Hi nairalanders me and my girlfy had a big fight yesterday cos i complained that she wears makeup which i dont like,she is a beautiful and very dark person and i always tell her that dark women dont look good with makeup cos thay ave natural beauty and the makeups only makes them look more like maqurades,she flawed up and said she can neva do without makeup,i called her later that nite she did not pick up,later when i called she picked up and i asked her why she did not pick up earlier she just told me dat she is not in the mood to talk to me i hung up immediiately since then we ave not spoken,now the question is it a crime to tell ur babe what u like or dont like about her.

You did the right thing dude.

Omo just leave her some girls are addicted to make ups. U can only advice her to use it lightly. That u dont like it when its too much as time goes on she will forget about it

there is no offence in what u did. personally, i dont do make-up, i only wear it if d occasion demands~

you prolly told her in a rude way. . . . i see no reason why she should act up if you said it in a nice way

who knows sha. . . the make up might be hiding alot of things abt her face

yea ryt!

i did not tell her in a rude way,we were just having a drink and told her in a subtle and gentle way that i don;t like she just flawed up and said my trouble is too much that i;m always complaining i don;t like this i don;t like that this is a girl that told me she does not like smoking when we meet and i gave it up under one month of our meeting till now,i believe relationship should be a give and take affair period.

Omolola1:

there is no offence in what u did. personally, i dont do make-up, i only wear it if d occasion demands~

ehhen i never knew that, anyway im learning everyday~

shez prolly not comfortable in her own skin den and if its the make up dat will boost her self esteem then let it be

its better to av a[i] masqurade[/i] wiv self esteem than a natural chic who cant look at yuh in the face just because she feels shez not good enuf wivout mary kay

bro just tell her to bleach!!

@190,seems there re many things u dont know about me! make up is kool, but wearing it all d tym wuld take away d natural

see dis 1 o! when did i call your cork infected name?

Omolola1:

@190,seems there re many things u dont know about me! make up is kool, but wearing it all d tym wuld take away d natural

Honey.Thats nice.i dont really like ladies who pack enough PAN-CAKE and eye LEAD full face.
Everytin about u just kips playing out 2 my own kinda dream gurl.Ure busting my head here ooh, I hope i would be able 2 sleep well this nite~

ROTFLMAO! i hope u don't, i hope u stay up late thinkng about me just like i do, lol

Mr Cork:

Omololatalo , baby do i look like a midget to u? why u mixing me up with 190??

@op
it is a crime. . .she ain't ur wife yet.Look b4 u leap

You're both immature. You're having a tiff. . .over make-up. Flaring up, ignoring calls, hanging up on each other. . .over make-up. Let that sink in for a moment and then ask yourself how you'll react when you have issues over serious matters like money, faith, children, how to manage a household, etc. Let me stop because I may be getting ahead of myself as this relationship sounds new and/or superficial. There's no crime in stating your preference but be prepared for a response that goes counter to your reasoning. I can't even imagine having a 'fight' over make-up; have mercy.

Gosh . . isn't NL filled with crappy topics these days?

What the heck are we supposed to do about that? If you can't deal with a little disagreement then maybe you should'nt be in a relationship at all!

*roolllllllz eyez*

I mean what next are you guys going to come up with?

'I told my GF I love her and she said she loves me too . . . . Do you think she means it'?

'Please NLders help me, my BF is falling in love with another girl. I know this because he waved to her while he was on a date with me'

'My GF's mother aked me if I want to marry her daughter or if I'm just sleeping with her for the fun of it. Please NLders, what do I tell her?'


Geeeeeeez guys, give it a rest. This forum is supposed to be fun!

Ujujoan:

I mean what next are you guys going to come up with?

'I told my GF I love her and she said she loves me too . . . . Do you think she means it'?

'Please NLders help me, my BF is falling in love with another girl. I know this because he waved to her while he was on a date with me'

'My GF's mother aked me if I want to marry her daughter or if I'm just sleeping with her for the fun of it. Please NLders, what do I tell her?'


Geeeeeeez guys, give it a rest. This forum is supposed to be fun!

sister u don't need 2 squeeze ur face.U can make it "fun" 4 us by opening "meaningful" threads,than just perching around threads 4 criticism.

bruffy:

Hi nairalanders me and my girlfy had a big fight yesterday cos i complained that she wears makeup which i dont like,she is a beautiful and very dark person and i always tell her that dark women dont look good with makeup cos thay ave natural beauty and the makeups only makes them look more like maqurades,she flawed up and said she can neva do without makeup,i called her later that nite she did not pick up,later when i called she picked up and i asked her why she did not pick up earlier she just told me dat she is not in the mood to talk to me i hung up immediiately since then we ave not spoken,now the question  is it a crime to tell your babe what u like or dont like about her.

I'm sure you girlfriend is beautiful, but you need to understand that it is a personal choice for her. I don't know what kind of dark skin women you are looking at there but the dark skin women here wear make up and they look amazing. Anyway, its her choice. If it bothers you so much then keep it movin'.

philip0906:

sister u don't need 2 squeeze your face.U can make it "fun" 4 us by opening "meaningful" threads,than just perching around threads 4 criticism.

lol lol

philip0906:

sister u don't need 2 squeeze your face.U can make it "fun" 4 us by opening "meaningful" threads,than just perching around threads 4 criticism.

And you can contribute your quota by getting rid of yourself!

Ujujoan:

And you can contribute your quota by getting rid of yourself!

y r u hitting ur head on d wall b'cos of my little contribution?

thweraja10:

Omo just leave her some girls are addicted to make ups. U can only advice her to use it lightly.

true.

philip0906:

y r u hitting your head on d wall b'cos of my little contribution?

Trust me, it's not my head I'm hitting on the wall!