was still dating my uncle. Today, my grandmom cannot even speak to her own son, my uncle if the wife doesn't approve it.

Although I am not dating currently, if I ever decide to date a girl and she starts to get too close to my mom or any other of my family members, I would break up with her. That's what they use in trapping "nice" guys and after you marry them, they turn against the very people they were friendly with initially.

BetWinners:

Only you and babyfaceafrica have seen through that "innocent" ladys' act.SAllending recharge cards to dear old mummy?All na film trick

don't mind all this naive and telemundo-striken people shouting she is a good gal?..a gal send recharge cards means she is a good gal?...I can't understand that rhetoric...

Abeg link me with the lady.

You call a lady who have dated you for at least 2 years desperate?you dont evem know what you want amd i wish she realises fast that you are not the right one for her.Please just end it and stop wasting her time Mr Selfish Man...

Driggs:
I am not ready for commitments and I told my girl to chill for some more time.. I am an ambitious young man and I must own the world before I decide to marry.. My kids must chop life pass DJ Khalid pikin..

She agreed and everything is fine.. She's not a beggy beggy slayqueen.. She works with Oando. Lately, I was robbed and my belongings was carted away.. So, I had to use her phone to contact my parents so they can know I am fine until I retrieve my SIM.

Fast forward to yesterday, my mom called and asked me about the "nice girl who has been calling her and sending her massive airtime". I was dumbfounded and just hung up.. I called Lillian and she was all teary on the phone when I confronted her saying "she just wanted to be friendly with her "mother-in-law" blah blah..

That was when I flared up. It was like rubbing salt on an Okada accident wound..

She's been calling and I am not picking.. My mom's been calling too, I guess she's explained the situation to her..

A lady that is so desperate to tie me down with marriage by doing stuffs I didn't bargain for can go ahead and tie my destiny later..

Should I flee? Should I give her another chance?